Author Topic: Dealing with annoying potential clients,am i being too harsh? (Read 5093 times)

strawberry · « **Reply #15 on:** 26 August 2009, 02:01:22 pm »

Collette - it may be better to tell them why or that you don't wish to see them or communicate with them in a certain manner. Otherwise they will try and call you back until you or they get sick of it. Then they just think you're being unreasonable.

I find the upfront approach generally has three results;

1. They leave you alone
2. They offer you more money (which after clarifying you don't need the hassle so no thanks they revert back to the above)
or for those who are simply being a mild nuisance,
3. They start behaving in a sensible manner

Saves all the hassle of constant phone calls blocking your phone and texts driving you bonkers/winding you up "Why can't he get the message etc etc", filling your inbox.. Sometimes it does also mean the guy actually learns something and may not inflict the same on his next 'victim'.

Got rid of quite a few in this way(these had gone too far) - as well as having some repentent sinners who changed their ways.

cassie · « **Reply #16 on:** 26 August 2009, 09:20:52 pm »

Well Colette, I would have probably done the same, first reply would be friendly but telling them - sorry no - the second one would be a firm no, third time would lead me to cancel as clearly the guy is either too dumb to understand what I'm saying or doesn't respect me enough to stop what I'm asking him to do.

Saying that I do have a regular outcall I do, where as Joey said the foreplay starts by text and goes on while I'm on my way. This is fine by me as I am paid for an hour, but am rarely there for more than half an hour, therefore see the texts as part of the booking.

I don't have a regular way of dealing with annoying callers, timewasters who are transparent usually get the message from my tone of voice, that gets colder and harder as they confirm to me they are wasting my time and won't call back, but if they have managed to string me along I will ask them politely to not contact me again as I feel they are messing me around and then put them on my blocked list other wise most will try again saying that I got it wrong, blah, blah, blah.

KatieKurves · « **Reply #17 on:** 27 August 2009, 10:39:01 pm »

Text - Do u want my cock

Me - Why, don't you want it anymore

Text - Is your pussy wet

Me - I don't have a cat

Text - I want your pussy

Me - I don't have a cat

Text - I want to fuck your cunt

Me - I divorced him years ago

Text - Fuck Off

Lol. I was in a funny mood that day. It just made me laugh but obviously he didn't find it very funny.

xx

Anika Mae · « **Reply #18 on:** 27 August 2009, 11:30:00 pm »

Haha. Giving text pests any response is rarely worth it, but you nailed that one.

UrbaneAspects · « **Reply #19 on:** 28 August 2009, 08:38:36 am »

Quote from: Kate40E on 27 August 2009, 10:39:01 pm

Text - Do u want my cock

Me - Why, don't you want it anymore

Text - Is your pussy wet

Me - I don't have a cat

Text - I want your pussy

Me - I don't have a cat

Text - I want to fuck your cunt

Me - I divorced him years ago

Text - Fuck Off

Lol. I was in a funny mood that day. It just made me laugh but obviously he didn't find it very funny.

xx

Bingo!

Whew, at this point I was fuming earlier. I get really ticked off when people waste my time. I had a no-show overnighter (who called me at 3 am last night, saying he was calling late cause he got off the plane

then I had someone who calls, ask for rate and then tells me "oh thats too much", then I have a fucking nitwit who calls me, trying to get me to describe my services yet he couldnt even tell me what the fuck he was interested in when I asked him! Then at the end when I wouldnt tell him shit about my services, he tells me he has to fucking think about it! I said, "what do you need to think about?"

Annoying clients get my blood boiling. I try to follow the advice here for not telling them off, but sometimes I am far too annoyed. All 3 of these psychos in 1 day

brandy@saafe · « **Reply #20 on:** 28 August 2009, 08:59:44 am »

Quote from: Kate40E on 27 August 2009, 10:39:01 pm

Text - I want to fuck your cunt

Me - I divorced him years ago

Text - Fuck Off

Lol. I was in a funny mood that day. It just made me laugh but obviously he didn't find it very funny.

xx

Agree with Ani-Mae. That just made my morning.

Anika Mae · « **Reply #21 on:** 28 August 2009, 10:38:41 am »

Joey, take inspiration from Kate. Anyone can rant and curse, there's nothing special about it, but if you stay calm you might come out with something great.

KatieKurves · « **Reply #22 on:** 28 August 2009, 01:52:05 pm »

I normally ignore idiotic tw@s like that but think I must've been in a silly mood!!

xx

UrbaneAspects · « **Reply #23 on:** 28 August 2009, 11:06:04 pm »

Quote from: Kate40E on 27 August 2009, 10:39:01 pm

Text - I want to fuck your cunt

Me - I divorced him years ago

Text - Fuck Off

LOL, I was wondering why he didnt give up after the 1st or 2nd reply Kate sent, which was clearly flippant. But I think he told her to fuck off this time because Kate implied 'fucking her cunt', as in fucking her X husband. Which made the guy look like a queer LOL. Good psychology there.

Quote from: Anika Mae on 28 August 2009, 10:38:41 am

Joey, take inspiration from Kate. Anyone can rant and curse, there's nothing special about it, but if you stay calm you might come out with something great.

And may I ask, what is that something great, Integrity?

Alexxx · « **Reply #24 on:** 28 August 2009, 11:27:01 pm »

Quote from: Kate40E on 28 August 2009, 01:52:05 pm

I normally ignore idiotic tw@s like that but think I must've been in a silly mood!!

xx

PMSL Fair play to you Kate! You're a lady after my own heart!

I suggest the next time you're checking in at any airport and they ask - Anything sharp on you? You reply -'Apart from my tongue....? No

Joey, a sense of humour can go a very long way. Not just to pacify other people but to keep ourselves from going insane!! You mention dealing with idiot clients fairly often (I've been reading the site for far longer than I've been a member) so maybe taking the advice offered to you instead of assuming that people are 'getting at you' would work in your favour my love.

I hope this doesn't 'Get your back up' as so many things do. Being highly strung takes much effort and wastes too much energy. Clients do not like it either, and even if you're physically fantastic at your job, attitude is very important too.

Here's the perfect quote: It is your attitude more than your aptitude that determines your altitude

With Love, Alex x

Violette · « **Reply #25 on:** 29 August 2009, 12:20:39 am »

Quote from: Kate40E on 27 August 2009, 10:39:01 pm

Text - Do u want my cock

Me - Why, don't you want it anymore

Text - Is your pussy wet

Me - I don't have a cat

Text - I want your pussy

Me - I don't have a cat

Text - I want to fuck your cunt

Me - I divorced him years ago

Text - Fuck Off

Lol. I was in a funny mood that day. It just made me laugh but obviously he didn't find it very funny.

xx

Do you mind if I borrow some of these? Absolutely Fabulous! PMSL!

Anika Mae · « **Reply #26 on:** 29 August 2009, 01:41:53 am »

Quote from: JoeyR on 28 August 2009, 11:06:04 pm

And may I ask, what is that something great, Integrity?

No, just a great line. I didn't mean any offence, it just made me think of the recent discussion in another thread.

brandy@saafe · « **Reply #27 on:** 29 August 2009, 01:24:51 pm »

Quote from: MissAlex on 28 August 2009, 11:27:01 pm

Joey, a sense of humour can go a very long way. Not just to pacify other people but to keep ourselves from going insane!! You mention dealing with idiot clients fairly often (I've been reading the site for far longer than I've been a member) so maybe taking the advice offered to you instead of assuming that people are 'getting at you' would work in your favour my love.

I hope this doesn't 'Get your back up' as so many things do. Being highly strung takes much effort and wastes too much energy. Clients do not like it either, and even if you're physically fantastic at your job, attitude is very important too.

Here's the perfect quote: It is your attitude more than your aptitude that determines your altitude

With Love, Alex x

Amen to that!

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