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darlington_girl

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Definition of a BBW?
« on: 03 November 2009, 08:18:46 pm »
Ok ok i know name is quite explanitory but i've seen women of size 16- 18 calling themselves a bbw, and to me they don't look like they should be called such a term, i think size 16 is just normal. I'm a size 18 and know it is big, bigger than what most punters would like so therefore would i be a bbw in terms of attracting men who would prefer bigger women?? but then would they be disappointed that i wasn't huge!!? ha.  So sorry for all the questions, thanks again, k   :)

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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #1 on: 03 November 2009, 08:48:17 pm »
It's quite a loose term.

I'm a size 16 but don't classify myself as a BBW, I am however listen in BBW sections of a few sites as well as other sections. I know many of my clients aren't specificlly looking for a bigger lady but that some are.

I've seen ladies who call themselves BBW at as small as a 12-14.

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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #2 on: 03 November 2009, 08:53:22 pm »
 I am a 16-18 but do not class myself as a BBW, but my friend who is a 14-16 does.!

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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #3 on: 03 November 2009, 11:10:07 pm »
I think it depends on how you feel personally and I do class myself as BBW, eventhough I don't feel I can compete with many of the really buxom ladies. I'm a size 18 with a B/C cup and some of my clients have commented that I am not that big.

I suppose I am a little worried that if I don't classify myself as BBW my clients will expect a slim modelesque type.
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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #4 on: 03 November 2009, 11:27:40 pm »
I had someone leave last week because I wasn't as big as he'd expected. This was an aw client so no mention of BBW.

Apparently my ass and hips weren't big enough, i personally think i have huge-mofo hips.

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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #5 on: 03 November 2009, 11:37:21 pm »
My size has been up and down a bit this year ranging from 14-16 most of the time although I dipped lower.  I class myself as a BBW (Big Beautiful Woman although not based on breast size alone) and I would say that ladies with this kind of dress size fall in this category.  There are further sub categories but Pretty Big Escorts tend to start from that size too.  I don't think that a size 16 is slim although most ladies look healthy and curvy.  Whether rightly or wrongly a size 14 generally is classed as large as far as clothing labels go.  

Not sure why some people feel uncomfortable about this label or think they have to be much bigger to qualify.  Generally, it is a great marketing tool to attract gents that prefer more voluptuous body types.        

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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #6 on: 04 November 2009, 12:10:53 am »
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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #7 on: 04 November 2009, 11:34:11 am »
Yes- it took me a small amount of time to 'get' that photo and it's connection!
I was looking at the redhead and thinking, is she a bbw then?
Duh!

I think I am a bbw, with less of the second b in that, every time I bloody well do that two way mirror thing and spy my arse in all it's glory!
I sort of mutter 'how can that be even possible???'
Ha!
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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #8 on: 04 November 2009, 04:04:06 pm »
Darlington girl, I would just describe yourself as "curvaceous" or "voluptuous" - that's what I do.  I'm a size 16 (sometimes 18  :-\) trying to get down to a 14 so wouldn't want to put myself in the BBW category (not that I think there's anything wrong with being described as a BBW!).  I know some think of a size 14 (and even 12) as curvy, but I'm of a "certain age" and can remember when a size 12/14 was considered slim (especially a 12).

Cassie, I don't think you need worry that clients will expect a slim modelesque type if you don't describe yourself as a BBW.  They should be able to judge from looking at your website and I personally wouldn't put you in the BBW category (that's not to say you aren't a Beautiful Woman!).  Everyone seems to have a different view of what a BBW is - perhaps the guys who go for BBWs would be the best ones to answer this.
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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #9 on: 05 November 2009, 12:16:50 am »
I am a dress size 16 and 40D.. some class me as a BBW

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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #10 on: 05 November 2009, 12:34:16 am »
Yes- it took me a small amount of time to 'get' that photo and it's connection!
I was looking at the redhead and thinking, is she a bbw then?
Duh!

Yep, I stared at this for a while, not getting it. lol
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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #11 on: 05 November 2009, 12:34:38 am »
Cassie, I don't think you need worry that clients will expect a slim modelesque type if you don't describe yourself as a BBW.  They should be able to judge from looking at your website and I personally wouldn't put you in the BBW category (that's not to say you aren't a Beautiful Woman!).  Everyone seems to have a different view of what a BBW is
Yeah, isn't bodyperception a funny thing and I too have had a guy cancel because he thought I wasn't big enough and on the other side had a guy comment - I thought they would have been bigger - when he removed my bra.

(that's not to say you aren't a Beautiful Woman!).
Thanks, it's always nice to hear that.  :) :-[

perhaps the guys who go for BBWs would be the best ones to answer this.
Good idea, I think I might raise this as a topic on a punter forum and see what the guys say.
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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #12 on: 05 November 2009, 11:35:28 am »
For the same reason that some people class a 30-year-old escort as "mature", you could be considered a BBW even if you're a pretty average size. People are always going to have different ideas of how big big is, so go with whatever you feel suits you and make it clear on your website where in the spectrum you fall.

No-one's mentioned height yet, and that's another reason dress size isn't the sole indicator. Size 16 and 5'1" isn't the same body type as size 16 and 5'10".

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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #13 on: 05 November 2009, 11:58:31 am »
On the other hand, I did once have a guy turn up and say I was bigger than he thought and leave! (must have been that period when I was eating all the pies!!) so maybe I should think about marketing myself as a BBW!

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Re: Definition of a BBW?
« Reply #14 on: 05 November 2009, 04:08:49 pm »
I am deffo a BBW (A Big Busty Woman) No emphasis on the beautiful bit, LOL.  I'm size 20 with 40DD/E bust, 5'3".  I have often  described myself as rubenesque, but a lot of blokes don't know what that means either!! LOL.

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