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Notyourgirlfriend

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Escorting with partner!
« on: 12 September 2018, 10:26:50 pm »
Hey!
Does anyone have any experience Escorting with their boyfriend/husband?
I have made us an AW profile yesterday and had a few emails so far. But to be honest am confused by what couples are supposed to be offering!

My partner is black with a muscled body so I knew he would have a very particular target audience. But he is straight and wouldn't want me doing anything with the client apart from erotic touch and hand relief. He wouldn't mind me having sex with females. He won't be penetrating anyone either. (I do massage with HE atm full time and do well so I don't believe intercourse is the only way! ).
I expected to meet other couples for softcore swinging and play. But it seems to just be men wanting to have a full sex MFM threesome with my partner and client.

Thank you!
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Re: Escorting with partner!
« Reply #1 on: 12 September 2018, 11:11:47 pm »
There's swinging, where I'm sure you (would) do well with this, and there's sex for cash, where I am a lot less convinced it will work.

You're putting a lot of limits: while there is a niche market for handjobs only, the clients for that are unlikely to want a straight man watching it all.

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Re: Escorting with partner!
« Reply #2 on: 12 September 2018, 11:27:28 pm »
I get a lot of requests for voyeur and cuckolding sessions, unfortunately I can't offer them.

Weirdly, the cuckolding requests are always from white men who want to be cucked by a black man. That could be your niche?
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Re: Escorting with partner!
« Reply #3 on: 12 September 2018, 11:37:57 pm »
Quote from: Notyourgirlfriend on 12 September 2018, 10:26:50 pm
Hey!
Does anyone have any experience Escorting with their boyfriend/husband?
I have made us an AW profile yesterday and had a few emails so far. But to be honest am confused by what couples are supposed to be offering!

My partner is black with a muscled body so I knew he would have a very particular target audience. But he is straight and wouldn't want me doing anything with the client apart from erotic touch and hand relief. He wouldn't mind me having sex with females. He won't be penetrating anyone either. (I do massage with HE atm full time and do well so I don't believe intercourse is the only way! ).
I expected to meet other couples for softcore swinging and play. But it seems to just be men wanting to have a full sex MFM threesome with my partner and client.

Thank you!

There is definitely a market out there for "cucking" and especially with Black men. I think offer it as a separate service and see if you get any interest. I have encountered many guys in both working and civvy life who love this. Could be a very niche but lucrative market for you!
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Re: Escorting with partner!
« Reply #4 on: 13 September 2018, 07:03:54 pm »
We've been doing this for 18 months. Although we offer full service and my partner is bi. In all this time we have never had a female or couple turn up. Just guys. We do well out of it and I much prefer the bookings to my solo ones
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VoluptuousCurves

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Re: Escorting with partner!
« Reply #5 on: 13 September 2018, 08:54:03 pm »
I get a lot of requests for my partner to be present. However I only see him once every 4-6 weeks in a specific location. So I turn them all down but suspect many are just fantasists and wouldn't go through with it on enough of a regular basis to make it economically viable.
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mlmcardiff

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« Reply #6 on: 15 September 2018, 12:31:03 pm »
If you offer domination you will get some submissives (especially those who like small cock humiliation/feminisation etc) who like the cuckold fantasy so if you can do this it might be worth advertising on domination sites.
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Re: Escorting with partner!
« Reply #7 on: 15 September 2018, 12:50:01 pm »
Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 13 September 2018, 08:54:03 pm
I get a lot of requests for my partner to be present. However I only see him once every 4-6 weeks in a specific location. So I turn them all down but suspect many are just fantasists and wouldn't go through with it on enough of a regular basis to make it economically viable.

I agree that most will be fantasists; there's a massive leap between fantasising about something like this and actually doing it and I suspect even for those who actually get as far as booking, the last minute cancellations would be stupidly high. I doubt the genuine ones would amount to even one per week, for all the reasons everybody else has said.

Where I do think it would work fine is on webcam. They can watch (which is what they want and the only thing you're really letting them do anyway) and there's less pressure and worry on both sides. With the caveat that I know more about particle physics than I do about webcamming, might it be worth considering?
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Re: Escorting with partner!
« Reply #8 on: 15 September 2018, 02:36:46 pm »
I also toyed with the idea of doing MMF but because the guy I would be doing it with wasn't bi, I barely got much interest although there are some who are into the cuckold fetish. Given that you also don't do oral or penetrative sex I'm guessing that would limit you even further.
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Re: Escorting with partner!
« Reply #9 on: 15 September 2018, 02:54:25 pm »
Quote from: amy on 15 September 2018, 12:50:01 pm
Where I do think it would work fine is on webcam. They can watch (which is what they want and the only thing you're really letting them do anyway) and there's less pressure and worry on both sides. With the caveat that I know more about particle physics than I do about webcamming, might it be worth considering?

That's a great thought Amy. I have done this on cam with my FWB but obviously it's only been very occasionally based on when we meet (and usually I'm too busy fucking his brains out to want to sit around waiting for cammers.)

If you live with your partner OP (or you spend a lot of time in each others' places) then I'd definitely suggest camming together. You can use it as a kind of barometer of what you're both okay with and earn money at the same time!
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Re: Escorting with partner!
« Reply #10 on: 23 November 2018, 01:07:24 pm »
Can you cam from your own (singles) profile to cam in a duo or do you need to make a new one as a couple?

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