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Nia Hope

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Re: Dealing with Idots?
« Reply #30 on: 04 November 2016, 02:43:31 pm »
There's nothing wrong with 'whoring in your 50's' there's still a demand for us old uns lol

I've been whoring for over 30 years and I've had a lovely life and I've never regretted it, I've also never had a 'meltdown' of any sort in escorting although I have had stress in my civvie jobs.
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with it Helen just that I want to be retired by 50 whatever job I was doing, I've also never had a civvy job so can't comment on that but I think solely whoring can be at times mentally destructive? A thick skin is needed without a doubt.
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Re: Dealing with Idots?
« Reply #31 on: 04 November 2016, 02:54:58 pm »
Just pulling your leg Nia, its good that you have a plan and have worked towards it.

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« Reply #32 on: 04 November 2016, 03:22:05 pm »
Just pulling your leg Nia, its good that you have a plan and have worked towards it.
Thanks, was worried I'd offended you Helen x
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Re: Dealing with Idots?
« Reply #33 on: 04 November 2016, 03:41:11 pm »
Thanks, was worried I'd offended you Helen x
No Nia bless you you didn't offend me at all x
As I see it if my phones still ringing I'm still working, as long as they want me I'll be here. I'd miss escorting if I ever gave it up for good.
I'm amazed at how popular the more mature escort is.
I put my prices up this week and its still been a good week.


Nia Hope

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Re: Dealing with Idots?
« Reply #34 on: 04 November 2016, 03:59:09 pm »
No Nia bless you you didn't offend me at all x
As I see it if my phones still ringing I'm still working, as long as they want me I'll be here. I'd miss escorting if I ever gave it up for good.
I'm amazed at how popular the more mature escort is.
I put my prices up this week and its still been a good week.
You know what Helen I think I'll miss whoring, I'll maybe still keep my toe in the water into my 80s out of habit, x
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Re: Dealing with Idots?
« Reply #35 on: 04 November 2016, 04:05:54 pm »
You know what Helen I think I'll miss whoring, I'll maybe still keep my toe in the water into my 80s out of habit, x
Sounds like a plan Nia...lol

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« Reply #36 on: 04 November 2016, 04:08:19 pm »
I'm sorry you feel so terrible about this job, sounds like you should be doing something else. Have you considered quitting and doing something that would make you feel less miserable?

Maybe quitting isn't an option for her. I've met a few WGs who hated the job but didn't have the privilege of quitting and doing something else. I.e. Foreigners who can't work here, maybe flee their country cuz of war or something so can't do anything else but this, girls who not good in education so can't really get a job cuz no one will hire them. Hmmmm, you don't know her situation. I doubt anyone would do a job they hate if they had other options. Hmmm. I can sympathise with you Scottish sex pot cuz not so long ago I had a strong hatred for this job. I had quit for a short while and went into civvy work. After one day where I made 40 pounds I quit lol. I then realised that I don't really want to work for someone else so I'm learning to do something and escorting till I can get my own business up and running (non sex work related ) . that one day on the job made me WANT to return to escorting and I realised how much I needed the money from this. I am sometimes a bit confused when some WGs my age say they enjoy sex with their clients but that's only because I don.t/can't but not everyone is like me. For me i just can't get horny for a man I'm not attracted to, especially one who is paying. Maybe I just have problems? But each to their own but just because I don't understand a WG enjoying the sex I'm not gonna judge. Scottish sex pot just be careful what you say on here that's all cuz though girls like us find it hard to believe some girls do enjoy the sex, the fact is that some do and they would get offended if you say things like that. Sorry.

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Re: Dealing with Idots?
« Reply #37 on: 04 November 2016, 04:13:23 pm »
Well said!

I do this purely for the cash, i'm money driven and that's it! At the start i got a real buzz from it all and found it exciting.
But as you say, if you're hating the job and only doing it for money then it's time to get out which i am and I literally can't wait for the last day i do this which will be in a few months.
Lately I've felt like I'm falling into depression and can't bear this work anymore for various reasons. I'm so tired of it. I'd come out of this sooner but can't afford to until my new job starts.
Relating back to the OP, on top of it all i am sick of idiots. They make this job draining at times and my tolerance levels have gone way down. If they ask a dumb shit question they get a sarcastic type answer. I just can't be doing with the stupidity of some of these people.

Got a booking tonight and the client text me asking what turns me on. The question i hate the most!!! I feel like saying 'Nothing! Nothing with you turns me on! This is my job ffs!'.
Sorry yes i am on one since numerous annoying texts this morning from clients thinking they're something special and stand out from the rest!  :FF
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Got a booking tonight and the client text me asking what turns me on. The question i hate the most!!! I feel like saying 'Nothing! Nothing with you turns me on! This is my job ffs!'.
Sorry yes i am on one since numerous annoying texts this morning from clients thinking they're something special and stand out from the rest!  :FF
Lol I had one like this recently. Asked me what I like.  :-\ I was lost for words for a sec. He then asked what he can do to make me cum :'( then he asked me if I wanted to stay the night :-[

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« Reply #38 on: 04 November 2016, 04:42:01 pm »
You know what Helen I think I'll miss whoring, I'll maybe still keep my toe in the water into my 80s out of habit, x

Someone the other day asked who the oldest wg was, I'm sure I've heard of a few ladies in their 70s. Why not, why not indeed.

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Re: Dealing with Idots?
« Reply #39 on: 04 November 2016, 04:49:24 pm »
Someone the other day asked who the oldest wg was, I'm sure I've heard of a few ladies in their 70s. Why not, why not indeed.

Well there was that lady on the tv program on channel 5 I think , in her 70's and who was gutted that she couldn't work whilst recovering from a hip replacement surgery  ;D

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Re: Dealing with Idots?
« Reply #40 on: 04 November 2016, 04:53:08 pm »
Lol I had one like this recently. Asked me what I like.  :-\ I was lost for words for a sec. He then asked what he can do to make me cum :'( then he asked me if I wanted to stay the night :-[
Oh i hate that. I had one recently who kept asking if I'd go for a drink with him. Told him i don't mix business with pleasure yet he still kept asking. Also kept asking if i fancied him which i definitely don't but how do you say no lol. Hate on the spot stuff. Life would be easier if they realised it's just a job lol x
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Re: Dealing with Idots?
« Reply #41 on: 04 November 2016, 05:09:17 pm »
Well there was that lady on the tv program on channel 5 I think , in her 70's and who was gutted that she couldn't work whilst recovering from a hip replacement surgery  ;D
She's in her mid 80's and charges ?250 an hour. She supposedly still gets 10 clients a week.

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« Reply #42 on: 04 November 2016, 05:27:57 pm »
She's in her mid 80's and charges ?250 an hour. She supposedly still gets 10 clients a week.
Wow!!
Go her! In this business there is a market for absolutely everyone from young, to old, Big to small, Amazonian to dwarf. I think it's fantastic. If they're still paying and still booking you why stop?! :D

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Re: Dealing with Idots?
« Reply #43 on: 04 November 2016, 07:19:26 pm »
I took a booking today from a guy who sent several clothing requests (and also mentioned that he has a foot fetish) and I specifically stated that I do not take clothing requests but that I will be dressed smartly.
He arrives and is devastated that I am not wearing stockings. Asks me if I have any and I say no. He looks alarmed and asks if I'm sure. I go for a rummage and pull out a pair of flesh coloured hold-ups, thinking I have cracked it. He asks if I have any in black. I say no. I say I probably have some black thigh socks. He asks if they are cotton or wool. I fetch them and he doesn't like them.
I remind him that I did say that I do not accept clothing requests and he says he thought all working girls had stockings.
Then he says he is going to go and buy some and come back. (Bearing in mind it's now 6.35pm.) He insists that a shop about 15 mins walk away is open til 8. Off he trundles, without bothering to ask whether I am actually free to wait around indefinitely while he wanders the town searching for black stockings.
Ten mins later (when I'm back in jeans and a jumper faffing about on facebook) he texts to say the search is not going well.
Should have asked for a deposit before he left, right?

So an item was essential to his booking yet he didn't either bring it or check that I had it - and somehow that's my fault...
The stupid is so strong with this one.

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Re: Dealing with Idots?
« Reply #44 on: 05 November 2016, 06:26:12 am »
This is a very interesting thread.  Dealing with the idiots is stressful and they generally come out in droves.

When I feel extra stressed/burnt out from the job then I just take a couple of days off and do more relaxing pastimes e.g. watching films, reading a novel, playing piano etc.  I do things that are totally unrelated to the job.

This job still has many advantages and the fact we can work around other commitments e.g. children if we have any, another job etc. are what makes the job so ideal.

I doubt I would ever give up the job entirely and despite being in my early fifties I still get plenty of interest.