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Anonandon

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Digging deep
« on: 14 June 2024, 09:18:04 am »
Hi ladies, when clients finger me they try to go as deep up to the cervix as possible, I have to tell them to stop as the pain is too much. Is it just me who gets pain when they go too deep with their fingers or do other ladies find this painful and uncomfortable too?

Patricia

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Re: Digging deep
« Reply #1 on: 14 June 2024, 10:22:30 am »
These days I don't allow deep fingering. They can put finger tips in but no more than that. If I'm asked why this is I tell them it's very uncomfortable and more risk of irritation. Ive had acute cystitis in the past and it was excruciating so not taking any chances now.

We don't have to endure a single thing we don't like. It's our choice despite what some men think.

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Re: Digging deep
« Reply #2 on: 14 June 2024, 10:55:04 am »
New clients who try this are told it doesn't do anything for me. Years ago I had a regular who would finger my g-spot eagerly every booking hoping for me to explode into orgasm. I never did because I need different type of stimulation  and we never got around to it (part him, part me (dealing with other difficulties I had with him)). These days I simply make it clear deep fingering does nothing, if they hurt me I tell them, I will then if they are interested show them what does work for me.

Anonandon

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Re: Digging deep
« Reply #3 on: 14 June 2024, 11:03:09 am »
Thanks for the reply ladies. I agree we shouldn’t have to endure this discomfort, the amount of urine infections and injuries are one too many so I now don’t allow it and let them know it’s sore. A couple of clients have been offended and not happy about it but I won’t allow them to abuse my body in this way no more.

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Re: Digging deep
« Reply #4 on: 14 June 2024, 04:10:31 pm »
Anonandon
Maybe those clients who are offended or unhappy about it might not want a finger jammed up them causing infection and pain.  You shouldn't have to experience that and don't ever give a damn about what they think .
Your priority not them 💕

MissElvira

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Re: Digging deep
« Reply #5 on: 14 June 2024, 04:55:43 pm »
I don't allow fingering and I put that on my profile and i tell them they can ryb my clit and fingering honestlydoes nothing for me, The cervix falls lower and rises higher if you still have a cycle. I can't take doggy certain times of the month. Also I notice some guys don't have short nails so I cringe at the thought of thise nails scratching me inside.

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Re: Digging deep
« Reply #6 on: 14 June 2024, 05:46:20 pm »
I allow fingering provided they've thoroughly washed their hands first in my bathroom and have short nails but am increasingly finding it difficult as it makes me sore and bored so I may well stop offering it soon.
Too many men  - inspired by the unrealities of porn - seem to think I'm going to squirt like a fountain or at least squeal in orgasmic ecstasy. In truth it does absolutely nothing for me and I never pretend it does.

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Re: Digging deep
« Reply #7 on: 14 June 2024, 06:04:40 pm »
I don’t offer it as it was giving me thrush. Guys fingernails are full of bacteria. It’s never been an issue with clients, thankfully.

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Re: Digging deep
« Reply #8 on: 14 June 2024, 06:24:37 pm »
i dont allow this full stop.

Ladyjane

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Re: Digging deep
« Reply #9 on: 24 June 2024, 09:53:51 pm »
I have to stop/teach 95% of my customers. They either try to go as deep as possible, as fast as possible or put as many fingers in as possible. Blame porn.

Anonandon

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Re: Digging deep
« Reply #10 on: 25 June 2024, 05:51:37 pm »
Yeah the infamous fast and furious fingering or using our vaginas like a flipping scratch card 😩 it’s too aggressive & rough