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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: rinaxeee on 09 September 2014, 02:58:01 am
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As the title says - do you charge more for the couples booking?
I charge the same, but one client told me that this rate is being 'reasonable' for couples booking. So I was wondering if you normally charge higher than normal rate.
Also if you do 2 gents booking, meaning 2 guys and 1 female (you). For this I think I need to charge more but how much more? I have no idea..
Any comment will be helpful. Thanks in advance :)
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I charge 100 extra for MF bookings. I've only been in a situation with more than one guy once, for that it was an extra (1st) hour per guy that was intimate with me.
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I charge my "All Inclusive" rate for any couples, regardless of their gender, since I am largely charging for the time & as the name of the service suggests, all sexual services are inclusive. ;D
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I advertise double my rate for couples/MMF because as far I'm concerned I'm having sex with two people at once regardless of gender. I haven't had any requests yet as I'm fairy new but I wouldn't do it for less than that.
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For threesomes, I charge slightly less than double my hourly fee. I think it's doing more work so I'm not willing to do it at my normal rates. I charge the same for MMF as FFM because like KDB says, it's mostly for the time.
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I charge ?100 more than my hourly rate for couples (MF)...I dont see MM couples but if I did I reckon id charge double.
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I don't charge extra for MF couples, though I have a few more security check hoops for them to jump through (for outcalls) as most couple bookings aren't legit. I guess I don't see another lady in the room as extra work for me (but then I am Bi)! I don't see multiple men though, for safety reasons, and I'd definitely charge more for multiple guys if I did decide to see them.
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I charge ?50 more, I insist on speaking to the female involved, a lot of guys say "Ok I'll get her to call you to confirm" most of the time the female never calls! I would never want to do a booking with a wife/partner that was only doing it to keep her man happy x
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Definitely. My rules with couples are
24+ hours notice
speak with all parties involved
1.5 hour minimum booking (cause it always drags at an hour, as usually they want to talk and get comfortless for a bit, and then get super into it and always want to go a second time)
?100 over normal rate
I find this cuts out time wasters, fakes, and couples where the woman is uncomfortable. And fuck yes I charge more. They'e more physically, women can be very demanding, and all the psychological bullshit of making sure the wife/gf doesn't feel insecure but yet making sure the husband doesn't feel ignored... not worth it unless I have the extra money!
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Thanks lovely girls for all the comments! :)
I decided to charge 150% of my hourly fee. Not quite double, but I will try this first and see!
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i charge 50% for Couples
MMF i dont do..but if i was double of hourly rate..
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I don't charge extra for MF couples or duos with other escorts but I usually turn down bookings with gay couples and these days I prefer not to work with other male escorts. When I have seen gay couples, I've charged double. Just a personal preference thing I guess as I find these bookings twice as demanding. MMF duos feel like half as much work to me and have always been my rate plus the other escort's rate. I have lots of great women and TS duo partners but only male masseur duo partners not male escorts. I tried for years to find a male escort duo partner who was able to show up for bookings, show up on time, not be high or want to take drugs during the booking, douche before bookings, work safely and be able to get hard, stay hard and cum if the client asked him to. Never met one unfortunately out of the dozens of male escorts I've worked with.
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I've been asked quite a bit lately if I see couples. I never have up to now but am thinking of giving it a go. I have dabbled with women (how sleazy does that sound, 'dabbled') in my private life, it's ok, not my thing but ok. What I am wondering about is price. Would this differ from a single guy booking? I am not talking duo, more a couple seeing me.
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I charge an extra ?50 for m/f couples bookings, it is more work involved 'catering' for 2 people, also these type of bookings tend to slightly over run so it covers for the potential 10-15 minutes or so extra for them getting ready to leave, etc.
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Yes I think you should charge more for couples. I charge an extra ?70 PH. But really it's up to you what you 'feel' is reasonable.
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Yes if servicing them both i charge at least an extra 50.
And I agree with katrina they do tend to overrun.
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I charge the same but I enjoy it as a change.
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It kind of depends what they want to do exactly with the situation if a couple asks me about a booking I make sure everybody understands the expectations beforehand. If they want to both be involved in a threesome situation they I usually charge time and a half so per hour it's my hour booking plus 50% of my hour price. I often tell them it's better to book two hours because threesome bookings tend to take longer anyway and if they do that then I'll only add 25% on to my normal fee.
I had a couple of times recently where I've just charged my normal hour rate because the guy just wanted to watch me and his wife do stuff and they normally tip me a bit anyway just for letting him watch and touch himself they'll give me an extra ?20 though last time he gave me ?30. He's never broken the agreement that he can't get involved I think watching his wife do that girl on girl stuff is the thrill for him.
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I know it's slightly off topic but I wondered if you girls insist on speaking to the female before you accept a couples booking? I do but when I ask the man to ask his partner to ring me she never does so I won't accept x
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I know it's slightly off topic but I wondered if you girls insist on speaking to the female before you accept a couples booking? I do but when I ask the man to ask his partner to ring me she never does so I won't accept x
Yes I did the same as I suspected these guys were just Tw fantasists and I was right 100% of the time which was just as well cos women do 0% for me rofl.
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I know it's slightly off topic but I wondered if you girls insist on speaking to the female before you accept a couples booking? I do but when I ask the man to ask his partner to ring me she never does so I won't accept x
Yes I did the same as I suspected these guys were just Tw fantasists and I was right 100% of the time which was just as well cos women do 0% for me rofl.
Yes that's why I ask LL, I actually find mf bookings a nice change, it's a real novelty having a female client and I'm not even bi, well gay for pay I suppose!
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I know it's slightly off topic but I wondered if you girls insist on speaking to the female before you accept a couples booking? I do but when I ask the man to ask his partner to ring me she never does so I won't accept x
I've only done 2 couple bookings.All the rest seem to vanish into thin air when I ask to speak to the female partner.Have had it where I have spoken to the female and the couple haven't turned up or failed to confirm so it's not always the bloke being a fantacist but the couple themselves getting off on chatting about it.
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I know it's slightly off topic but I wondered if you girls insist on speaking to the female before you accept a couples booking? I do but when I ask the man to ask his partner to ring me she never does so I won't accept x
I've only done 2 couple bookings.All the rest seem to vanish into thin air when I ask to speak to the female partner.Have had it where I have spoken to the female and the couple haven't turned up or failed to confirm so it's not always the bloke being a fantacist but the couple themselves getting off on chatting about it.
I've done around 5 but had lots of enquiries over the years and yes I think most are fantasising, the ones I have done have been late night outcalls spur of the moment types, most were fun but one the couple were coked out their heads and he became very sexually aggressive, apparently he had form for it in my area so I put up a warning here. I came out of there with ?500 and only been there an hour and half, they were loaded and she gave me the money as compensation.
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I charge time and a half if they want me to play with both of them, normal rates if they just want one-on-one with the other watching. :)
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I know it's slightly off topic but I wondered if you girls insist on speaking to the female before you accept a couples booking? I do but when I ask the man to ask his partner to ring me she never does so I won't accept x
Yes I did the same as I suspected these guys were just Tw fantasists and I was right 100% of the time which was just as well cos women do 0% for me rofl.
Yes that's why I ask LL, I actually find mf bookings a nice change, it's a real novelty having a female client and I'm not even bi, well gay for pay I suppose!
Seconded. I also insist on talking to 'women who want to book' over the phone - 0% of them have ever called me either.
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I know it's slightly off topic but I wondered if you girls insist on speaking to the female before you accept a couples booking? I do but when I ask the man to ask his partner to ring me she never does so I won't accept x
Yes I did the same as I suspected these guys were just Tw fantasists and I was right 100% of the time which was just as well cos women do 0% for me rofl.
Yes that's why I ask LL, I actually find mf bookings a nice change, it's a real novelty having a female client and I'm not even bi, well gay for pay I suppose!
Seconded. I also insist on talking to 'women who want to book' over the phone - 0% of them have ever called me either.
Yeh funny that eh ::) I ask that too and I also have had a grand total of 0 females speaking to me.
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If I'm expected to be intimate with them both then I charge double, so each have to pay my standard rates, if one was watching (which has never actually happened), I'd charge time and a half. It works for me as I don't particularly enjoy them. I'm fully bi but I'm quite fussy with women compared with men, paid or not, plus the only one I've ever had that actually turned up, she was a nightmare to please and kept trying to make me do services that I don't offer because she's a woman.
And yes, I also request to speak to them both as the majority of the time, it's just a fantasist and I doubt the woman knows anything about it
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I've seen lots and lots of couples and very rarely get guys 'pretending' to be one, I can usually spot the bullshitting ones straight away.
I don't always ask to speak to the other partner either (sometimes the woman rings me to arrange) I assume that whoever makes the booking is responsible for the behaviour of the other party. Most of the couples I do see are professionals, very clean, polite and good fun to be with, several have been booking me for years and we have become almost 'friends'. I really look forward to meeting with those types, and enjoy the variety.
But I have also had a few bad experiences where I've gone to a couples house late at night after they have been drinking, I learnt that's a recipe for disaster and I don't like 'gate crashing' on someone's party so I refuse these ones now. The only way I agree to couples bookings is when its established that I'm ultimately in control, its a 3 way thing, I'm happy to 'party' with them but won't be just a 'plaything' for their drunken entertainment and also you get some couples who like to use other people for an 'audience' for their domestic issues/disputes, I refuse to be any part of that.
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I used to do 3somes all the time with couples or with another escort(provided by the client as I didn't have any keen escort friends), and I didn't charge more, now asking myslef why!
I don't see copules anymore, becuase whereas during the actula booking time it's actually fun and a bit exciting, I found the whole pre-booking process stressful and draining, I was always stressed that the girl will not like me, or I won't look as glamorous as her, then spent long hour preparing and worrying- for me not worth the hassle. I find bookings with just men 1000% easier and straightforward. So for my peace of mind won't do couples. But if I did, I would charge double.
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I just say minimum of 90min booking Outcall only (so I can leave if it gets uncomfortable) and an extra 100 on my rate (just under time and a half at my rates) I have had a few go through, when they are serious and you ask the women will call and speak to you and you can get a feel for whether they really want to be doing this or not, my rule is I won't be the first escort the couple has seen to avoid the drama, if they've done it before and seem fine with it then I will do it. Again not bi but just for work!
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I know it's slightly off topic but I wondered if you girls insist on speaking to the female before you accept a couples booking? I do but when I ask the man to ask his partner to ring me she never does so I won't accept x
I've only done 2 couple bookings.All the rest seem to vanish into thin air when I ask to speak to the female partner.Have had it where I have spoken to the female and the couple haven't turned up or failed to confirm so it's not always the bloke being a fantacist but the couple themselves getting off on chatting about it.
This is my experience too. I either didn't charge extra, or only a nominal fee for couples, yet one or two who were genuine just became too much hassle. The problem with couples is I couldn't be sure which one of the couple was contacting me, the woman would phone and email, but later on after finally refusing to see them again they revealed that the many texts and emails demanding immediate replies despite being signed with her name, we're sent by Jim. Combine that with bring unreliable, not respecting appointment times and being disrespectful in other ways, I decided to stop seeing all couples (some of the others had versed on the same behaviour).
I still receive enquiries and ask to speak to the woman, who invariably isn't there or doesn't call back.
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Hi I've got a booking with a couple soon. Great feedback etc. My hourly rate is ?100 ph. Not sure what to charge as it is 2 people? It's a 2 hour booking. Thanks x
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Different strokes for different folks and we all work different.
IMO it really depends on the interaction expected. If you are expected to concentrate on the two of them then double the hourly rate but if it's mixed interaction then 1.5 the hourly rate.
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Im yet to get a female booking. Im bi-sexual and love fucking women so if i advertise that if a guy brings a woman, i will fuck her for free! If its a single woman then i just charge her half price.
Im also a member of an online swingers group and im always looking for women. 80% of women and couples who contact me are actually male fantasists! Because of this, if i was to get a female booking, i would want to speak to her first.
I dont trust anyone anymore
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I used to charge time and a half for couples, and never got any. I really would like to have more couple bookings though, I really enjoy threesomes. I have since started advertising no extra cost for M/F or F/F couples. I still charge time and a half for M/M.
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I used to charge time and a half for couples, and never got any. I really would like to have more couple bookings though, I really enjoy threesomes. I have since started advertising no extra cost for M/F or F/F couples. I still charge time and a half for M/M.
Just occurred to me:
In a MMF booking, the MM will each expect to pay their own share. In a MFF booking, the MF couple will probably expect the M to pay for it all. (Not necessarily, but possibly.) So I could see them being more likely to be a bit picky about price.
BUT! You should charge whatever you want to be paid to do something. End of.
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Just occurred to me:
In a MMF booking, the MM will each expect to pay their own share. In a MFF booking, the MF couple will probably expect the M to pay for it all. (Not necessarily, but possibly.) So I could see them being more likely to be a bit picky about price.
BUT! You should charge whatever you want to be paid to do something. End of.
They can be as 'picky' as they want about the price but ultimately the escort is servicing 2 people so why charge one fee??
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I'm glad I found this thread as I've been ruminating over this today.
I've just been faced with this and I believe the enquiry is genuine. Having read through the thread, I'm going to offer a slight discount but as it will be a fully interactive 3sum, I am definitely charging for 2 people.
Since logistically, I cannot see two people back to back (as in hours), I've decided to offer a ?20 discount off my hourly rate per person, which still leaves me a healthy profit. (?220) I know I'm going to offer them a drink first (it's an incall on tour) and that 15 minutes will likely be spent on this but I will make it clear that there is 15 mins of extra time included.
I am also going to offer an extended package for 2 hours for ?300 and see if they bite on that one as it will be better value plus we can have more social time.
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I have what seems a genuine booking enquiry from a couple. They have some FB, its for a 2 hr outcall still in Sussex but 45 minutes to an hour by train away.
In my nearly 6 years none of my couple enquiries have been genuine! They did send quite a lengthy email but I think because they're relatively new to this they just want to outline what they want. It doesn't seem titillating.
I'm unsure how much to charge. Normally for a 2 hr outcall I charge ?350 (which is quite a lot already) and extra for travel.
I'm interested that some ladies charge the same as for one guy. They are both expecting full service. They seemed happy I wanted to speak to both of them and that I'd get back with a quote.
Now I just have to work out what to charge!
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I have had 2 genuine couple bookings. I charged my hourly rate + an extra half. I don't like labels and wouldn't call myself bi-sexual but I do enjoy sex with women. If I was a person who did not enjoy same sex relations and was going to have to put my effort into faking it then I would have charged double my rate instead.
Mandy
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I would charge 1.5 times my rate but have not had a genuine enquiry yet!
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I charge ?50 more, I insist on speaking to the female involved, a lot of guys say "Ok I'll get her to call you to confirm" most of the time the female never calls! I would never want to do a booking with a wife/partner that was only doing it to keep her man happy x
Snap!!
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I think I have met with 5 couples in the years I have been doing this. I charge an extra ?70 for an hour, but offer a discount on further hours. The actual bookings have been fine, some better than others and 1 a bit awkward because I felt she was doing it because he wanted her to. Unless the woman was actually upset I wouldn't stop the booking- it's not my job to act as their relationship mediator.
As the others have said 90% of calls or emails about 3somes have been by men whose partners were funnily enough not with them at the time and never get round to calling me... :FF
I always talk to the woman involved and get clear boundaries and what they want from it. There is a huge difference between a couple wanting him just to watch girl on girl action and a full blown three way and I think it is important to know the does and don'ts. For example she might not want me to kiss him or she might not want me going down on her. I think it's helpful to know this ahead of the booking, but at the very least you should have this chat when they arrive.
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Guess what this one was a non starter too ::) My time and a half was too expensive. They both wanted full involvement and it was an outcall so I thought my pricing fair enough. I explained if one wanted less involvement or indeed as an incall it'd be less.
So I still await my first couple booking...
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I don't offer couple bookings anymore, too much jealousy and drama from both of them for my liking but when I did I charged for a 1.5 hour booking if it was centred on her and 2 hours fee if it was a threesome.
I worked for an agency years ago who expected girls to go to couples for either 1 hour or ?20 more depending on how they felt that day. I told them to fuck off, I'm not doing double the work for the same money.
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Had my first couple booking yesterday, no I did not charge any extra as I love threesomes, having had so much fun with the privately. If it was a male male booking I would charge more to filter our timewasters and because I would feel more unsafe.
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I have had a few bookings with couples where the booking was organised by the husband. Most have been fine.
Was awkard a few weeks ago when it was obvious to begin with that the woman didn't want to be there. She was fine in the end but made me nervous.
Then there was the guy who wanted to arrange surprise for his wife but I felt awkward when she called to ask what it was all about.
Another scenario was where the woman was lovely but we all got pissed and they ended up staying longer than the paid booking. This was in Belfast.
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Do most of you charge the extra regardless of gender?
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I do add ?20 to my hourly rate.