Hi Jadine, I also used to be uncomfortable telling clients that they have to go when their time is up but now I really don't care anymore as I realised that so many people like to take the piss with nothing in return. I used to let them overstay 10-15min (sometimes more
) for free thinking they would remember and would probably come back eventually but at the end of the day that's not even worth it as most of them don't even come back lol.
In my case, the way I deal with overstayers really depends on how I get along with the client.
First case : if I really really appreciate the client and we get along amazingly well (which is extremely rare), I don't mind letting him overstay (obviously assuming I have no other bookings soon after) because I'm also having a good time (however this is probably less that 1% of the cases).
Second case : If the client is just ok, your average normal client (majority of the cases), when we are 5min before the end, I use body language and certain sentences to make them understand it's time to take a shower and dress up soon.
If they still don't understand it, I tell them politely "sorry but I have another client very soon"(even if it's not true lol). When I say that they understand.
Third case : the nightmare client for any reasons possible, (generally the ones who like to f*** you for the whole hour and cum at the very last second), in that case, I'm very annoyed and bored and tell them straight into their face "you really have to cum now as your time is up" and if they still don't cum I tell them more aggressively that they have to go NOW and dress up and no time for shower.
The best ones are always the ones who leave early or the ones who respect your time and know they have to go by themselves without me telling them to go