Hi,

Have you seen this guy before? Even if you have a booking reference he could cancel at the last minute after having had you spend all that time emailing him back and forth. I've cancelled bookings with guys who do the advance booking then constantly text/email. I just can't be bothered with them. But that's just my way of doing things.

I'd rather chew off my own arm than even be in the same postcode as somebody who thinks it's OK to behave like this. He's more than likely a timewaster but you need to put your foot down and explain that whilst you'll be happy to discuss arrangements for the booking at an appropriate time, you're not available for constant chatting - you have a business to run and other punters to see.

If he's this irritating before you've even met him, what do you think he's going to be like in person? They don't improve with knowing, believe me .

If he is annoying you this much now imagine how much he will annoy you when you are stuck in a hotel room all night with him.  Guys like this rarely turn up though but the ones that do tend to be the ones that go from romantic to full on nutjob stalker in a few hours.
Once they have met you they get worse and worse

I would run like hell from this guy and I would rather spend a night in a bath tub full of frogs (my main phobia) than spend 5minutes with a guy like this.  been there done that and have the police reports to prove it

It really is not worth the money if he even turns up as most guys like this are fantasists and the others like this are stalker type freaks.  He has already pushed your boundaries by doing something eh knows is not part of the agreement and is doing it for his own pleasure and sod how you feel. men with that attitude will be worse when you meet and if you don't comply he may well get quite angry as he has built a whole relationship with you in his head before even meeting you

Its not worth the money for the amount of hassle that booking will be.  I can only say cancel now.  tell him he has overstepped the boundaries and you cant see him.  Money is not everything.  I did an overnight with a guy like this and he spent half of it in the bathroom crying and the other half trying to stroke my face and hair and telling me how wonderful we are together, he then spent a few weeks finding out about me and then followed me from work (he had never been there so obviously made a fake booking to get address_ and spent a few nights sat outside mu house all night whilst texting me that if we cant be together in life we will be together in death, Thankfully the police are very good and he was arrested, charged and sent to prison. Take my word for it, it is not worth it

I'm glad you've got that one sorted and thank goodness it isn't going ahead.
In the future, you could accept an advanced booking with the words. "Brilliant! I'm just off on my hols until the day before we meet, so it will be lovely to spend the night with a great guy on my return! I have you firmly in my diary and will speak to you on the day!"
Sure, you risk him wandering off to find someone else to pester for weeks, but he would have done that to you anyway. If he replies with anything other than a "Happy Holiday!" wish, then he is definitely best avoided. 

Edit: ..Wouldn't really work with an AW Client I suppose, I always forget how visible girls are on there