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EvelynWho

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Re: Deposits.
« Reply #210 on: 23 September 2019, 07:28:41 pm »
On the topic of deposits - didn’t want to make a whole new thread apologies -
If a client sends a deposit for a last minute booking and then arrives 15/20 minutes late. Meaning you are unable to see them (bc of other bookings or whatever reason).
Do you suggest returning the deposit ? Even though you could have accepted someone else’s enquiry and potentially not lost out on the rest of the fee ?

(FYI my profile is very clear about last minute bookings not being advisable. Deposit being nonrefundable. Etc). Xx

Mirror

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« Reply #211 on: 23 September 2019, 07:33:11 pm »
On the topic of deposits - didn’t want to make a whole new thread apologies -
If a client sends a deposit for a last minute booking and then arrives 15/20 minutes late. Meaning you are unable to see them (bc of other bookings or whatever reason).
Do you suggest returning the deposit ? Even though you could have accepted someone else’s enquiry and potentially not lost out on the rest of the fee ?

(FYI my profile is very clear about last minute bookings not being advisable. Deposit being nonrefundable. Etc). Xx

I always stipulate the deposit is unrefunded if the payer makes signficant changes or cancels. What you need to say is that you are on a tight schedule, you'll fit them in but if they arrive late they may have to accept a reduced time or forfeit the deposit.

Make the terms absolutely clear.

In over 4 years of requiring deposits from new / non-regular punters I've received deposits from are not late - another benefit.

EvelynWho

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« Reply #212 on: 23 September 2019, 07:34:24 pm »
I always stipulate the deposit is unrefunded if the payer makes signficant changes or cancels. What you need to say is that you are on a tight schedule, you'll fit them in but if they arrive late they may have to accept a reduced time or forfeit the deposit.

Make the terms absolutely clear.

Thankyou. I do make it clear as can be. That I can wait up to 5/10 minutes into time. Or I’ll be unable to see them. They arrive 15/20 minutes late and when I say I’m unable to fit them in they’re shocked. ::// xx

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« Reply #213 on: 23 September 2019, 07:42:10 pm »
No. I wouldn't return deposit. I'd never suggest returning it either.
The deposit is to make sure they turn up as arranged. My website says it's not refundable.
I invite them to arrive 5 minutes earlier to get settled in.

My view is that's his time slot and I have a day to organise, if he's late that's his his business.

These guys can be oddly literal and misinterpret and if you write that you give them 10-15 minutes grace they may think it's ok to be late.
You may be better off removing that or encouraging prompt arrival?

EvelynWho

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« Reply #214 on: 23 September 2019, 07:43:47 pm »
No. I wouldn't return deposit. I'd never suggest returning it either.
The deposit is to make sure they turn up as arranged. My website says it's not refundable.
I invite them to arrive 5 minutes earlier to get settled in.

My view is that's his time slot and I have a day to organise, if he's late that's his his business.

These guys can be oddly literal and misinterpret and if you write that you give them 10-15 minutes grace they may think it's ok to be late.

I thought I was giving them a nudge when I say 5/10 mins I can wait but after that I won’t be able to see them.
But you’re right if they’re responsibility to arrive on time.
These last minute bookings are always late. Idk why they bother. X

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« Reply #215 on: 28 September 2019, 03:36:45 pm »
I’ve taken deposits by online bank transfer before. Putting anything in the “account name” box has worked so I don’t have to tell them my real name however earlier in the year I heard that things are changing and now the name you put in there must match the name on the account!

I haven’t had any lately as I only request them for outcalls and haven’t had any of those for a long time so I don’t know if it’s already taken effect!

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« Reply #216 on: 07 November 2019, 04:55:16 pm »
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Mirror

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« Reply #217 on: 07 November 2019, 05:06:58 pm »
Is this still the case? Trying to find a safe way to accept deposits

Yes the sender may see a warning, as far as I know they can however override this.

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« Reply #218 on: 07 November 2019, 07:48:13 pm »
I take deposits by bank transfer and have never had to give a client my real name. I'm with Halifax. A client may think they need your real name but you can put literally anything in the name/reference box and it still works as long as the sort code and account number is correct.
Chloe x

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« Reply #219 on: 07 November 2019, 07:59:44 pm »
Is there absolutely nothing else they can do with that info other than pay into the account ?

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« Reply #220 on: 09 November 2019, 12:42:42 am »
I just had 50 removed from my account which was a deposit by a client, I didn't even know the bank could do that

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« Reply #221 on: 10 November 2019, 10:13:00 am »
I just had 50 removed from my account which was a deposit by a client, I didn't even know the bank could do that

What explanation have you been given for this?

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« Reply #222 on: 10 November 2019, 10:52:37 am »
I just had 50 removed from my account which was a deposit by a client, I didn't even know the bank could do that

From researching bank transfers yesterday the bank should have contacted you before removing the funds to see if it was a mistake or not. They can “freeze” the funds so it is not spent until contact is made though.

I’d contact Halifax.

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« Reply #223 on: 11 November 2019, 12:36:09 pm »
I take deposits by bank transfer and have never had to give a client my real name. I'm with Halifax. A client may think they need your real name but you can put literally anything in the name/reference box and it still works as long as the sort code and account number is correct.

But on their bank statement surely it says account of on it?

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« Reply #224 on: 11 November 2019, 02:21:53 pm »
But on their bank statement surely it says account of on it?

I am pretty sure it says whatever they type into the box as the reference, if your name as recipientwas shared with their bank without you providing it would (IMHO) break data protection/confidentiality/discretion.