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curvywench

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Condom came off
« on: 17 July 2023, 10:24:51 pm »
So during sex today the dratted condom came off with a new client. He came inside me. First time this has ever happened to me so a bit like oh fuck. This has never happened to me before in all the years I am escorting.

I'm tested regularly and safe but unsure about him, he said he sees escorts a bit, so now I am a tad worried, is this a practice of his? Or was it really a one off screw up. How did he not know the condom was off his dick?

How long do I have to wait to be tested for STI's folks? Not too worried about pregnancy as have bar in and also just past the year mark for last period too, so that should be okay.

Damn n drat it and thank you for your help.
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FayeInLondon

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Re: Condom came off
« Reply #1 on: 17 July 2023, 10:46:04 pm »
Happened to me also. His excuse was my ass was too big  ??? and that’s why the condom come off?? Also in doggy so he could clearly see if it was off! the day after Dean st gave me PEP Incase of HIV exposure. I then did full Sti test at 2 weeks and 4 weeks after incident. Then I continued with my normal check ups which are monthly.
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Re: Condom came off
« Reply #2 on: 18 July 2023, 06:53:48 am »
Firstly he has to have something and it has to be transmitted to you. Contact GUM ask for advice, they may offer you PEP.  Carry on using condoms for intercourse. As I understand it times for testing vary for each STI, the GUM will advise.

I'd consider putting a note on the reporting app if you use it, in case it happens to someone else.
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curvywench

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Re: Condom came off
« Reply #3 on: 18 July 2023, 12:49:44 pm »
Thank you ladies for your advice, its appreciated, and I wont over react I swear. The chances are slim I know of him having a disease and passing it to me, but yuck I just feel a bit violated that he came inside me.

I will report it to UM just in case this is a thing of his, but he did seem shocked in all fairness.

Thanks again :)
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Re: Condom came off
« Reply #4 on: 18 July 2023, 03:03:54 pm »
Happened to me recently too, so confusing isn’t it, don’t know if you’ve been stealthed or not. I tested about 6 weeks after, and luckily all came back negative. I’m sure you’ll be ok, the sooner you go the better, I wish I’d gone earlier! X
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curvywench

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Re: Condom came off
« Reply #5 on: 18 July 2023, 06:44:39 pm »
Thanks Caligirl glad your ok
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Re: Condom came off
« Reply #6 on: 14 June 2024, 09:11:43 am »
I always have a portable HIV saliva kit test around to be used for clients when accidents happen. Practically Saved my life once with a client who read positive after the condom had burst.I Had to get PEP immediately .Though it can only detects after 1 month exposure of HIV . So if the client has been exposed earlier and is honest don't rely on the test to be accurate. Well turned out the client had a blood clotting disorder which caused the inaccuracy which rarely happens . I still have some unused PEP so in case of emergency I would use it before going to get the remaining medication.  I still keep the HIV test kit with me still in case this happens again. Some clients intentionally let it burst or are just rough
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Re: Condom came off
« Reply #7 on: 20 June 2024, 04:56:27 pm »
Quote from: Segirl on 14 June 2024, 09:11:43 am
I always have a portable HIV saliva kit test around to be used for clients when accidents happen. Practically Saved my life once with a client who read positive after the condom had burst.I Had to get PEP immediately .Though it can only detects after 1 month exposure of HIV . So if the client has been exposed earlier and is honest don't rely on the test to be accurate. Well turned out the client had a blood clotting disorder which caused the inaccuracy which rarely happens . I still have some unused PEP so in case of emergency I would use it before going to get the remaining medication.  I still keep the HIV test kit with me still in case this happens again. Some clients intentionally let it burst or are just rough
i thought only blood test detects HIV promptly
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BBW Jayda

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Re: Condom came off
« Reply #8 on: 24 June 2024, 05:18:19 pm »
@segirl thanks for comment, please where can I buy a, saliva test kit and prep
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Re: Condom came off
« Reply #9 on: 24 June 2024, 05:26:03 pm »
It's on Amazon as oraquick saliva test.
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BBW Jayda

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« Reply #10 on: 25 June 2024, 10:09:27 am »
Quote from: Segirl on 24 June 2024, 05:26:03 pm
It's on Amazon as oraquick saliva test.
Thank you again.. I guess the prep will be from a sex clinic
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