I did once see a client who had cerebral palsy. I had plenty of correspondence with him via text and email. My background is in the Healthcare Sector, so I understood and was willing to adapt to other ways of communication. My safety being paramount, as it was a first time visit to this person and an out-call, I had a friend on the end of the line.
I met a very charming, engaging man, whom I got on with immediately. We communicated through his Ipad as he had trouble to vocalise. I realised straight away that he needed quite a lot of assistance to get on the bed and undressed etc. I was physically having move him around, which I was worried about hurting myself, but I just wasn't sure how this would play out?
It all kicked of and was ok as soon as he was on the bed, he became quite active and I must say that I had a great time with him overall. However be it due to my background as a support worker and other personal reasons , I did refuse to see him again.
Personally I don't think I was the right person for him. I have heard of the TLC Trust and other such organisations that specialise in disabled clients wanting to meet ladies.