They may take offense if you tell them the ugly truth.  You might get some abuse or something else. I generally dislike "regulars" .  Even if there was some chemistry to begin with, it's hard going, I find.  Avoid having regulars. 

Personally, just keep telling them you are not available.  If they persist, avoid them and block if they go on.  Men don't take reasons.  They just go mad or give you some grief, blackmailing etc.  just tell them you got so busy.

Quote from: Lolapops on 06 June 2016, 07:48:11 pm

I've cut contact with one or two recently who have overstepped the mark or have irritated me in one way or another. It's not easy or nice but sometimes a basic, "I will not be taking your bookings, please do not contact me" works. I've only had one prompt me for an explanation and he got it. If you say nothing or block, there's a fair chance they may try again under a different number or profile.

Maybe a kinder way to get the same message across is "I will not be taking further bookings, please do not contact me" - best not to make it personal if possible.


That's a valid point, I don't remember my exact words but I'm always fairly to the point, I may have said either or in different cases. For people I don't want to upset, I do try to apply a nicer tone but for those who are deserving, I don't waste my time. X
Miranda x

They may take offense if you tell them the ugly truth.  You might get some abuse or something else. I generally dislike "regulars" .  Even if there was some chemistry to begin with, it's hard going, I find.  Avoid having regulars. 

Personally, just keep telling them you are not available.  If they persist, avoid them and block if they go on.  Men don't take reasons.  They just go mad or give you some grief, blackmailing etc.  just tell them you got so busy.