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lovelylola

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Does size matter
« on: 15 May 2011, 07:29:08 am »
Hi all,
ive been escorting some time now and really love the job i do, like all women from time to time i am conscious of my body im a size 14, i dont have any wobbly bits all firm and toned but im not your size ten model, i feel sexy and im confident, i feel attractive and get great compliments but does size matter, are there other girls out there who are the same size as me and how do you find your clients react to you any tips on how you dress, i tend to wear really nice undie sets and hold ups is that enough ?? advice would be great 

thanks lola xxx

Ps this site is great love all the day to day advice x
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Penny

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Re: Does size matter
« Reply #1 on: 15 May 2011, 10:02:06 am »
Size doesnt matter at all .  We come in all shapes sizes, colours and flavours.  When I first started Escorting  as a BBW I didnt think I would get much work.  But I have been proved wrong.  Men dont like just one type of lady.  Which is certainlly good for us.

Im a dress size 18 (most men wouldnt know what that meant lol), and im five foot two in height and very busty.  I get clients who like the curvy lady, and ones that want to see what its like being with a BBW.

The guys that visit me know what size I am, can see recent photos of me on my website and have chosen to see me for who/what I am.  Market yourself with your unique features, if your curvy and buxom then say so.  If you are tall, slim and leggy then say that.  Just be honest with your marketing and the men will come and see you because they want to see you.

Hope that helps a little.

Penny x x
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lovelylola

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Re: Does size matter
« Reply #2 on: 15 May 2011, 10:08:42 am »
Hi Penny

I do always say that im a size 14 and 5ft 5 tall and im curvy thanks for your advice i was just wondering how other felt and again what do you wear to make yourself more sexy etc being larger xx 
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Friday

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Re: Does size matter
« Reply #3 on: 15 May 2011, 01:27:19 pm »
Im a size 18/20 I dont think size matters. I sometimes feel if i could lose the weight id get more escort work but realise i dont look as big in my photos (one of the reasons I dont use the term BBW) and guys dont read profiles anyway to read my actual size ha! Only once have I had someone book then cancel when he realised.

and yes I do want to give you a slap and go "size 14!!!  ::)" lol =P

A thread asking the same question on a punter forum saw size 14 being the perfect size that guys really want  ;)
« Last Edit: 15 May 2011, 01:29:29 pm by Friday »
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Iman

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Re: Does size matter
« Reply #4 on: 15 May 2011, 03:45:46 pm »
My arse is a size 16, and my upper half is a size 12-14 depending on whether it has sleeves. This pretty much means that I can't wear slinky sexy dresses- squeezing ginourmous boobs into an outfit=sexy, squeezing a ginourmous butt into an outfit=muffin top, lumpy mishapen butt cheeks, cellulite on show to all and sundry! So I wear floaty. Unfortunately floaty also tends to mean floral, and I'm not a huge fan of floral prints. I've had no complaints, though  :)
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Re: Does size matter
« Reply #5 on: 15 May 2011, 04:23:22 pm »
I think I'm one of the biggest girls working in the UK  - or thats what I claim on AW anyway! :) and I do fine for clients. As Penny said, some of my clients are lifelong fans of big women and others are just 'tourists' wanting to see what its like but that's fine. Men really do like all shapes and sizes, as long as you feel sexy and confident they will value you.

Regarding clothes, I always wear what makes me feel good. I tend to get requests for what they see me wearing in the photos in my website so I've ended up buying 3 or 4 of them so I can keep wearing them. I do try to make sure my pictures and the text on my site is as honest as possible though, and if I get a call from someone who doesn't know what BBW means I usually suggest he finds someone else. (I'm not suggesting a size 14 is BBW, just saying!)

Ruby xx
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Re: Does size matter
« Reply #6 on: 15 May 2011, 09:28:30 pm »
It does matter, in the way that there are some clients who are only looking for a particular physical type.

It doesn't matter, in the way that - as you can see - there's a demand for every particular physical type, plus people who don't particularly care what physical type you are, but do care about something else (like personality).
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Re: Does size matter
« Reply #7 on: 17 May 2011, 02:05:44 am »
I'm 52 and size 20! Some men like that. My bf is 35, totally fit, goes to the gym, tattooed, got ladies going mad for him...but he prefers me! :-) Not just the way I look, my personality too.
As Ian says...it matters in some respects. Someone liking stick insects wouldn't ever book me, but I do get work. Not as often as others, and an agency would never take me on, but the work is there for any size, shape, creed and colour!

Coty xxx
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