I don’t know if it’s just the way I’m made, but I find it nearly impossible to accommodate girthy clients.

Penetration really hurts, even with good quality lubricant.

I think it might be because I’m not aroused during sex and under normal circumstances (if I was actually enjoying it) my vagina would react differently.

I had the misfortune to have three really girthy clients one after the other (never ever happened before) and it gave me thrush plus I had to take painkillers. I couldn’t work for a week.

The problem is that they just fitted, albeit very uncomfortably. I should mention if clients are too, too big then I do refuse them.

I also think my vagina is becoming less tolerant as I get older.

Do ladies have any other tips for coping with this?

Just put a note on yr profile anybody bigger than extra large no can do.

I can still have them anally but since menopause and doing pelvic floor exercises daily my pussy cannot cope with those mega huge ones.

Yes, I have that on my profile.

I’m really trying to investigate if there’s a way to make the sex more comfortable if they’re well endowed (I’m not talking monster cocks as that’s a no go).

I’m sure I wasn’t this ‘tight’ when I was younger.

Maybe you could practice alone with a larger dildo or something. I have no idea if that would work. Personally I have never really had an issue with it. Bit I do get more sore if I haven't worked for a while. So maybe regular penetration( with large dildo) might make you less sore. I didn't know this was a thing as you got older ...I'm turning 40 this year so I guess I will find out soon.

Yes, I’ve been peri menopause for literally years and take HRT.

I think you might be correct, Mirror. I don’t get aroused in the slightest at work (I know a lot of ladies do but I don’t).

I love the job or I wouldn’t do it. I did get aroused in the early days so it must be hormonal.

I do use a large dildo for toy shows but the cocks I’m talking about are larger than that (and my toy is 9 inches). It’s the girth with clients I can’t handle.

I guess it’s the joys of getting old!

Once the vagina tightens I doubt a huge dildo would  help.

I Use Yes organic vaginal moisturiser to stop my pussy getting too dry or sensitive/itchy. It has worked so well I could bring back reverse oral.

Oh lovely. I’ll have a look at that. Thank you.