I absolutely got no desire to spend a second to text back after receiving a social text from a punter. I got quite strict on that.  Once someone broke professional boundaries, they can see someone else. Most men, who would expect you to fit into their life conveniently, either for sex or attention for free, they seem to forget we do this for money.  Some of them seem attractive enough, but I could see through them.  Sex, sex, sex for free.   That's not how it works in my book, mate.