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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: SaraM on 24 March 2020, 05:55:46 pm
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I know a part of our job is to handle unattractive clients we aren't attracted to, and i don't have a problem with that. I've had some great bookings with these type of guys. It's just the extreme i struggle with. I have one client who is very unattractive and i always find it so hard to be with him.
Am i the only one here who has issues on this front? Any personal experiences?
Are some even able to get off okay with these type of guys?
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Not a problem for me. I guess it helps that I’m not in this job to ‘get off’. For me it’s about the income. Of course a good looking, nice smelling guy is a very acceptable bonus, particularly if the sex happens to be good, but I’m not fussed about looks. Poor hygiene and bad manners, though, make the work tedious on occasion.
If a man is not just plain, but actually ugly, I have a lot of compassion for him, because being attractive makes life easier due to people’s positive reaction. If you look like Quasimodo and everybody reels back when you walk in he door, that’s incredibly sad.
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I’d honestly see somebody that I’m not attracted too.
I turn into a giggling school girl if someone hot turns up hahahahaha
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As for ‘getting off’ ? Most of my clientele only care about getting themselves off. If they do insist on me then just fake it.
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Get off was the wrong term for me to use. I meant more as in 'get through'
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As for ‘getting off’ ? Most of my clientele only care about getting themselves off. If they do insist on me then just fake it.
I actually hate it when a client asks “what gets you off?, what do you like?, how can I make you cum?”. Urgh. I just want to get paid and get on with getting HIM off! Don’t worry about me, payment is just fine! Ha
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I usually dump unnatractive, unappealing clients. There's always a more compatible one around the corner. Too much mental stress. I'm not Politically Correct, and the queen bee can pick and choose.
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Myself, I don’t care if you look like the dogs dinner, but being grossly overweight makes the session really difficult for me. It’s hard to reach your penis, I’m having to shove your flab outta the way; Christ, I need 3 hands *scowls*.
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It depends what you mean by unattractive. I've had great sex with men who look like they fell off York Minster. If I found someone physically repulsive for any reason, I just wouldn't see them again.
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It's their poor character, that makes themselves
ugly, they need to watch what they say.
When they show off their stupidity, they do
start to look ugly.
Once we get older, none of us will stay young,
Things descend, naturally.
Bulbous bellies, always get me worried,
in case of mi/ha.
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It's their poor character, that makes themselves
ugly, they need to watch what they say.
When they show off their stupidity, they do
start to look ugly.
Once we get older, none of us will stay young,
Things descend, naturally.
Bulbous bellies, always get me worried,
in case of mi/ha.
I think this is a beautiful poem Regeeee
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I guess people have different definitions of unattractive
Unattractive is an arrogant stuck up rude person to me.
So many faces have been at the door, the smile no matter how they look is a heart warner
Smelling fresh is always a huge plus :)
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Mostly of the time I get through fine but there has been the odd one where I've found them unbearable and wondering why I do the job. I am silently screaming for them to get off me.
Thankfully this isn't often. Sometimes I can enjoy the sex and get myself off as well. But what HF said - rudeness and arrogance is just as bad if not worse.
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I think this is a beautiful poem Regeeee
:) x
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I actually prefer the unattractive ones, as they usually try harder with their personality and are much nicer company. I have shagged some folks that resemble Hitler, Jesus, ones that look homeless, to the guys that look like they belong in a zombie movie or are so old thier skin is almost transparent.
Give me an uglie over a smelly any day of the week. And I am no Cindy Crawford anyway.
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I know a part of our job is to handle unattractive clients we aren't attracted to, and i don't have a problem with that. I've had some great bookings with these type of guys. It's just the extreme i struggle with. I have one client who is very unattractive and i always find it so hard to be with him.
Am i the only one here who has issues on this front? Any personal experiences?
If it's just one extremely unattractive client you struggle with, you can afford not to see him right?
I can deal with deformities (actually have a crush on a client with cleft lip) but not certain skin conditions. My experience with one client, he had cauliflower wart growths in the groin area. He insisted it was skin tags but I didn't see him again. Its not part of our job to handle clients we are deeply repulsed by. There's a difference between not being attracted to, and feeling repulsed.
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Yes I think unattractive is relative. I have had some reviews left for clients stating they were good looking and for me they were butt ugly. I agree with comments if they aren't too bad I carry on especially if they are nice people. My turn off is bad breath and teeth.
I once had someone who I call had the 'parsons nose' from his butt. I jumped when I felt it, it was revolting, god knows what that was. I looked at the reviews on AW and a lot had gorgeous guy, to me he wasnt, he had bad teeth and big starey eyes which he kept opening wider and wider as we carried on.
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I know a part of our job is to handle unattractive clients we aren't attracted to, and i don't have a problem with that. I've had some great bookings with these type of guys. It's just the extreme i struggle with. I have one client who is very unattractive and i always find it so hard to be with him.
Am i the only one here who has issues on this front? Any personal experiences?
Are some even able to get off okay with these type of guys?
Ive had some super unattractive guys (looks wise) and they were some of the best clients Ive seen so for me it depends on how I feel after the meet ie if I feel like crap or got dopamines lol. If you really feel that uncomfy with a guy then just dont see him again - theres plenty more fish in the sea ;)
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I enjoy and prefer the average male whom don't fall into the category of being handsome as I get on well with them.
The good looking handsome men are clients who I dislike and is happy when the booking ends and they leave.
They are always arrogant cocky pricks.
The good looking men think they are gods gift have the attitude they can get any female in the world they should not be paying for sex.
So I say why did you book an escort if you can get any female you want and they all fall at your feet.
I have not had anyone that looks like (Hunchback of Notre Dame).
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There's a lot of truth in that.
They start texting stupid stuff...
as you describe.
I also had men, who are not sexy at all,
pushing his luck, rude, insulting,
critical...
Attitude to prostitutes can show.
There are decent ones, but are very few.
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Morning all I prefer the unattractive ones they are always very polite and really appreciate what we do. Hey by the end of the day ££££ is very attractive It does not matter who is giving it to you 😂😂
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Though I have had some typical lookers be a bit arrogant Ive also found some of the unattractive guys have a serious attitude which I put down to them feeling they are 'stuck' having to pay for it and having a sense of incel-style grievance. Dickheads can come in all packages. But if you really find a guy unappealing and its making you uncomfortable, I'd drop him. I wish I'd done this more in the past because the potential long term ramifications of having sex with someone who makes you skin crawl can be worse than the short term gain of the money. Yes we are prostitutes, but we have the right to say no as much as anybody else does.
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I think it is their vibe that can help determine whether we can cope with them or not, when they are very unattractive.
I had a client once with a very long white beard and he commented he had always found it difficult to get escorts to kiss him. Which wasn't surprising although I didn't tell him. However he was a pleasant enough guy so it didn't matter to me.
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I don't care what they look like as long as they smell nice and look friendly when I let them in. I find the less attractive guys try harder to please me in bed which isn't compulsory but it is a bonus :)
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I really don't care what they look like, provided they are clean, polite and respect my boundaries. I've had some guys that would be considered truly ugly be the most sweetest and kindest clients and we get on brilliantly and some very attractive guys be total dickheads who I will never allow to see me again.
I can only think of one time where I was grossed out by someone once but he was so genuine and sweet I could overlook it and I soon forgot about my initial reaction and he became one of my favourite regulars.
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I actually prefer the old/ugly/overweight clients. They are so much more polite and 'thankful' for the service we provide.
I have had some hurrendous visits from premadonna types. I still see them, but cringe at their arrogance.
Give me a clean lardy guy anytime!
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One of my most unappealing clients was a double for Pavarotti. Grossly overweight, beard etc. He had a willy like a button mushroom ( I havent seen Pavarottis lol). But went he gave me oral i nearly went thru the roof many times...superb lol. I always hoped he'd return but he never did. It just made me realise that I dont need to be attracted to a man to get satisfaction.
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One of my most unappealing clients was a double for Pavarotti. Grossly overweight, beard etc. He had a willy like a button mushroom ( I havent seen Pavarottis lol). But went he gave me oral i nearly went thru the roof many times...superb lol. I always hoped he'd return but he never did. It just made me realise that I dont need to be attracted to a man to get satisfaction.
I have found overweight men to be the best at oral and I have no idea why! It’s like men say “overweight girls are fun to ride but you wouldn’t want to be seen with them”, it’s an awful saying but I agree with it only it’s the overweight men I feel this way about, something about slim beautiful women not trying in bed (more in civvy life than sex work life) whereas overweight/less attractive women try harder, it’s the same thing!
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As literally 98% of my clients are what I call a "standard" white, overweight to obese, bald and middle aged I'm not generally attracted to them physically. I have only seen maybe 3 clients in nearly 3 years who were remotely attractive. One of them was a navy diver who had such an amazing physique I said I'd pay him just to gawp for half an hour.. He was really funny too. Rare to find someone so gorgeous whose personality matched :D
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I don't mind if they have hit every branch of the ugly tree on the way down as long as they are HYGIENIC and polite.
But saying that I have had a lot of very good looking clients. 10 out 10s who I would never have slept with in real life cus I don't sleep around!
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I don't mind if they have hit every branch of the ugly tree on the way down as long as they are HYGIENIC and polite.
But saying that I have had a lot of very good looking clients. 10 out 10s who I would never have slept with in real life cus I don't sleep around!
Exactly this top line for sure! I always say that escorting isn’t for women that are so concerned with looks! I had a friend that wanted into this line of work and she kept asking me “are there hot guys, are there hot guys” and it annoyed me because not many of us get into this job for sex, or at least not just the sex (it’s the money for me though) and so I said to her that imo most punters are average or less than average in the looks department and that if she did get a hottie then like the majority of us, she would find that difficult and perhaps a little uncomfortable, yet she didn’t get it, I guess that’s why she still hasn’t made it into this work and never will!
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Looks doesn't matter as long as they are clean and decent. I think this applies for most of us, especially after few years of experience. All we want is respectful and kind men with goid hygiene!:)
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It doesn't bother me I'm not the best looking myself
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Looks doesn't matter as long as they are clean and decent. I think this applies for most of us, especially after few years of experience. All we want is respectful and kind men with goid hygiene!:)
This ^^^^ multiplied by 1000...it’s all an escort wants from her clients, and paying of course.
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I actually hate it when a client asks “what gets you off?, what do you like?, how can I make you cum?”. Urgh. I just want to get paid and get on with getting HIM off! Don’t worry about me, payment is just fine! Ha
The regular. so annoying
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I did have a particularly ugly client once who I christened Quasimodo and he had the cheek to offer me less than my going rate for a regular weekly booking! No thanks love, one booking wth that face is enough!
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Goth girl I am like you...I prefer them to be unattractive then I feel I have the upper hand haha. If they are too handsome and fit I just feel a bit awkward!? It is interesting isnt it that people have the assumption that only old fat guys come to see escorts when actually most the men I have seen have been relatively good looking guys in their 30's.