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cleojones

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Could he not stand up on purpose
« on: 12 May 2019, 05:34:13 pm »
Since you ladies are as experienced - do you think a man can control erection? I had a boy not stand up with me 2 times, he is a model and a fitness trainer, I thought it could be like a desentization kind of thing? Too much nudeness/hotness

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Re: Could he not stand up on purpose
« Reply #1 on: 12 May 2019, 10:30:53 pm »
Is he super-muscular like Arnie Schwarzenegger? Some bodybuilders take steroids which effects the bamboo.

Do you have to pump him more than 15-20-30 minutes? Men without a problem shouldn't get desensitized I think?

If I pump more than 10 minutes without a result I know they have a mystery 'secret' problem and I tell them 'it's a dead dog go home'. But it comes out like, 'I've had a lovely, amazing time and I know you'll go home and wank and cum loads thinking about our sexy time together.' Then I get his coat.

But is he cute? :P
« Last Edit: 13 May 2019, 12:26:42 am by saltysweet »

VoluptuousCurves

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Re: Could he not stand up on purpose
« Reply #2 on: 13 May 2019, 07:27:10 am »
I think some men can, but it's more about putting their erection DOWN than otherwise.

I've had a few say they've held it back earlier and now their bollocks are on strike.
And me, I am not a mess, I am a wilderness, yes
The undiscovered continent for you to undress

saltysweet

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Re: Could he not stand up on purpose
« Reply #3 on: 13 May 2019, 10:03:00 am »
 ;D eewww!

Rosesugar

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Re: Could he not stand up on purpose
« Reply #4 on: 13 May 2019, 12:10:16 pm »
I think they struggle to get it up then try with escorts but often don't tell us, some of us left feeling frustrated as to why we can't get it working.  :FF
I've had too many to mention with their `out of service cocks`just limp no life.
My clients due to medical reasons or anxiety.
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Re: Could he not stand up on purpose
« Reply #5 on: 14 May 2019, 01:46:00 am »
Thinking about it, I have had many clients who have ED and have been upfront about it when booking. Because they've let me know in advance it's no stress or drama - I'm not left thinking "OMG am I really so ugly he can't get hard"
And me, I am not a mess, I am a wilderness, yes
The undiscovered continent for you to undress

CelesteManchester

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Re: Could he not stand up on purpose
« Reply #6 on: 14 May 2019, 02:07:20 am »
Anxiety.
Steroids.
Erectile dysfunction issues.
Diabetes.
Medications.
There's sooooo many reasons he's not getting hard, or getting hard & then flopping. Literally dozens.

You can always ask, sometimes they'll tell you, sometimes they won't🤷🏼‍♀️. As I've mentioned 8 million times, I give the "I can't read your mind." spiel while we're chatting & that usually open the floodgates.
An American on a British site, still learning the slang😉