I have had a client seen me twice this week now ladies he is asking if he can take me for a drink and will cover my cost this is something which I don’t like doing any more used to when I started escorting but I think with time and having doing the job for a while I am just happy for them to come give them the service and let me get on may be I am getting old and boring 😂😂 how do I drop him gently without offending him ?

Thanks Maz I thought so but it’s always good to have a second opinion so ya will do that and hopefully it will go down well with him 😂 as you can never please them all x

I have had a client seen me twice this week now ladies he is asking if he can take me for a drink and will cover my cost this is something which I don’t like doing any more used to when I started escorting but I think with time and having doing the job for a while I am just happy for them to come give them the service and let me get on may be I am getting old and boring 😂😂 how do I drop him gently without offending him ?

Why should he be offended? Just because he booked you twice a week doesn't entitle him to take you out.
Agree once and he'll expect it always!
I see my dermatologist twice a week too, but I wouldn't expect him to have drinks with me 
Just say you made other plans, thanks, and hope he gets the hint.

I get asked this quite a lot and I politely but firmly decline. I tell them I don't offer social time. Period.

If they persist and hint at a date, again i decline and laugh it off. Deflecting with humour always works for me. I tell them i am happily single and then change the subject!

I had this yesterday.
 Someone I have seen on half hour bookings decided to extend it to 45mins "so we can relax more".
I spent the time on massaging him anyway, so it was hardly relaxing for me.

Now he says he is going to "treat me" to a meal out next time. He didn't ask, he just declared.

I know for a fact he has no intention of paying, because he thinks he's a catch (amongst all the horrors I must see 🙄)
It wasn't the right time to tell him, but if he goes ahead and properly asks, he will be informed of my pleasure at his request and my fee accordingly 

Yeah I have one getting a little too comfortable now, he will need to feel the heel of my shoe soon lol, if he hasn't sacked himself by me refusing is booking last week that is.

Telling me he could drop up over Christmas for a few drinks, or for me to drop down to his, errrr no, just no.

Last week it was can I meet you tonight,  but I cant pay til Wednesday, is that a problem?
Yes it is, I am not your mate, buddy or free fucking booty call love.
I fuck for cash, not to keep you happy

Funnily enough he has gone dead quiet now hahaha

This is so simple to fix.

"I'd love to! My 3 & 4 hour lunch/dinner rates are on my website, take a look at those & let me know which you'd prefer & when! Oh, you don't want a 3 hour dinner date? No problem at all, my coffee/drink donations are the same as if you'd come to see me; makes it nice & simple for YOU."

He'll get the message.

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