I would second that  - being very wary about telling anyone  - or put it this way  don't say anything that is going to come back and bite you in the ass later    Money often equal Jealousy for a certain sort of people

Friends family boyfriends neighbours, flatmates will all view you differently once you come out and tell them that your a prostitute 

When you die  those that know of your line of work will say  when your being buried  that Millie87 ever such a nice lady you know  ( then in very loud stage whispers "Used to be a prostitute" !!!!)  Its something that is very hard to leave behind you once people close to you know what you do 

And you will never know how they will react until you tell them, and by then those liberal, free sex is wonderful, girl power friends  of yours will turn on you quicker than a pack of dogs on heat.     

Also in the future should you want to be in any sort of profession that requires CRB checks ect you really don't want this sort of work to come back and bite you in the ass ( no matter how small the chance might be )

You could always say that you won ?2000 on the lottery as a way of showing that you have some immediate cash  and then from there on you could  say that your working for an catering agency work for a hotel -  Conference and banquetings stuff waitressing , bar work ect in various hotels ect 
This is often unsociable hours, and often last minute work and often at night as well,  buy a sexy waitress outfit and your off and away   
You often wont know where your going to untill the last minute and you can say that the cab that picks you up is on account from the agency so you don't have to pay for it as it will be picking up  a few others on the way as well

Don't make up a job that requires you to be somewhere at a set time /place each time  or something that is easy to suss out 

Oh and save, save  save, some money.  There is nothing worse than having to take that booking that you don't want to because your broke and you have to make your rent and its pretty depressing to think that your doing a job that should most of the time earn you a fantastic wage and your struggling to make the rent or  you cant afford to take time off when you need to do 

Looking at those  ?500 handbags that your to scared to take out  and ?350 shoes that you have only worn once  will really depress you should this happen to you
 
Most think that it will never happen to them but I'm sure plenty on here will agree that its not the case

Little bit intense, was just looking for a cover story not what people will say when I die!!

Lol! I know what you are saying but I get was Paris was saying and dont thing she meant it intensely and she did give a great long post with lots of really useful advice.

You only have to tell one person what you do. Ok, they might be your best friend (for now!!) but all it takes is for that one friend to mention it to one other person and the news spreads like fire!! Your friend may not have mentioned it with any malicious intent but it just takes that one person to hear it that might want to tell everyone. Society (or certain members of it-probably the ones that know no one would pay them for sex lol!) very much puts a shameful label on any woman that as they would say 'sells thier body for sex' (I personally think have a great time and get paid for it!!). If you were to pop it tomorrow-is this how you would want to be remembered-cos its sods law-you could have made millions for charity, crossed the north pole but it would be that 'label' that unfortunately would stick. In her own way Paris was trying to give you a very very good warning. Be very careful who you tell-your best bet to be honest is to tell no one. Relationships/friendships are always subject to 'deteriation' - they will have one HUGE secret on you. I am not telling you this claiming to be some oracle. I personally have made the mistake of telling too many folk in the last 18 months I have been doing this and if I could go back in time things would be very very different!! I have even had the threats with a boyfriend where he threatend to call my dad and tell him!! I had used his mobile in our time together so he had his number. Fortunatley he never did but one thing I promised myself is I would never put myself in that situtation again. To be honest I have no issues with what I do but I know it would totally KILL my parents if they found out.

Rant over lol!! XXX

Thank you, but I again I think my point is being missed, I don't intend to tell anyone! At all! Hence why I need a good cover story! Some of the ones suggested are great, thanks guys

Thank you, but I again I think my point is being missed, I don't intend to tell anyone! At all! Hence why I need a good cover story! Some of the ones suggested are great, thanks guys

Hey Millie,

It was the following from your initial post:

None of my friends know what I do, I don't have a partner, if I met someone I would want to be honest about what I do, and it's up to him if he wants to deal with it or not.

that I think got us all to react. We are just trying to look out for you and for me, trying to help someone not make the same mistake I did.XX

Thank you, but I again I think my point is being missed, I don't intend to tell anyone! At all! Hence why I need a good cover story! Some of the ones suggested are great, thanks guys

Its probably because you mentioned that if you had a boyfrieind you would want to tell him
 We all picked up on that because there are lots of threads on here about escorts telling boyfriend and then it all going tits ups to the point that the escort can't work, have to have there website taken down  and may have to move city ect due to family finding out. It happens time and time again 
  appreciate that your saying you don't have a partner  at the moment but I think we were all just trying to warn you the dangers of telling a boyfriend the work  you do in the future

I have the misfortune of some of the wrong people knowing what I do, Although they know I have * stuff on them* this may deter them to not say to other people I know . Sometimes I don't care at all because im struggling financially, that more of a stress to me  and  I am certainly not going to them for money. my close family are deceased so they cant get upset and  decent friends are very supportive. I work a lot of overtime in my other job so they all think im doing that these days ... when I pass away I wont care at what anyone thinks... let them say im a prostitute I am ..

Hey Millie,

End of the day you have raised a really good question/issue that affects us all. Even though we have reacted quite strongly to the boyfriend issue (albeit not your major issue), as nobody interesting excellently pointed out, it might help other guys and gals that come across this thread. Plus, I am sure you will take on board what we have said when you do meet a fella 

It has to be bloody tricky living with your friend! The majority of your clients to date, have they booked in advance or do they call with little notice prior to a booking? X

I guess what also comes into the equation is how a good a friend she is. As in is she a close friend that you would normally chat to about anything and everything? Sometimes its very difficult not to be what could be described as 'over-paranoid'. Like me for example (and I have shaired posts describing this situtation. I am convinced that the women that work in the butty shop across the road are totally on to me!! Chances are they probably do not have a scooby do about what I do!! But the paranoiya (god knows how you spell it!!) can get the best of you.

One CRITICAL piece of advice I would give you is do not go overboard explaining to your friend exactly where you are going and what you are doing etc. When folk over-compensate with information, that immediately smeels like a rat!!

I can think of a plausable story for you. One which would account for you being dressed up and last minute going out but it depends how comfortable you are with it. What about you have met a man? But unfortunately he is married? When you can meet up depends on his shifts of work - he could be a doctor, a policeman? Unfortunately you will have to play the 'gullible' female if you do speak to your friend about it.

Make sure hun also that (if your friend ever should become a little too curious!!) you never leave your phone laying around or have any browser history. I know it sounds very big brother but it only takes that one mistake, or that one minute of curiousity from your friend and the cats out of the bag!XX