i just took saafe off my website....not that i dont think its wonderful and all but i dont expect escorts to view my site...i am trying to get men to view my site....i dont want men to come to saafe and see what we talk about...i dont want guys who i or others are warning about to read about themselves on our warnings boards....its like its forearming them or something....i know that myself and other escorts have had instances where creepy clients have read up on what we are writing about and checking up on us, and inhibiting us from being open and 'free'....i wish these forums were not so 'open' to anyone....i am sure i have read somewhere where you tried that and it didnt work....but it would be useful i think to have the warnings in a closed forum....altho someone told me a very good reason why this cant be....(just cant remember now)...
Sorry to hear you removed the link. But women as well as men do look at your website. For us women it's to see what others are up to, or as Trafford says, to read their blogs. New escorts scouting round for ideas will have a look at existing websites. Those are the ladies I want to attract to Saafe.
As for not wanting men to read Saafe, there's not much I can do about that. At the end of the day, this website is for
escorts and not
just for women. You've got the likes of Joey, Bennyboywonder and Ian, formerly of SW5 contributing, not to mention sometime contributors such as Elrond and Jolyon, both of whom have had made positive and valuable contributions.
I'm not closing any part of this forum off, or creating any secret forum. I've tried that. I had a ladies only bit last year and it caused me no end of grief. There was one lady, who for my own amusement I will call Tango Woman, thought she would ingratiate herself on to a male admin of another forum. So she would either send snippets of what was said in the ladies room, or just give him her login details. And said admin was happy to tell the whole world that he was indeed accessing ladies private information on Saafe. What class. So I got rid of it.
The problem is, you will always get that one woman (and that's all it takes) who puts her own interests above that of others, and you will always get blokes who for some reason, hate the idea that private ladies forums exist. It's as if they have to be part of everything and they will stop at nothing to access a place that's forbidden to them. Human nature I guess.
As for warnings, well, this forum was based around having a centralised warnings forum. We were the first in the industry to centralise warnings, thanks to our cleverclogs webmistress and the whole idea is that escorts all over the country can have access to them.
If a bloke does happen to read a warning about himself, he may change his ways yes, but then he'll also know that we're onto him and that his days are numbered. There's no advantage to having a closed off warnings forum, as it benefits only a few. If it wasn't for public warnings, less of us would know about Domination Man and Scented Pillow Man.
If ladies are worried about what they post, they're welcome to use pseudonyms, I have no problem with that and I'd understand why. But I'm not hiding any part of, or creating any secret forums. It ultimately defeats the purpose of Saafe.