Hi Ladies,

After some advice!

Ive worked as an inde for about 5 years now, Met a guy a couple of months ago.  He knows about me escorting and is fine about but doesn't want me working now were together which I can understand....

Thing is we haven't been together that long and I'm already starting to bore of sex. He wants to go a few times a day, every day.  I feel like I haven't had a proper orgasm for ages!

I feel like I've been desensitized to it all. I remember ages ago when heavy petting would get me aroused and wet but just don't seem to be interested.  He was going down on me for ages last night but just nothing and feels like a chore. I've just ordered a wand as I know its lots of clitoral stimulation that gets me going.  I feel like I need to speak to him but don't want to hurt his feelings.

Has anyone else had this problem with a partner after working for some time?  I wonder if I mentally associaiting it with 'work'


Thanks Girlies!

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Do you just need to tell him to stimulate your clitoris more?

Is everything else about the relationship OK apart from the sex?

I'm still very much into shagging if I fancy the bloke, but then I've never worked high volume as an escort.

I disagree about the lack of connection thing. I have gone off sex since working, because I associate it with work...

Have you moved in permanently with him and is he looking after your financial needs.?sound to me like he is using you as a sex machine and do not really care if you enjoy sex. Have you talked to him about it? One more thing do you fancy him? If not then I suggest you move on before it's late. 

Thing is it could be a number of things, Hormones and stress and other things can dampen sex drive. How was it sexually when you first met? Should be a honeymoon period. I had no sex outside of work sex for personal pleasure for a year. So before lockdown and with work flow i did what I do to feel sexually empowered and decided I'd find a guy outside of work I wanted and was worthy of having sex with me lol and it was great....Was he boyfriend material no way but i got what I wanted. He knew I was a escort which for me makes him not boyfriend material. Only my experience and personal opinion but I think guys do see you as a sexual thing if they know your a escort or think £ signs.

I think when your work is sex you need to remind yourself of what you enjoyed before escorting, Not just the sex bit but the rest. End of the day I can make myself cum 3 times inactive row and faster than a guy can but I enjoy the intimacy and build up with a guy and I've never cum with penetration, Very close. My ex hub would tease me because I could not cum with penetration and it worried me for years.

If he's just looking after himself at the 'free salad bar' what's the point?
Sounds like you know it's a dead dawg already.

Generally I find this job makes me more erotically charged cause it boosts my sensuality in 'normal' life.
Partly because I exclude a lot of unsuitables who I worked out are _{evil libido assassins.}