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css3456

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Couples, he wants to watch...
« on: 21 June 2010, 11:47:21 pm »
Anyone have experience with this kind of booking? Woman client, boyfriend wants to watch.

(I mean, advice about how to handle the couples dynamic, not so much price, and so forth, although that would be welcome.)
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Dani

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Re: Couples, he wants to watch...
« Reply #1 on: 22 June 2010, 12:28:44 am »
I dont know about others but I normally charge ?50 extra if the male is not going to participate.

The dynamics do need sorting out beforehand though to avoid any confusion as some male voyeurs do like to join in. I have one couple where the husband likes to join in but is never allowed to touch me and another couple where he only watches but I am only allowed to do certain things with the wife and some acts are forbidden.

I always find meeting an hour or so before and having a drink and a chat is the best way to get everything out in the open
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Re: Couples, he wants to watch...
« Reply #2 on: 22 June 2010, 07:40:07 am »
Oh, I love couples. They are like little treats on the tour. The appointments always run over, and most time lots of fun can be had.
The best advice I can give you with this is, if you have no experience with being with a woman, get some lesbian porn to get an idea of the dynamic. And bring lots of toys. I have two strap ons, various vibrators, butt plugs, metal and plastic, a male vibrator as well, cock rings, masks, tape, the list goes on, I have all kinds of stuff.

Also if the couple is so inclined you may want to incorporate a bit of role play into the situation.
Scenario: Girlfriend catches him being a naughty boy, and wants to make him pay. So, she ties him up to a chair and invites you over, and he is forced to watch the two of you go at it, something like that.
You can start the play off in the bathroom, nothing hotter for a guy than watching two girls soap each other up and down, touching parts and all.

Sex with women is different, so I would suggest a booking of an hour and a half at least. We can some times need a bit more time to warm up to the encounter.
But it can be loads of fun. Good luck.

Richard

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Re: Couples, he wants to watch...
« Reply #3 on: 22 June 2010, 02:10:53 pm »
Couple bookings can be wonderful, but one rule of thumb is not to believe any m/f couple booking until you've spoken to the woman.

Should that happen (and it often does not) then you can ask her what she's looking for, what boundaries there are going to be, and what experience she has with other women.

If you haven't had much experience, consider if you are the best person for the job unless she wants someone inexperienced. Don't just bring along the contents of the toy box and expect her to be happy, and if you're really going to watch lesbian porn to get ideas, at least make sure it is good lesbian porn. One quick test is that the shorter the fingernails, the better the porn.

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Re: Couples, he wants to watch...
« Reply #4 on: 22 June 2010, 06:09:56 pm »
I took a booking from the woman that went horribly wrong, yes it was a couple but the woman was the mistress and was about 20years older than the 20 something army lad.  Anyway it was all going well until the woman got really moody and just walked out (she had appeared to be enjoying me doing stuff to her and she wanted to watch me suck her toy boy off ) - the guy wanted to continue and I didn't know what was going on!

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Re: Couples, he wants to watch...
« Reply #5 on: 25 June 2010, 10:59:20 am »
Thanks everyone! I'd heard that couples were flaky and it's true. This one flaked out on me. But your advice... priceless!

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Re: Couples, he wants to watch...
« Reply #6 on: 25 June 2010, 05:38:02 pm »
Hi Css, you probably have had a lucky escape judging from what the other ladies have said and my own limited experience. I had only been in this job a week when a guy booked me as 'a treat' for his bi 'gf' - however to cut a long story short he wanted us to have a threesome.

Now as I am bi, I was not terribly worried about the prospect, however when he turned up with said gf she actually turned out to be another wg (as if us ladies don't chat!). I kind of guessed when looking at him vs her ... but when he went to the loo she came out and told me. Luckily for me she turned out to be nice, and we hit it off as friends and have done another booking together. But that is not really the point, I was angry that he had lied because I live in a small town it could have been very uncomfortable and perhaps not had such a nice out come.

I won't take any more bookings from this client and in future if I am asked for anything similar again am going to specify that I need to speak to the gf first - live n learn lol!

Axxx

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Re: Couples, he wants to watch...
« Reply #7 on: 25 June 2010, 06:50:53 pm »
Yeah, honestly, if I wanted to have a threesome with my boyfriend, I'd be the one calling up the escort. I think it's fair to expect to speak to the guy's girlfriend before accepting any of these threesome bookings - it's far too likely to be a boringly heteronormative fantasy that the guy's got straight from some caricature-of-itself "Girls Getting Wild #647!!" porno that panders to old-fashioned sexual stereotypes and has, accordingly, absolutely nothing to do with real life.
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