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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: martine21 on 26 November 2014, 06:30:40 pm
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Do any of you ladies and gents get those clients thsat want to talk dirty to them for the entire booking but actually dont say anything back to keep it going?
Do you find this hardwork?
Tbf it makes me a little embarrassed! Yes a prossie thats embarassed when it comes to dirty talk! :o
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I just give a running commentary on what I am doing but yeah its hard to be inspired when its a one way chat.Even worse is when they ask you to talk dirty when you are blowing them I mean errrr mouth full here!
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Exactly, how do they expect you to talk dirty when you've got their cock in your mouth ;D
I struggle a bit with the "talk dirty to me" as well, I offer GFE, so I'll just snog them or suck them and say oohh aahh when
they touch me lol, and sort of go with the flow..
Never really been a good "dirty talker" ;)
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I just give a running commentary on what I am doing but yeah its hard to be inspired when its a one way chat.Even worse is when they ask you to talk dirty when you are blowing them I mean errrr mouth full here!
ditto
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I have a string of delightfully dirty lines, stored on a Notes on my iPad, and if inspiration is called for I am not above pulling up the app and reading off the list. iPad is set by the bed for music. I of course make it as sexy as hell, blindfolding the client is a great way to get away with this.
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I'm awful at dirty talk. I don't like saying anything derogatory. I feel silly giving a running commentary too. I have no idea what you say.
Violette perhaps you can share done of your one liners? :D
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Dirty talk is a complete turn off for me.
And sometimes it makes me giggle:))))
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I have a string of delightfully dirty lines, stored on a Notes on my iPad, and if inspiration is called for I am not above pulling up the app and reading off the list. iPad is set by the bed for music. I of course make it as sexy as hell, blindfolding the client is a great way to get away with this.
Share, share, share lol
I'm a bit rubbish at this & find myself repeating or going blank. I tried sex chat once eons ago but couldn't do it! I find it easier with clients than in relationships. I had an ex who used to like me saying "shoot your load" :-\ "cum in my mouth" {dont do CIM though}. With clients I'll say they have a nice cock, it feels great, I love sucking cock, I'm a naughty girl, you're so naughty, fuck me harder, lick my pussy. Probably tame for some people. Sometimes they just like to hear you talking.
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i actually just admit i dont do dirty talk as when i get turned on the chat part of my brain switches off ..this is completely true.when i am really getting into sex i actually have trouble understanding anything verbal..i float off somewhere else and have to get them to repeat themselves if they are trying to tell me to get into a different position or something.lol
I love a guy who is good at talking dirty though,really gets me going! I think its something to do with me being submissive sexually too..talking dirty to a guy is a bit like taking charge and thats turns me off. I have a lady i duo with who loves roleplay and talking dirty and is amazing at it,but it makes me giggle and cringe inwardly at the thought of me doing it!! My clients dont seem to mind though.
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"Ooh baby talk dirty to me..!" is just my worst nightmare (well maybe not the worst lol), I'm just so bad at it, and it to me it sounds
stupid, unnatural and I really don't know what to say ???
So I just tell them that lol, and make sex noises instead, I'm pretty good at them and it turns them on just as much ;)
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Not my strength.
They tell me what to say and I repeat it...
Makes me giggle too.
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I've got to be honest, I've got a mind like a sewer and a mouth that is as bad. I worked on the chatlines long before I started whoring and it just rolled off my tongue without a second thought. Does nothing for me but I wasn't there for me.
I think a lifetimes experience just stood me in good stead.
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I've got a mouth like a sewer when it comes to swearing lol, but dirty talk, I just don't understand what the turn-on is,
literally!
Surely it's different for every guy, so if I start saying thing to a client about his hard throbbing cock I can't wait to suck,
and that's not his kind of "dirty talk", what then lol.
The whole dirty talk thing just confuses me. ;)
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I have an friend ,that I wrk with on occasions so I tell the guys all the stuff we do together how she likes to f... up the a.... Hold her head while they xxxx in her mouth. And wouldnt they like to to do that to her and me right now
Actually we only do long duos but telling them about her and myself always works
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Lol good one Paris, I'm pretty sure most guys get turned on by a bit of girl on girl talk ;D
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Lol good one Paris, I'm pretty sure most guys get turned on by a bit of girl on girl talk ;D
Lol, it works a treat, I can't do the ohh f...me harder stuff without laughing , but I can look a guy straight in the eye and tell him to tell me when he wants my mouth wrapped around his cock so he can xxxx it in my mouth. Now that always works a real treat I think ive watched to much crap porn
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I've never liked porn, find it boring, fake & irritating. Maybe softer "girly" porn but still tacky. That TV series with Vampires "True Blood" was like porn to me, really turned me on ha ha. I haven't got a duos partner but I've been asked. I think someone should do a workshop.
I do the "Umms & ahhs", "that feels so good" but inwardly smirking to myself feeling like I'm in a Benny Hill sketch sometimes!
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I have a string of delightfully dirty lines, stored on a Notes on my iPad, and if inspiration is called for I am not above pulling up the app and reading off the list. iPad is set by the bed for music. I of course make it as sexy as hell, blindfolding the client is a great way to get away with this.
Absolutely genius idea to blindfold them and read the lines off somewhere!!
Im usually really crap at talking dirty, especially when they put you on a spot without a warning, so my mind just goes blank.. And I struggle to keep a straight face lol.
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I've never liked porn, find it boring, fake & irritating. Maybe softer "girly" porn but still tacky. That TV series with Vampires "True Blood" was like porn to me, really turned me on ha ha. I haven't got a duos partner but I've been asked. I think someone should do a workshop.
I do the "Umms & ahhs", "that feels so good" but inwardly smirking to myself feeling like I'm in a Benny Hill sketch sometimes!
I so agree about True Blood being like porn!
Talking dirty does not come naturally at all and I always groan inwardly when a client requests that.
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I've never liked porn, find it boring, fake & irritating. Maybe softer "girly" porn but still tacky. That TV series with Vampires "True Blood" was like porn to me, really turned me on ha ha. I haven't got a duos partner but I've been asked. I think someone should do a workshop.
I do the "Umms & ahhs", "that feels so good" but inwardly smirking to myself feeling like I'm in a Benny Hill sketch sometimes!
Alexander Skarsgaard... <3
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I love dirty talk, either way, and have no problem in talking dirty, I always find if they are struggling to cum, it's the thing that tips the balance! ;D
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a few curse words and commands usually nips this problem in the bud
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I love dirty talk, either way, and have no problem in talking dirty, I always find if they are struggling to cum, it's the thing that tips the balance! ;D
Oh yes, definitely makes the cum quicker ;) google search here I come lol
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I have a habit of swearing when I have an orgasm lol, unfortunately I've yet to have a (genuine) orgasm with a client, and I'm
usually honest with them, as I don't like faking it..
I just tell them honestly that I don't orgasm with clients, but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy it.. :D
But maybe I should start faking it lol, just so's to make them come quicker!
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I have a habit of swearing when I have an orgasm lol, unfortunately I've yet to have a (genuine) orgasm with a client, and I'm
usually honest with them, as I don't like faking it..
I just tell them honestly that I don't orgasm with clients, but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy it.. :D
But maybe I should start faking it lol, just so's to make them come quicker!
That's disappointing, I rarely do too. Fake it all the way ;) makes them stop poking & fiddling around too so you can have more talking or massage time.
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Google sex phone scripts. Tweak it to your likes. Sometimes they use weird words and stuff that sound more gross than sexy so I kind of roll with a type of loose script of a sort as a newbie with Dirty talking, I can imagine it comes natural after a while I guess. Hell read 50 shades of grey and just watch a load of porn, the boyfriend walked in while I was watching porn with a serious face as if I was just watching the morning news. And he was like what the F are you doing. I was like. Research hahaha.
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Google sex phone scripts. Tweak it to your likes. Sometimes they use weird words and stuff that sound more gross than sexy so I kind of roll with a type of loose script of a sort as a newbie with Dirty talking, I can imagine it comes natural after a while I guess. Hell read 50 shades of grey and just watch a load of porn, the boyfriend walked in while I was watching porn with a serious face as if I was just watching the morning news. And he was like what the F are you doing. I was like. Research hahaha.
you're a genius, thanks! I have read the 50 shades trilogy I found it offensive ha ha; the fact she was a virgin & it had underlying inference towards misogyny/female oppression.
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I have not problem if someone wants me to talk dirty because English is not my native language so I don't wonder about sense and meaning what I say. Just learn a few sentences and repeat them 8)
In my own language it may be hard :)