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Mirror

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« Reply #255 on: 19 February 2020, 09:51:10 pm »
I've just had this re. my NatWest business account:

Last November we let you know all major banks had signed up to a new industry code, Confirmation of Payee (CoP).

CoP is an account name checking service that will check if the payment details entered for a person or business match the details their bank holds.

These new rules are coming into effect now and while all UK banks will be introducing Confirmation of Payee, they may launch this service at different times. So it’s important that you take some steps now to make sure future payments aren’t delayed.

What do I need to do? 

Receiving payments 

When receiving any single UK Faster Payment and CHAPS sterling payments:

•   If you’re asking someone to pay you, make sure they’re aware of the correct name to use i.e. your exact account name, which may be different from your trading name. 

•   Make sure any parts of your business that deal with payment-related customer queries are aware of CoP and can provide the correct details to payment originators.

 

Making payments

When making any single UK Faster Payment and CHAPS sterling payments: 

•   If you’re creating a new payee or amending one in Online Banking or Bankline, it’s important to make sure you have the correct name of the account you’re making the payment to.

 •   Review any payee details you have stored in Online Banking or Bankline to ensure that the details you already have are correct. You should pay particular attention to those where you make payments to a payee infrequently or haven’t made a payment for a while.

 •   You’ll also need to specify whether the payment is being sent to a personal or business account.


I have just been to the Natwest 'Questions about Confirmation of Payee' page available online, the Question "Can Cop stop a payment being made?" has this answer;

"No, you will have to decide whether to proceed with the payment once you have read the confirmation of payee response.  If you decide to continue with the payment where you are advised to check with the recipient, and decide to proceed without checking, we may not be able to recover the money you send if it goes to an unintended recipient."

Which supports what I've seen elsewhere being the payment can go through without the account name.

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Re: Deposits.
« Reply #256 on: 19 February 2020, 09:57:40 pm »
Also from the Barclays website (and I'd heard of the opt out) ;

How do I opt out of Confirmation of Payee?
You can’t opt out of Confirmation of Payee (CoP) when you’re making a payment to someone else. You can, however, request to opt out of your details being checked when other people try to pay you.

CoP is being introduced to improve payments between UK banks and reduce instances of fraud as well as payments going to the wrong account. To be effective, it’s essential that everyone can receive a CoP response when they make a payment. If you opt out of CoP, when a person or business tries to pay you they’ll get a message that your details can’t be checked.


So you can actually opt out of your details being checked.

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« Reply #257 on: 19 February 2020, 10:02:08 pm »
And from another bank website ;

That name does`n’t match that account number

The name you’ve entered is significantly different to the actual name on the account. You can go ahead anyway if you wish, but it’s best to contact your payee to confirm the correct account name and details.

We can’t check these details

Your payee’s account doesn’t let us confirm their details. This might happen if their bank isn’t set up for CoP account name checks, or it’s a type of account that can’t be checked at all. You can go ahead anyway if you wish, but it’s best to go back and check to make sure.

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« Reply #258 on: 11 March 2020, 12:50:21 am »
RE depositing cash into your bank, since the start of April my bank has stopped over the counter cash deposits. I tried to put money in for my nephew and was told this can no longer be done, it has to be done online or by transferring from my account to his.
Oh yeah they did this to me too, just use the machine or don't say it's not you (not possible in this case though I know) Of course if they ask you would be honest but if they don't ask you've done nothing illegal because it's a deposit, not a withdrawal.

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« Reply #259 on: 11 March 2020, 10:23:26 pm »
Hi Everyone,

How much do you charge for car travel per mile? If travelling by train, do you add a time component as well as the ticket price? If so how much?

How much deposit do you take? What is your policy on returning the deposit if they cancel? Eg do you keep it if they give less than 24 hours' notice?

Also the only frictionless way of taking deposits without revealing my real name seems to be with Amazon vouchers. However I really want to avoid giving any more money to Jeff Bezos! Are there any other e-vouchers that are widely accepted?

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« Reply #260 on: 12 March 2020, 01:07:49 pm »
Hi Everyone,

How much do you charge for car travel per mile? If travelling by train, do you add a time component as well as the ticket price? If so how much?

Too complicated, just set a catchment area. As for deposit trying to get clients to agree to that is too much hassle, i just make them book me an uber which is hassle in itself but at least you know they're likely to be there if they paid for the cab.

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« Reply #261 on: 12 March 2020, 01:10:28 pm »
It's not foolproof but get the client to confirm the morning of your booking. I get all my clients to confirm by 10am the day of the booking. If they don't, I don't leave the house. *Touch wood*, I've never had a gentleman confirm and not turn up, either at the flat or on an outcall.

Welcome to the forum btw. :)
Yes this is effective, timewasters usually call you on the spur of the moment, and then forget about it, those who follow through with a later confirmation are likely to turn up

Nadya

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Re: Deposits.
« Reply #262 on: 14 March 2020, 11:36:43 am »
Hi Everyone,

How much do you charge for car travel per mile? If travelling by train, do you add a time component as well as the ticket price? If so how much?

How much deposit do you take? What is your policy on returning the deposit if they cancel? Eg do you keep it if they give less than 24 hours' notice?

Also the only frictionless way of taking deposits without revealing my real name seems to be with Amazon vouchers. However I really want to avoid giving any more money to Jeff Bezos! Are there any other e-vouchers that are widely accepted?

I have a booking minimum if they live far, rather than asking for travel cost.  I certainly won't travel over 45mins for just an hour booking.  Most are happy to pay for a 2hr booking though so that is ok.  Only if it is outside of London will I ask for a deposit, but I haven't had any distance bookings yet.

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Re: Deposits.
« Reply #263 on: 14 March 2020, 11:48:38 am »
Hi Everyone,

How much do you charge for car travel per mile? If travelling by train, do you add a time component as well as the ticket price? If so how much?

How much deposit do you take? What is your policy on returning the deposit if they cancel? Eg do you keep it if they give less than 24 hours' notice?

Also the only frictionless way of taking deposits without revealing my real name seems to be with Amazon vouchers. However I really want to avoid giving any more money to Jeff Bezos! Are there any other e-vouchers that are widely accepted?

I don't charge per mile partly because that may not be representative of the time required for the travel, I apply extra based on drive time.

Deposits I take on a non-refundable basis, and usually do not transfer to a different date. If I cancel I refund or transfer but not if the client has breached one of my basic terms and conditions. For example if they are under the influence of drugs or alcohol I may walk and I tell them this when I accept the booking.

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« Reply #264 on: 14 March 2020, 05:42:59 pm »
I have a booking minimum if they live far, rather than asking for travel cost.  I certainly won't travel over 45mins for just an hour booking.  Most are happy to pay for a 2hr booking though so that is ok.  Only if it is outside of London will I ask for a deposit, but I haven't had any distance bookings yet.

I am super cautious about 'committing' to a 2hr booking with an unknown client. Infact, depending on how old or young they sound, I usually limit it to the 1hr (to generalise, anyone under 35 may expect 120 minutes of sex-stuff or be under the influence, whereas old folk like me usually like a brew and a chat  8))

Are you always happy to stay the full duration Nadya?

I only do outcalls, so I have no alternative to offer them and am happy to drive for an hour to stay for an hour, or even 45 minutes..(less pressure and expectation) :)

Deposits or proof of address are necessary, but again I can be abit ageist - an old timer in his late 70's may struggle with supplying things over the Internet and may be infirm.

Intuition works instead in this case  :)
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Re: Deposits.
« Reply #265 on: 17 March 2020, 10:34:01 am »
I am super cautious about 'committing' to a 2hr booking with an unknown client. Infact, depending on how old or young they sound, I usually limit it to the 1hr (to generalise, anyone under 35 may expect 120 minutes of sex-stuff or be under the influence, whereas old folk like me usually like a brew and a chat  8))

Are you always happy to stay the full duration Nadya?

I only do outcalls, so I have no alternative to offer them and am happy to drive for an hour to stay for an hour, or even 45 minutes..(less pressure and expectation) :)

Deposits or proof of address are necessary, but again I can be abit ageist - an old timer in his late 70's may struggle with supplying things over the Internet and may be infirm.

Intuition works instead in this case  :)

I rarely have one of those monster f*ckers who want to spend 120 constantly shagging, thank goodness.  My clients tend to be older and love a good GFE so there is often plenty of preamble getting to know you and a good drink.  Two hours goes by much quicker when you have a Vodka in your hand whilst they are telling you about their day.  Also many  are not able to keep an erection for long so lots of build up, lots of cool down and the actual physical stuff is a fairly short time. 

I spent some time watching a film with one older man.  If someone wants a shorter time, I always advise them to look for someone closer to them, if they want me, they can come to me and get a room or they need to book me for longer, that is the only choice I give them. 

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« Reply #266 on: 19 March 2020, 10:54:14 pm »
So for the past 2 years I have asked for a £20 £50 deposit depending how far the job is , most seem happy to pay by bank transfer , a few things I have come access is if they can’t pay a deposit and are staying in a hotel get the room number and there full name and call the room but I did come unstuck with this last week all checked out I drove to the hotel and he never answered the door I should of asked for photo ID ,
another example is I have asked for a deposit they say they can’t then I ask them to text there Address then ask for a photo of there front door but it has to be open with the door number showing and then photo ID and they have obliged
Hope this helps

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« Reply #267 on: 18 May 2020, 09:10:41 pm »
Not sure how relevant / whatever it is but I’ve just paid someone from a lloyds account to their hsbc account. I know there’s was hsbc bc it said they were checking with hsbc regarding the details attached to that account.
And I had put the person initials in as their name, it then came up in huge capitals with their full name saying “that account belongs to A**** L**** K******** is that the account you want to pay blah blah “

So... be careful x

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« Reply #268 on: 18 May 2020, 09:52:08 pm »
Not sure how relevant / whatever it is but I’ve just paid someone from a lloyds account to their hsbc account. I know there’s was hsbc bc it said they were checking with hsbc regarding the details attached to that account.
And I had put the person initials in as their name, it then came up in huge capitals with their full name saying “that account belongs to A**** L**** K******** is that the account you want to pay blah blah “

So... be careful x

Yes if you use part of the name some banks will fill in gaps, some offer an opt out so details are not revealed.

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« Reply #269 on: 19 May 2020, 01:19:46 am »
Any escorts here who asks for deposits/cab paid in advance tired of this stupid excuse? Is asking for deposit/cab paid in advance for outcall common? I started because time wasters who stopped answering their phone or gave me a fake address were a regular occurrence.