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Emmaaa

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Difficult times leading to escorting?.
« on: 18 October 2018, 09:36:09 am »
Getting back into escorting after so long away seems to be a distance away.

Due to my circumstances he would not bother. I will go to ann summers tomorrow. It is sad that circumstances has lead to this. I am misrable currently and cannot take his daily rubbish.

I sense that he is flirting with other women behind my back, not sexual because he cannot get hard. I caught him out on porn sites a few months ago. While browsing his phone without him knowing. He blamed me as to why those sites were there.   

He is a compulsive liar too. Even guys who don't use escorts are nobs I am learning. 

He hounded me when we last split up. Wishing that I never got back with him.
Lesson learned, I cannot live like this no more it hurts.   

Comparing the two I had happier times escorting, at least the men paid me compensating for having to tolerate them.




amy

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Re: Difficult times leading to escorting?.
« Reply #1 on: 18 October 2018, 03:33:27 pm »
Emmaaa, it's not clear what your question is and your post reads a bit like a blog rather than a thread starter - please also remember that while it's fine to post about specific negative experiences we're had, baseless and sweeping negativity about any entire group of people - including men - is not OK here.

There are other forums where people can help with any relationship problems so we can keep it relevant and get on with the sex work stuff, but we need to know what it is? :)

Emmaaa

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Re: Difficult times leading to escorting?.
« Reply #2 on: 19 October 2018, 12:56:58 am »
I was looking to see if there was an easy way to get back in to escorting. Apoligies if anyone was offended, I know there are good men out there just that I have been unluckly.




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Re: Difficult times leading to escorting?.
« Reply #3 on: 19 October 2018, 11:15:57 am »
I was looking to see if there was an easy way to get back in to escorting. Apoligies if anyone was offended, I know there are good men out there just that I have been unluckly.

Can you explain what you mean by 'easy' way to get back into it?
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Re: Difficult times leading to escorting?.
« Reply #4 on: 19 October 2018, 11:47:27 am »
I do understand that is you've exited a bad relationship with a man you can feel exhausted from all the emotional labour and feel that at least in prostitution there is a set amount of time were you 'service a man's needs/wants' and the time and payment delineate it nicely, in a way that feels less arduous, added with the fact you are not emotionally/romantically invested.

But how you get back in depends, as Librarylady says, on what you mean by easy entry? Its depends on what you want to get from escorting at this moment (it sounds obvious, well money, but how much/how often/how quickly) what your circumstances are, what you feel you might need to invest (in outfits, a place to work etc), would you prefer agency or indie, etc.

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Re: Difficult times leading to escorting?.
« Reply #5 on: 19 October 2018, 12:34:48 pm »
Is he still living with you? Please take care for your safety if you're going to be doing outcalls whilst he is there.

I guess we can't really advise on the best or easiest way to get back into sex work until we know what the current situation is.
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