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newbieNW

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #15 on: 10 July 2016, 08:01:01 pm »
Not against the idea and have had offers of relationships with clients though I'm already in one so turned them down anyway even if I would consider it. The only negative I'd think of is how genuine they are about a relationship when our only interactions are sex I think a lot of them just like the idea of having their own personal free prostitute and once they are bored of you they'll move on.

I quite agree with you.  Some of them are emotionally clingy, too.  Thank god, I don't have to worry about this in my life's stage!   ;D 

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #16 on: 15 July 2016, 01:39:56 am »
Done it a few times but didn't work well. One was cos he was married n I got sick of waiting around with everything being dependent upon what his wife's movements were. Plus he was a tight git to start with n then became utterly ridiculous but wanted everything from me. Icing on the cake was him lying to me and trying it on with swinger girls half my age. To say I was fuming was an understatement! The problem is if they're already on the escort circuit when u meet them then chances are extremely high they're keep seeing other escorts, swingers, etc too and plus they're married as it is so it's just stupid in the end. I felt like a right fool ultimately. Anyway, that was one of my experiences. I'm sure it's not the same for everyone from reading some of the above comments.

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #17 on: 15 July 2016, 08:06:27 am »
I'm dating one of my ex punters. We're only 4 mths in and it's going well.
He's really supportive and let's me talk about my day and the way he copes with it is by separating the two people in his head.
Anna works her job and when we see each other then I'm ***** who's just his girlfriend.
He does go through 'wobbles' as he calls them but we talk about how he's feeling and I just have to give him some reassurance.
Maybe good communication and honesty is the key.

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #18 on: 15 July 2016, 11:17:38 am »
Done it a few times but didn't work well. One was cos he was married n I got sick of waiting around with everything being dependent upon what his wife's movements were. Plus he was a tight git to start with n then became utterly ridiculous but wanted everything from me. Icing on the cake was him lying to me and trying it on with swinger girls half my age. To say I was fuming was an understatement! The problem is if they're already on the escort circuit when u meet them then chances are extremely high they're keep seeing other escorts, swingers, etc too and plus they're married as it is so it's just stupid in the end. I felt like a right fool ultimately. Anyway, that was one of my experiences. I'm sure it's not the same for everyone from reading some of the above comments.


Exactly clients can't be trusted belongs they keep paying there is some relationship other than that no way.

Many clients will keep going regardless of claiming a prize as men like the chase especially in this game. And not to say that all the escort client relationships are all hunky dory.  Men are better who don't see escorts in my opinion with no taste of the game.

They can't crave what they have not had. The escort hype that is the addiction.  So many struggle. Woman pirotize before sex where as men are the opposite. And will always be. Men are more so when playing the game. They are easy to work out.

Dont get me wrong clients who are respectful I love servicing.  Just when it comes to dating them will never ever cross that line.

I learned over time how they really are.


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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #19 on: 15 July 2016, 11:40:28 am »
I haven't done it but if I felt I clicked with a client well enough I'd put a strict no sex for a month rule in place to make sure they weren't just after a freebie!
We're women, it's what we do. I just get paid for it.

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #20 on: 15 July 2016, 01:29:23 pm »
I'm currently dating a client, It wasn't what either of us wanted. Obviously there is a bit of a trust issue regarding him booking other girls but as far as I'm concerned its just sex. Lots of my clients love there wives but need a shag on the side. Its meaningless nookie. He doesn't like what I do and  it doesn't get talked about much. As far as hes concerned hes gets Emily( me) and the punters get Bella. Other then that we have a pretty normal relationship. Both our families know about us. So its all pretty normal. The situation doesn't seem to be a problem. If we ever argue its because he does normal twatish things that youd expect from any bloke.

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #21 on: 15 July 2016, 01:32:25 pm »
Although we had have trouble from a working girl he used to see. She forwarded me old texts he sent her. Think she missed his money. Never mind I'm spending it now lol

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #22 on: 15 July 2016, 02:41:34 pm »
Although we had have trouble from a working girl he used to see. She forwarded me old texts he sent her. Think she missed his money. Never mind I'm spending it now lol
Oh god lol! Bet she does  ;D my partner has fucked all the dirty pump and dumps in my area and has had to change his number as kept getting touting messages from quite a few of them.

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #23 on: 15 July 2016, 02:44:46 pm »
I'm currently dating a client, It wasn't what either of us wanted. Obviously there is a bit of a trust issue regarding him booking other girls but as far as I'm concerned its just sex. Lots of my clients love there wives but need a shag on the side. Its meaningless nookie. He doesn't like what I do and  it doesn't get talked about much. As far as hes concerned hes gets Emily( me) and the punters get Bella. Other then that we have a pretty normal relationship. Both our families know about us. So its all pretty normal. The situation doesn't seem to be a problem. If we ever argue its because he does normal twatish things that youd expect from any bloke.
Oh he still sees other escorts? My boyfriend doesn't want to, nor would I allow it. I fuck strangers for money, so unless he's getting handed dosh he can't fuck anyone else but me!  :D

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #24 on: 15 July 2016, 02:52:52 pm »
No he doesn't. I just tell myself that if he did that would be why. I have complete access to his phone etc. Hes not hiding anything from me. To be honest hes so besotted with me Id be very surprised if he did. But what you don't know don't hurt. I'm so sorry he had texts etc from others, although I'm not surprised. Have you had any girls Contact you?

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #25 on: 15 July 2016, 03:04:21 pm »
No he doesn't. I just tell myself that if he did that would be why. I have complete access to his phone etc. Hes not hiding anything from me. To be honest hes so besotted with me Id be very surprised if he did. But what you don't know don't hurt. I'm so sorry he had texts etc from others, although I'm not surprised. Have you had any girls Contact you?
No, no girls have ever contacted me. Probably because he never ever re visited a girl. He never talked to the girls or cuddled etc. Just banged and then left when he came. I know my parter wouldn't cheat. If I thought he would I wouldn't be with him. How did the girl know you were with him?

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #26 on: 15 July 2016, 03:11:40 pm »
I had a slave and he used to see this woman. She couldn't offer him a domination service so he stopped seeing her but they stayed in touch. Obviously my slave new about my partner because I see my slave all the time. He mentioned in passing to this woman that he was serving me and mentioned that my partner lived in the next town from them. They got talking and she just put two and two together. She contacted me through my slave and she has even poked me on a social media site. I'm not worried though, I just upload more pic of me and him. She can have a good look at them while shes stalking me lol

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #27 on: 15 July 2016, 09:10:13 pm »
I got involved with a punter and the sexual chemistry was fantastic. But when we spent a few days together we struggled to strike up a conversation.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #28 on: 16 July 2016, 12:30:20 am »
That's a shame Lady of the mansion. I get bored easily, if I struggled to get a conversation out of him hed have to go. As for sex its got to the point where we can take it or leave it. Theres a 28 year age gap, I think that will kill it if anything does. If I'm honest I cant really remember him as a punter. I must have blocked him out like I do most of them lol. It was only after a few weeks when we realised we had things in common that I even took any notice of him, although he says sparks flew on the first meet. I'm an actress on a matress and bloody good at it if he thinks that lol

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Re: Dating a customer
« Reply #29 on: 16 July 2016, 07:53:57 am »
Wasn't just his fault we couldn't strike a conversation. It was same with me. The only time we really chatted was when we got pissed. We just had nothing in common.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.