I know there are exceptions to this rule (as some on this thread have proven...being married etc to ex clients). However, I read a quote once that said a relationship will end where it begins and I think there is truth in that in the escort/client relationship. In other words, generally, if you meet your man in a context by which he is in control of what occurs to a greater extent, then what's the likelihood he will be the type of man who is willing to engage in an equal relationship? In my experience, the client I fell for wanted it to remain on his terms.