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BibiofLeeds

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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #15 on: 27 January 2014, 07:27:59 pm »
For me if its 15 mins its once only,30 mins 2 max and to be honest I find alot of guys only pop once in 30 mins,the ones that ask about coming more in 30 mins are mostly wishful thinkers.However in longer bookings I feel they should be able to come as many times as they like.

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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #16 on: 27 January 2014, 08:19:59 pm »
It's each to their own really. If the entire booking is just sex then D: But if it's only even a 30 minute booking it simply means they're very quick which means not too much effort anyways. I do leave it open to more goes because what if the dude is super boring, sex would be more entertaining than an awkward silence IMO.

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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #17 on: 27 January 2014, 08:46:48 pm »
I don't do 2nd pop unless it's more than 90 mins appointment. Though many clients expect it. This rule was something I set up when I started out. For me it felt only 1 time could be done during an hour. As I am more experienced now, I can see some people (including fellow escorts) don't think it's right to limit this because we are supposedly hired for the duration of time not for number of pops. Would this be public opinion here too?

I do stay full hour, doing massage, or just chit chat as some guys prefer that way. Not that clients complain about it, they pretty much all seem to be understanding of my set of rules. So I could still manage this way, and even lead them to book a longer session if they really want to enjoy more than once. Though if it feels unjust even to other girls, I think I should change that. I'd like to hear from other girls!

Each to their own but NOT allowing a second pop in 90 minutes or less, I imagine would ruffle a lot of feathers for a lot of clients (and rightly so) but its up to you how you run your business.

Not sure I understand that logic though? As if someone books and hour with you then obviously they can cum in that time, if someone books 90 mins with you then surely that would give him a whole other half hour he's paid for to cum again? Or is your minimum booking time 90 mins?

I offer a relaxed GFE and have never actually had anyone ask if they can go more than once in a half hour, usually I use up the whole half hour and even run over with just one pop but if someone had real premature ejaculation problems then I would be ok with them having 2 pops in the half hour HOWEVER I really don't like half hour appointments, I much prefer hour appointments or longer cause like I say I do like to take my time with my clients and I don't mind running over time with a client who's been decent enough to book and pay me for the hour whereas I grudge a client booking a half hour but overstaying into an hour (makes me feel a bit ripped off)

An hours appointment they can defo cum twice if they can manage in that time, I wouldn't restrict them..

Thing is they pay us for our time, not services so I am not sure that restricting someone like that is a very decent thing to do.

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« Last Edit: 27 January 2014, 08:54:04 pm by Pink~Princess »

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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #18 on: 27 January 2014, 08:52:35 pm »
I allow one in the hour unless its a long booking.

Most guys I see who indicate 2 pops are the ones who
can't do it. They set themselves up for failure.


They see too many pornos and haven't the skill and talent
of a porn professional to achieve it.

I don't desire be involved with some geezer straining and
sweating to achieve the impossible...totally not attractive.

A man 'must know his limitations', said Sir Clint Eastwood.

I find that the guys who ask if they can come twice in the hour aren't really setting themselves up for failure, they are just clarifying that they have the option INCASE they are up to it again.

I find that they are usually quite happy with one pop but knowing they have that option makes all the difference in their mind, if they cant cum again then they know its their body that's not up to it and not actually me restricting it so therfor they are more than likely to come back.

Every client is different, I find that most of my clients are happy with one pop in the hour since they know I offer a relaxed GFE but then there are the others who like twice in an hour and that's up to them, either way they are paying for my time and if they are a nice, respectful client then obviously I would want them to return.

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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #19 on: 27 January 2014, 08:56:23 pm »
Each to their own but NOT allowing a second pop in 90 minutes or less,

I mean I allow 2nd pop from 90 mins booking and don't allow it upto 1hr booking. So I do 2+ shots for 90 mins bookings or longer. And as for 1 hr booking, most of cases it ends with 1 shot, so I didn't really have problem. I am just willing to re-adjust my rules as I found out a lot of ladies will offer multiple shots for an hour booking, and I can understand the logic for it.

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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #20 on: 27 January 2014, 08:59:47 pm »
Ah I see, well how you run your business is your choice. Even although some of us might not agree with it doesn't mean you should change. You have to do whatever works for you but I do think your return clientele would be seriously affected if you have this rule. You may not even realise how many clients don't return to you just because of this rule.

You could be the prettiest girl on AW but the clients will bin you in a heart beat if they feel they are being ripped off.

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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #21 on: 27 January 2014, 10:09:36 pm »
A quickie is a one pop shot. If the guy is the sort who jazzes on his hand the second his pants are off though then I would let him cum again so long as it was still within the 15 mins

30 mins upwards then he can cum as many times as he is able so long as he has time to do it within the time he has payed for. I find most guys just cum the once anyway regardless of wether they have booked 30 minutes or 3 hours tbh.

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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #22 on: 28 January 2014, 12:41:10 am »
I think it's considered normal to allow two pops on an hour. It's not necessarily considered the norm on half an hour but there's definitely the belief that at at least on one hour it's expected.

As others have said: far fewer actually manage to do this than want to.

I assume they want the option on one hour but not on 30 minutes. It's not unusual for a client to leave perfectly happy after 20-25 minutes. But if they ask I will certainly let them try again.



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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #23 on: 28 January 2014, 05:01:32 am »
It's each to their own really. If the entire booking is just sex then D: But if it's only even a 30 minute booking it simply means they're very quick which means not too much effort anyways. I do leave it open to more goes because what if the dude is super boring, sex would be more entertaining than an awkward silence IMO.

How very true - lol

Like many have said, most have difficulty making it twice even in one hour, except some of the younger ones. Their eyes are bigger than their stomach in most cases. They often ask for it but I don't take much notice of what they say. I take my cues from what their cock does, it usually tells the truth. I'm a cock watcher, not a clock watcher - lol. If it spontaneously begins to rise again a little while after they've cum they might be up for it, but forcing it can be very hard work. I learned early on that if the cock looks interested then it's time to get on with the sex.

I think if a client wants a second coming that much it's better they go away and do something else, then come back a few hours later. I have several that do that, although they do often change their minds later and cancel. Doesn't matter as long as they let you know in good time. I hate them just not turn up, and don't give them a second chance on that.



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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #24 on: 28 January 2014, 10:48:49 am »
If it works for you there is no need to change it.

I hardly ever have sex with clients, normally I always get them off through oral. I think maybe I have sex with 5% of my clients, If you are thinking about including more pops in the time limit then one could be through oral or hand relief and the other by sex. Only do what you are comfortable with x

Princess Emily, what you said caught my eye though its not really about the "how many times they pop" - I was more interested in how you do most of your clients without the full works.  I have started out as giving FBSM which was really my way of saying I didn't offer full service (my massage skills are mediocre but I included HE in price given) I didn't specify whether I was offering hand/oral with/without etc. I just thought I'd go with the flow once I was with the client and set a price which I was happy to include most with as long as it wasn't full service.  I thought offering FBSM was the main way of setting myself up as an WG who is happy to oblige but without full service, obviously I made an effort with the massage part, warm oils etc. but didn't spend too long before getting to the fun part.  Then I figure I have the choice of whether I want to offer full service.  But reading your post I wonder if there  are other ways to go about it.....  I think there is a market for it as quite a few guys don't want to do any work and are happy without fs  Of course not charging as much  as girls offering Fs.   Any tips thank you.

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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #25 on: 28 January 2014, 11:32:43 am »
Yeah I too find alot of guys seem to like bjs and hjs more than actual intercourse. I also find that a fair few if they do have full sex tend to have a second pop much easier with hj or bj.

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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #26 on: 28 January 2014, 02:57:04 pm »
I always allow my clients to 'cum' as many times as they wish within the hour or more. Half an hours generally are not more than once really, however I wouldnt say no that's it or anything like that. I think it's very common practice really these days, and I want them to leave feeling fully satifised and wanting to 'cum' back and see me again!
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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #27 on: 28 January 2014, 03:02:27 pm »
I am starting to wonder why so many escorts seem to want to do as less work as possible in the time the client has booked? We get paid a lot of money for our time so I don't think we should be giving advice on how to try and avoid as much physical contact with the client as possible.

The good money we earn isn't just for the sexual side of things, its the crap we have to put up with on a daily basis aswell as living a double life and lying to everyone we love and care about so I do believe we deserve every penny we get otherwise nobody would do the job if the money was shit but the biggest part is keeping our clients happy so they will return.

If a client comes in and he's horrible to me, rude to me, rough or aggressive then obviously its understandable that I want rid of him as soon as possible and nor would I want to get up close and intimate with someone who's treated me badly (think that's human nature) but for all the rest of them who come in friendly and respectful then I want to do everything I can to please them if its within the services I offer.

As I have said before though, each to their own x

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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #28 on: 28 January 2014, 09:51:11 pm »
Hi,
Just to clarify what my choice is about.  I just always knew that I could only do this if I gave myself the choice about what services I offer to each individual client.  Advertising FBSM gives me and the client a face saving and dignified "out" if I, or indeed he, doesn't feel like more than a saucy (and happily ended) massage is called for.  If more services are in order, desired and happily given/sold, then all is well, but where there is no automatic expectation for a full service, there is an element of choice which for me was really important even if it meant a lot less dough. Not the way to go for most girls I know, but it seems right for me just now, not easy, but kind of right.
I love this site.x

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Re: Do you allow 2nd pop for short appointment?
« Reply #29 on: 29 January 2014, 12:54:54 am »
Hi. Firstly I took down 2nd pop limitation rule, and asked the review site if they can amend that part on their page too. (To be clear, I didn't ask them to alter anything clients wrote, but some site have my information page which they write, not by me, with what has been said from client)

I am starting to wonder why so many escorts seem to want to do as less work as possible in the time the client has booked?

I take it somewhat offensive PP, don't jump into your own conclusion that I am making as little effort as possible for this work. From what you say, I think it's safe to assume that you include me into "so many escorts" you talk about.

There is no way you can tell whether I am working hard or whether my clients are happy with my service. Well that decision is solely upto clients, so I am not in the position to have a say, but you know what, I feel I can confidently say my clients are very happy with how I treat them.


And this is unnecessary part so you can all skip unless you're interested hear what I have to say. In my defense, which I realized after thinking back a little, my rule comes from cultural background. I know it wouldn't be fair for you (mostly UK or EU based girls) to understand this or know about this already. Though in Japan, escorting is considered as buying "sex" not buying "time". We all know what they are really looking escorts for, it's "sex". So when the "sex" is purchased (or hand job, whatever that ends with "popping"), deal is over. That's how we think about this matter. The booking time is only the time limitation for that sex to happen. I've worked in many agencies and many working scenes in Asia and this is how both parties, clients and WGs, just agree on without having to talk over about it.

Also, if booking time is obviously long, like 2hrs or more, we understand that's probably to have more sex so we do offer more sex. Which is same thing I used to do, book 90 mins and have another round!

As I come from that working scene, it took this much time for me to realize how the attitude about this matter is different on escorting scene, which is more of western thing. I am making change to that, because now I realized the difference and can agree with the reasoning behind it. First time I encountered with the situation, an American client who seem to be surprised by not having option of 2nd round, I was as surprised as he was. I thought that was just odd mind of him and forget about it and went on, and encountered few more and then thought maybe people think differently in other countries. And came here to confirm my suspicion. So that's my reasoning behind my ex-rule.


Also, back to PP's question. Some girls might not work as hard as other girls do. We are all different. Some girls like to give GFE, more intimate, with lots of kiss and conversation, foreplay etc. Some girls would literally do "wham bam" and we all know some guys prefer that simple sex. We all charge differently. Some girls can go rather cheaper just because she is not greedy and happy with her rates, but some girls might do that to get away with mediocre service. Hoping for clients won't complain too much about lack of extensive service. And we give different booking time option. Some girls offer quickies and some girls starts from 2hr bookings. If the girl works indeed in very crappy manner, naturally she won't get much work and will have problem. She will have her own grief without having to have you give her comment about it.