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Jadine

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How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« on: 04 July 2022, 12:00:57 pm »
I did a guy a few nights ago, he paid for a hour baring it in mind he arrived late, he just broke up with his girlfriend and omg all he did for 90 mins after we done he only had 1 pop as he started going on and on so never got another round in the rest , proper going on about her and how her family treat him bad , about his work , wouldn't shut the fuck up I was so glad when he  decided to go , he  wore me out nonstop bleating on about himself , how do anyone else just kick them out without being rude ?

Ana66

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #1 on: 04 July 2022, 04:57:10 pm »
Hi Jadine, I also used to be uncomfortable telling clients that they have to go when their time is up but now I really don't care anymore as I realised that so many people like to take the piss with nothing in return. I used to let them overstay 10-15min (sometimes more  ??? ???) for free thinking they would remember and would probably come back eventually but at the end of the day that's not even worth it as most of them don't even come back lol.

In my case, the way I deal with overstayers really depends on how I get along with the client.

First case : if I really really appreciate the client and we get along amazingly well (which is extremely rare), I don't mind letting him overstay (obviously assuming I have no other bookings soon after) because I'm also having a good time (however this is probably less that 1% of the cases).

Second case : If the client is just ok, your average normal client (majority of the cases), when we are 5min before the end, I use body language and certain sentences to make them understand it's time to take a shower and dress up soon.
If they still don't understand it, I tell them politely "sorry but I have another client very soon"(even if it's not true lol). When I say that they understand.

Third case : the nightmare client for any reasons possible, (generally the ones who like to f*** you for the whole hour and cum at the very last second), in that case, I'm very annoyed and bored and tell them straight into their face "you really have to cum now as your time is up" and if they still don't cum I tell them more aggressively that they have to go NOW and dress up and no time for shower.

The best ones are always the ones who leave early or the ones who respect your time and know they have to go by themselves without me telling them to go  :)
« Last Edit: 04 July 2022, 09:33:10 pm by Ana66 »

Jadine

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #2 on: 04 July 2022, 05:13:56 pm »
Hi Ana
Yeh you right about giving free time I've done It so many times and never see them again.
I try taking your advice ,  I really don't want any like him coming take piss  again especially when his got money and didn't even offer give extra then I noticed his been to someone else the day after me on the fb so not like he skint , never deserved my time listening to his shit , still we not see each other again let him go to others and do it .

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #3 on: 04 July 2022, 09:31:06 pm »
I get up and put my robe on and 90 percent of the time they get the hint. If they still just lay there I'll ask them if they're ready or say I have friends coming over imminently.

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #4 on: 05 July 2022, 01:51:59 am »
I'm not dissimilar to Ana - you need to be firm.
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #5 on: 05 July 2022, 12:10:14 pm »
I don't think I have ever had a big problem with overstaying clients but a few come to mind.

One I still see who books 30mins and always completes his mission in that time but we tend to chat for about 20 mins afterwards. I am fine with this because he isn't getting free sex time. These days I never have bookings timed  with little space in between. I used to and wasn't comfortable with it.

With another one who was trying to get more free time  I told him another client was due fairly soon and the look of disgust on his face was awful. I should not have let it bother me but it did. He was up and dressed and out of the door in a flash. I never used that hint again.

Having said all of that I am quite happy if a booking goes a few mins over occasionally as plenty of clients are done and away just short of time up.  A nice balance 🕚⏳

I confess I have obtained a tinge of satisfaction on rare occasions when those who wait until the last few minutes then try to finish but can't  so receive the dreaded ( for them!)" well we tried but sorry you will have to get dressed now " from me. 😀
« Last Edit: 05 July 2022, 12:17:52 pm by Justine »

Ana66

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #6 on: 05 July 2022, 06:52:40 pm »

I confess I have obtained a tinge of satisfaction on rare occasions when those who wait until the last few minutes then try to finish but can't  so receive the dreaded ( for them!)" well we tried but sorry you will have to get dressed now " from me. 😀

I agree that for some reasons this is quite satisfying and pleasurable  ;D ;D

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #7 on: 06 July 2022, 01:45:49 am »
I've used a few different things to say to get rid, depending on what I feel is most appropriate:
- 10 mins before the end I tell them I'm conscious of the time and ask if they'd prefer to take a shower or have a bit more sexy time
- tell them my brother is coming five mins after <the end time> and he knows what I do, but thinks it's awful and says rather unpleasant things about  the men who use escorts
- say that time has flown and ask if they'd like to extend for another half hour/hour or would they like me to let them go and get on with whatever it is they've got planned for the day
- say the bloke who owns the flat is in the back, but would only come through if I scream or a booking overruns. He can be a nasty piece of work but has always been fine with me. I think he's just overprotective
- if they're saying they're close and expecting me to carry on I say "if I go for a massage and don't relax until nearly the end I wouldn't expect the masseuse to continue. I'd either ask and pay for longer or be on my way. That's the service industry. Time is money and I get enviable overtime rates, which of course I'd be happy to accept from you. But I completely understand if you'd rather we say our goodbyes now"
- if they've booked less time than they know it'll take them to finish and they say they're close then I tell them they'll need to book longer for next time and that I can't be responsible for their stage fright/gummy worm cock/length of time they take to cum. Either in a jokey or serious way depending on whether they've been a twat or not. These ones have often either had a wank beforehand, or they have held back so much that they get to the point where they can't actually cum. And they're probably rarely close. They'll be saying that every five minutes until you stop

And I never say sorry. I use words like 'unfortunately' or 'sadly'. I feel this puts more onus on them, as sorry makes it sound like I'm feeling bad for being a party pooper.
« Last Edit: 06 July 2022, 01:48:05 am by pussycat »

GucciGang

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #8 on: 06 July 2022, 09:23:37 am »
I always tell them I have a client waiting downstairs and which tends to scare the life into them and they get a wriggle on.

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #9 on: 06 July 2022, 12:39:13 pm »
For new clients, I’ve started putting a timer that goes off 5 mins before the end of booking time. I was too polite in the past with people who overstayed and the timer snaps them out of it, realising they should finish up soon  :D

Ana66

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #10 on: 06 July 2022, 03:13:05 pm »
For new clients, I’ve started putting a timer that goes off 5 mins before the end of booking time. I was too polite in the past with people who overstayed and the timer snaps them out of it, realising they should finish up soon  :D

Wow I don't think I would dare doing that but indeed that's the best thing to get rid of overstayers  :)

How do clients react when the timer goes off ?  ;D

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #11 on: 06 July 2022, 03:29:09 pm »
Wow I don't think I would dare doing that but indeed that's the best thing to get rid of overstayers  :)

How do clients react when the timer goes off ?  ;D


You should dare! I mean it's your time and plus people will have something to say even if everything was perfect! I used to use a timer, now I use music :)) the music stops 5mins before the time goes up.

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #12 on: 11 July 2022, 06:00:54 pm »
Time is super precious! As long as you are clear that is how you operate, I don't see any problem with giving them notice that I will need to leave on time.
There have been a few occasions when the Client (yes regulars too) have had to get up and pay more funds into my account or purchase an online voucher before we continue for another 30 minutes .  ;D

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #13 on: 12 July 2022, 10:37:28 pm »
How they think (or don't )
That they can do oral and sex in 15 mins 😂😂😂😩

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Re: How to politely get rid of overstayers ?
« Reply #14 on: 14 July 2022, 01:02:38 pm »
9/10 me just starting to dress/tidy up is enough of a hint, but occasionally I tell them, if its evening "sorry I have girlfriend picking me up soon to go to dinner" and if its the daytime "sorry I have to get ready to go to a gym class" and then they get on. Only once after I told someone the dinner thing, did he say "do you mind if I hang about as you get ready?" and I had to say "ah my friend will be up soon and she doesn't know what I do so sadly no."

Its ridiculous that we should have to do this, the lack of pride of men like that never fails to astound me, but thankfully its not too common most are as happy to finish as we are.