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Title: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: bigcat on 02 June 2019, 05:30:27 pm
Please tell me you don’t :D:D
Clients are obsessed with them atm. They didn’t ask for them 2 or 3 years ago.
What if a random records you and puts it on YouTube or porn site? Think about that.
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: Rosesugar on 02 June 2019, 06:43:50 pm
Best not to be in the safe side unless really don't care where you end up being viewed .
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: amy on 02 June 2019, 06:44:54 pm
Your clients might be obsessed with them - I've yet to have it mentioned by any of mine?

What if a random records you and puts it on YouTube or porn site? Think about that.

Following that logic nobody would ever do webcamming or even in-person bookings, since those could also be recorded and put online. If people want to take enquiries using video calls, withheld numbers or even semaphore that's their business and they can do as they see fit :).
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: CurlsnCurves on 02 June 2019, 10:04:52 pm
No I don't. I had a few last Summer trying to convince me everyone was doing it which I replied it was the first I heard about it. Every now n again I get someone trying to do it bit I reject the call.

I'd avoid, always.
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: Louisereturned on 02 June 2019, 10:10:39 pm
I don’t accept  video calls either. Pisses me off when you get videocalled  and they don’t even ask if you accept them.
This  usually happens when playing on the phone sat on the loo, not quite  the glamorous image they’re expecting
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: Pretty Pink on 02 June 2019, 10:45:26 pm
Iv taken my iPhone back to basics cause I used to have a few that tried to FaceTime. I turned iMessage off and deleted WhatsApp too due to the amount of pics I was receiving.
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: Hazzard on 02 June 2019, 11:28:44 pm
I wouldn't do .. chances of someone filming on facetime are far more likely then a punter coming to see u and filming... not sure why the two are being compared! But no it's not a wise move. Alot of the time it's just timewasters being nosey to see if they know/recognise the person  I just wouldn't.
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: Hazzard on 02 June 2019, 11:30:01 pm
Iv taken my iPhone back to basics cause I used to have a few that tried to FaceTime. I turned iMessage off and deleted WhatsApp too due to the amount of pics I was receiving.

I too dont have wattasp for that reason and just got tired of dick pics being sent all the time 😂
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: EvelynWho on 02 June 2019, 11:32:40 pm
I too dont have wattasp for that reason and just got tired of dick pics being sent all the time 😂

I’m about a month or two into having a phone for work use and I’ve only received one dick pic so far (must be doing something wrong) lol.
Have to say though it wasn’t even a dick pic it was a very disturbing video of a man sliding+holding a knife against his penis and threatening to push harder and make himself bleed.... I’d take a plain ol’ dick shot over that anyday! Ughhh
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: amy on 02 June 2019, 11:53:10 pm
I wouldn't do .. chances of someone filming on facetime are far more likely then a punter coming to see u and filming... not sure why the two are being compared!

I have no idea what 'facetime' is, but I was pointing out that if somebody is determined to obtain video footage of you either undressed/having sex or giving verbal proof that you're working as a prostitute, there are plenty of ways they can do that. Another one is webcamming, which you must have missed the reference to in my post.

Glad to have cleared that up.
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: Grace D on 03 June 2019, 05:02:19 am
Yep, as Amy says you can be filmed on webcam or any other way. I've never been asked for a video chat but if that happened I would direct them to my AW webcam link where they have to pay. I don't even show my face.
If they want to book an appointment for a meet they don't need a video call. Presumably they've seen your profile so all they need is a quick chat on the phone. Anyone asking for a video chat is wanting a free cam session in my opinion.
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: Hazzard on 03 June 2019, 10:39:31 am
I have no idea what 'facetime' is, but I was pointing out that if somebody is determined to obtain video footage of you either undressed/having sex or giving verbal proof that you're working as a prostitute, there are plenty of ways they can do that. Another one is webcamming, which you must have missed the reference to in my post.

Glad to have cleared that up.

Ahhh and theres me thinking the OP is asking about Video calls... how silly of me
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: Dolls on 03 June 2019, 10:46:04 am
Iv taken my iPhone back to basics cause I used to have a few that tried to FaceTime. I turned iMessage off and deleted WhatsApp too due to the amount of pics I was receiving.
+1
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: chocoholicgirl on 03 June 2019, 11:01:07 am
Yep, as Amy says you can be filmed on webcam or any other way. I've never been asked for a video chat but if that happened I would direct them to my AW webcam link where they have to pay. I don't even show my face.
If they want to book an appointment for a meet they don't need a video call. Presumably they've seen your profile so all they need is a quick chat on the phone. Anyone asking for a video chat is wanting a free cam session in my opinion.

And a free way to see your face if you don't show it on your profile. I stay away from all 'facetime', video calling and whatsapp nonsense, it makes me want to poke myself in the eye with a pointy stick.

People asking for anything you don't offer whether it's a service in a booking or a video calling service is boundary pushing if you ask me. It's a red flag that shows they have no respect for you.
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: Dynamite Doll on 03 June 2019, 03:43:20 pm
Anyone who video calls disrespectful c.u.n.t. When I see a video call coming in I instantly reject call and block. No one has had an issue with booking me yet they are aware I don't show my face online.

Those are are so keen on booking an escort via video call they should contact ladies who show their face not bother with those who do not show their face for a reason.
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: MWM on 04 June 2019, 07:56:40 am
I’m about a month or two into having a phone for work use and I’ve only received one dick pic so far (must be doing something wrong) lol.
Have to say though it wasn’t even a dick pic it was a very disturbing video of a man sliding+holding a knife against his penis and threatening to push harder and make himself bleed.... I’d take a plain ol’ dick shot over that anyday! Ughhh
Oh my gosh, I got a video just like that!
Title: Re: Do you accept video calls?
Post by: Amazon_Woman on 28 June 2019, 12:09:12 pm
Had a potential client do it earlier in the year, expected me to reply to his text messages immediately, when I wasn't able to (in the few seconds there was) he tried video calling me! I asked him why he was doing that and why he wanted to video chat with me? his reply was "Because I wanted to see you"

He made it sound like I was his girlfriend, felt very clingy and needy at this point, so I told him if he didn't want to make a booking, then I couldn't continue the conversation, never heard back from him.

I have no time for "Lookie Lucies" or the ones that want to "flick one of the wrist", I don't video chat with my friends or family, why would I bother doing it with clients ESPECIALLY when its unpaid!