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SaraM

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Dealing with very unattractive clients
« on: 24 March 2020, 05:55:46 pm »
I know a part of our job is to handle unattractive clients we aren't attracted to, and i don't have a problem with that. I've had some great bookings with these type of guys. It's just the extreme i struggle with. I have one client who is very unattractive and i always find it so hard to be with him. 
 
Am i the only one here who has issues on this front? Any personal experiences?
 
Are some even able to get off okay with these type of guys?

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #1 on: 24 March 2020, 07:12:07 pm »
Not a problem for me. I guess it helps that I’m not in this job to ‘get off’. For me it’s about the income. Of course a good looking, nice smelling guy is a very acceptable bonus, particularly if the sex happens to be good, but I’m not fussed about looks. Poor hygiene and bad manners, though, make the work tedious on occasion.

If a man is not just plain, but actually ugly, I have a lot of compassion for him, because being attractive makes life easier due to people’s positive reaction. If you look like Quasimodo and everybody reels back when you walk in he door, that’s incredibly sad.
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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #2 on: 24 March 2020, 07:28:49 pm »
I’d honestly see somebody that I’m not attracted too.

I turn into a giggling school girl if someone hot turns up hahahahaha

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #3 on: 24 March 2020, 07:30:00 pm »
As for ‘getting off’ ? Most of my clientele only care about getting themselves off. If they do insist on me then just fake it.

SaraM

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #4 on: 24 March 2020, 08:13:10 pm »
Get off was the wrong term for me to use. I meant more as in 'get through'

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #5 on: 24 March 2020, 09:02:08 pm »
As for ‘getting off’ ? Most of my clientele only care about getting themselves off. If they do insist on me then just fake it.
I actually hate it when a client asks “what gets you off?, what do you like?, how can I make you cum?”. Urgh. I just want to get paid and get on with getting HIM off! Don’t worry about me, payment is just fine! Ha

saltysweet

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #6 on: 24 March 2020, 09:23:50 pm »
I usually dump unnatractive, unappealing clients. There's always a more compatible one around the corner. Too much mental stress. I'm not Politically Correct, and the queen bee can pick and choose.
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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #7 on: 24 March 2020, 09:43:22 pm »
Myself, I don’t care if you look like the dogs dinner, but being grossly overweight makes the session really difficult for me. It’s hard to reach your penis, I’m having to shove your flab outta the way; Christ, I need 3 hands *scowls*.
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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #8 on: 24 March 2020, 10:06:26 pm »
It depends what you mean by unattractive. I've had great sex with men who look like they fell off York Minster. If I found someone physically repulsive for any reason, I just wouldn't see them again.
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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #9 on: 24 March 2020, 10:28:23 pm »
It's their poor character, that makes themselves
ugly, they need to watch what they say.
When they show off their stupidity, they do
start to look ugly.

Once we get older, none of us will stay young,
Things descend, naturally.
Bulbous bellies, always get me worried,
in case of mi/ha. 

saltysweet

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #10 on: 24 March 2020, 10:39:20 pm »
It's their poor character, that makes themselves
ugly, they need to watch what they say.
When they show off their stupidity, they do
start to look ugly.

Once we get older, none of us will stay young,
Things descend, naturally.
Bulbous bellies, always get me worried,
in case of mi/ha.

I think this is a beautiful poem Regeeee

hot flower

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #11 on: 24 March 2020, 10:46:34 pm »
I guess people have different definitions of unattractive
Unattractive is an arrogant stuck up rude person to me.
So many faces have been at the door, the smile no matter how they look is a heart warner
Smelling fresh is always a huge plus  :)

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #12 on: 25 March 2020, 12:51:13 am »
Mostly of the time I get through fine but there has been the odd one where I've found them unbearable and wondering why I do the job. I am silently screaming for them to get off me.

Thankfully this isn't often. Sometimes I can enjoy the sex and get myself off as well. But what HF said - rudeness and arrogance is just as bad if not worse.

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #13 on: 25 March 2020, 09:24:03 am »
I think this is a beautiful poem Regeeee

 :) x

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Re: Dealing with very unattractive clients
« Reply #14 on: 25 March 2020, 02:39:18 pm »
I actually prefer the unattractive ones, as they usually try harder with their personality and are much nicer company.  I have shagged some folks that resemble Hitler, Jesus, ones that look homeless, to the guys that look like they belong in a zombie movie or are so old thier skin is almost transparent.

Give me an uglie over a smelly any day of the week.  And I am no Cindy Crawford anyway.