I'm a wuss and just ignore them forever more. I think telling them only means they'll start asking why or try and convince you otherwise.
Eventually they get the message and leave me alone. Engaging with them only encourages them!

Most regulars don't bother telling us when they decide not to see us any more, they just vanish so I feel no guilt about it.

I'm the same.  It's not a LTR.  If escorts are happy seeing their harem of regulars, that's great. They love to maintain the relationship and I'm sure it's financially rewarding.  It's actually called "ghosting" - when we become unavailable.  I have some slight sadness when I do but usually, punters ought to know the reasons.  We are not a civvie lady, we ghost as we like if we feel that  there are good enough reasons behind it.  They get a hint.  After all, pasture new isn't a bad thing. 

Give them a shit service?

Like the guy who is always 20 minutes late... well, turn off your phone at five minutes past and then later tell him it was because he was a no-show.

Check texts and talk about dressing and leaving fifty minutes in.

Just be a bit rubbish.

I politely told a regular to find another provider after booking me twice after then 2 minutes later cancelling. He was the first. Usually giving them 3 chances. I just couldn't be asked today.

A few months ago I diplomatically informed a client I could not give him any more bookings. I did not explain why as I did not have the heart to tell him the truth. He took it ok and seemed to accept it. From time to time he texts asking can I see him that day and I just say no.  He did it again today and asked "what was the reason again why you stopped letting me come to see you?"  I did not reply.
Clients can stop seeing us and need not give a reason (sorry I know this has been said many times) so equally we do not need to explain unless we choose to.
In my opinion the most important thing is not to be rude or cruel, they know where we work from!

Quote from: Jill on 10 June 2016, 04:18:06 pm

In my opinion the most important thing is not to be rude or cruel, they know where we work from!

I agree, no point to be rude or cruel. 

That's why ghosting isn't a bad option.   

Will I look an idiot if I ask what ghosting is?   

Thank you. I realised after posting my question that it had been explained a little further up the thread.
I also realise that I have been "ghosting" a few men for quite some time! 

On a few occasions when I've decided that I no longer wish to see certain clients usually due to them causing me stress that I don't want, I've first tried ignoring/saying I'm fully booked and if they have persisted I've just sent them a polite text saying something along the lines of "Sorry but I've decided not to accept any more bookings from you, wishing you all the best for the future though and hope you find what you're looking for, regards, Kat"   Its mostly worked for me and they've got the message and not contacted me again, or they have replied saying sorry for whatever it is and thanked me for being honest.   Its just basic manners really and being professional about it,  just because *some* people don't have any I won't lower mine.