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Philipa

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #15 on: 25 March 2020, 02:54:12 pm »
I know a part of our job is to handle unattractive clients we aren't attracted to, and i don't have a problem with that. I've had some great bookings with these type of guys. It's just the extreme i struggle with. I have one client who is very unattractive and i always find it so hard to be with him.
 
Am i the only one here who has issues on this front? Any personal experiences?
If it's just one extremely unattractive client you struggle with, you can afford not to see him right?

I can deal with deformities (actually have a crush on a client with cleft lip) but not certain skin conditions. My experience with one client, he had cauliflower wart growths in the groin area. He insisted it was skin tags but I didn't see him again. Its not part of our job to handle clients we are deeply repulsed by.  There's a difference between not being attracted to, and feeling repulsed.

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #16 on: 25 March 2020, 08:21:58 pm »
Yes I think unattractive is relative.  I have had some reviews left for clients stating they were good looking and for me they were butt ugly.  I agree with comments if they aren't too bad I carry on especially if they are nice people.  My turn off is bad breath and teeth.

I once had someone who I call had the 'parsons nose' from his butt.  I jumped when I felt it, it was revolting, god knows what that was.  I looked at the reviews on AW and a lot had gorgeous guy, to me he wasnt, he had bad teeth and big starey eyes which he kept opening wider and wider as we carried on.

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #17 on: 02 April 2020, 10:41:06 am »
I know a part of our job is to handle unattractive clients we aren't attracted to, and i don't have a problem with that. I've had some great bookings with these type of guys. It's just the extreme i struggle with. I have one client who is very unattractive and i always find it so hard to be with him.
 
Am i the only one here who has issues on this front? Any personal experiences?
 
Are some even able to get off okay with these type of guys?

Ive had some super unattractive guys (looks wise) and they were some of the best clients Ive seen so for me it depends on how I feel after the meet ie if I feel like crap or got dopamines lol. If you really feel that uncomfy with a guy then just dont see him again - theres plenty more fish in the sea  ;)
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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #18 on: 02 April 2020, 11:15:35 am »
I enjoy and prefer the average male whom don't fall into the category of being handsome as I get on well  with them.

The good looking handsome men are clients who I dislike and is happy when the booking ends and they leave.
They are always arrogant cocky pricks.

The good looking men think they are gods gift have the attitude they can get any female in the world they should not be paying for sex.
So I say why did you book an escort if you can get any female you want and they all fall at your feet.

I have not had anyone that looks like (Hunchback of Notre Dame).

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #19 on: 02 April 2020, 12:15:33 pm »
There's a lot of truth in that.
They start texting stupid stuff...
as you describe.

I also had men, who are not sexy at all,
pushing his luck, rude, insulting,
critical...
Attitude to prostitutes can show.
There are decent ones, but are very few.


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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #20 on: 03 April 2020, 09:09:17 am »
Morning all I prefer the unattractive ones they are always very polite and really appreciate what we do. Hey by the end of the day ££££ is very attractive It does not matter who is giving it to you 😂😂

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #21 on: 06 April 2020, 10:41:59 am »
Though I have had some typical lookers be a bit arrogant Ive also found some of the unattractive guys have a serious attitude which I put down to them feeling they are 'stuck' having to pay for it and having a sense of incel-style grievance. Dickheads can come in all packages. But if you really find a guy unappealing and its making you uncomfortable, I'd drop him. I wish I'd done this more in the past because the potential long term ramifications of having sex with someone who makes you skin crawl can be worse than the short term gain of the money. Yes we are prostitutes, but we have the right to say no as much as anybody else does.

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #22 on: 18 April 2020, 08:07:51 am »
I think it is their vibe that can help determine whether we can cope with them or not, when they are very unattractive.

I had a client once with a very long white beard and he commented he had always found it difficult to get escorts to kiss him.  Which wasn't surprising although I didn't tell him.  However he was a pleasant enough guy so it didn't matter to me.

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #23 on: 18 April 2020, 04:23:08 pm »
I don't care what they look like as long as they smell nice and look friendly when I let them in. I find the less attractive guys try harder to please me in bed which isn't compulsory but it is a bonus  :)

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #24 on: 18 April 2020, 07:54:53 pm »
I really don't care what they look like, provided they are clean, polite and respect my boundaries. I've had some guys that would be considered truly ugly be the most sweetest and kindest clients and we get on brilliantly and some very attractive guys be total dickheads who I will never allow to see me again.

I can only think of one time where I was grossed out by someone once but he was so genuine and sweet I could overlook it and I soon forgot about my initial reaction and he became one of my favourite regulars.


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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #25 on: 28 April 2020, 09:27:25 am »
I actually prefer the old/ugly/overweight clients. They are so much more polite and 'thankful' for the service we provide.
I have had some hurrendous visits from premadonna types. I still see them, but cringe at their arrogance.
Give me a clean lardy guy anytime!
It costs a lot to look this cheap.

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #26 on: 24 July 2020, 06:32:54 pm »
One of my most unappealing clients was a double for Pavarotti. Grossly overweight, beard etc. He had a willy like a button mushroom ( I havent seen Pavarottis lol). But went he gave me oral i nearly went thru the roof many times...superb lol. I always hoped he'd return but he never did. It just made me realise that I dont need to be attracted to a man to get satisfaction.

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #27 on: 25 July 2020, 03:16:32 pm »
One of my most unappealing clients was a double for Pavarotti. Grossly overweight, beard etc. He had a willy like a button mushroom ( I havent seen Pavarottis lol). But went he gave me oral i nearly went thru the roof many times...superb lol. I always hoped he'd return but he never did. It just made me realise that I dont need to be attracted to a man to get satisfaction.
I have found overweight men to be the best at oral and I have no idea why! It’s like men say “overweight girls are fun to ride but you wouldn’t want to be seen with them”, it’s an awful saying but I agree with it only it’s the overweight men I feel this way about, something about slim beautiful women not trying in bed (more in civvy life than sex work life) whereas overweight/less attractive women try harder, it’s the same thing!

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #28 on: 25 July 2020, 08:35:58 pm »
As literally 98% of my clients are what I call a "standard" white, overweight to obese, bald and middle aged I'm not generally attracted to them physically. I have only seen maybe 3 clients in nearly 3 years who were remotely attractive. One of them was a navy diver who had such an amazing physique I said I'd pay him just to gawp for half an hour.. He was really funny too. Rare to find someone so gorgeous whose personality matched  :D
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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #29 on: 25 July 2020, 11:52:16 pm »
I don't mind if they have hit every branch of the ugly tree on the way down as long as they are HYGIENIC and polite.

But saying that I have had a lot of very good looking clients. 10 out 10s who I would never have slept with in real life cus I don't sleep around!
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