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Ieaio

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I understand there is a degree of fantasy, even the client knows that of course, but is it fair to out right lie that the man standing before you is "devilishly handsome" when he is far from? After all they are paying for this fantasy, a beautiful minx ready to ravish them which is something they perhaps couldn't obtain so easily in the real world.

I don't compliment my clients unless i truly mean it but i feel i should give all my clients a compliment, lie or not. It's not like we can say they're SO big if they present us with a micro penis, i'm sure they are not stupid gentlemen!

So what do you think? I suppose you have to be pretty creative with your compliments or no?

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Re: Do you compliment all your clients on their looks / skills?
« Reply #1 on: 11 July 2013, 08:39:11 pm »
No, giving false praise is harmful. I just treat the person like a human being. I don't turn around to my private life partners and say "Oooh what a whopper" during sex, and I don't do that with my clients either. I might comment if someone has particularly defined arms or legs, ask them if they do a sport, or job which uses their body but not in a false or cooing way - too false for me.

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Re: Do you compliment all your clients on their looks / skills?
« Reply #2 on: 11 July 2013, 09:16:53 pm »
True that about anything too over the top just coming across as insincere but a little flattery can go a long way. I have no preference for smooth or hairy but will compliment my clients either way ie 'mm sexy chest hair' *strokes chest hair* or 'mm you're nice and smooth.' Do you wax? *touches wherever they're smooth* 'Nice bum' works well too as what constitutes a nice bum is fairly subjective so you can get away with that one almost regardless of what it actually looks like.

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Re: Do you compliment all your clients on their looks / skills?
« Reply #3 on: 12 July 2013, 12:30:42 am »
I can almost always find something nice to say. Having a nice eye colour, soft lips, or a nice bum as Aussie Male Escort mentions also. Even something small like him wearing a sexy aftershave gets compliments from me.

I couldn't call an unfortunate face 'handsome' or refer to a small penis as a big one, I'd cringe at my own lie!

Compliment creatively and you will have a happy client x

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Re: Do you compliment all your clients on their looks / skills?
« Reply #4 on: 12 July 2013, 01:10:06 am »
Completely agree with the above comment. Luckily most of my clients are pretty nice guys (if not handsome) so i can normally find something nice about them. I wouldnt say "BRILLIANT ABS" when they have got a 1 pack!

I suppose my point is i always try and look for one redeeming feature :)
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Re: Do you compliment all your clients on their looks / skills?
« Reply #5 on: 12 July 2013, 09:11:02 am »
For me I think it just depends on the situation.
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Re: Do you compliment all your clients on their looks / skills?
« Reply #6 on: 12 July 2013, 03:57:27 pm »
I can almost always find something nice to say. Having a nice eye colour, soft lips, or a nice bum as Aussie Male Escort mentions also. Even something small like him wearing a sexy aftershave gets compliments from me.

I couldn't call an unfortunate face 'handsome' or refer to a small penis as a big one, I'd cringe at my own lie!

Compliment creatively and you will have a happy client x

Thirded. I think it's very important to be complimentary, because like you say, it's all about the fantasy. But it doesn't mean you have to outright lie- everyone has *something* good about them (well, most...  ::) ) It doesn't have to be just their cock size- body, eyes, lips, kissing/f*cking technique.. Their job, the way they speak, or even just the way they're not awkward or annoying or smelly! In fact I use the smell thing a lot, because luckily most seem to be good with hygiene lately!

But I do believe that compliments are paramount. A good, casual compliment will make a whole lot of difference! Sometimes a guy would come back few weeks from the original booking and even remind me of some particular compliment I told them before! It really does make a huge difference and doesn't need to be insincere  :)

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Re: Do you compliment all your clients on their looks / skills?
« Reply #7 on: 12 July 2013, 09:13:26 pm »
Ive got to admit that in seven years of working I have only ever "flattered" two guys who had piercingly beautiful eyes.

Apart from that I will compliment a guy who has nice slightly tanned skin by just saying something along the lines of "oh you have a lovely colour, have you been away?" but that is as much as they get out of me.

Ill be polite but that's as far as it goes.
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Re: Do you compliment all your clients on their looks / skills?
« Reply #8 on: 13 July 2013, 12:32:43 pm »
I am very very honest. If I don't like a client, I just keep quiet, but I can be very complimentary!

Recently, I was able to come in oral for the very first time. I didn't have a clue what the guy was doing, but I told him he did. I am not sure if he believed me though. There is also a guy I have seen a couple of times who has the nicest pad ever, the decor is amazing and it's just a lovely place. I have told him twice now and he obviously is very pleased haha! There was also a guy who was bloody gorgeous who booked me once and I said to him. My regulars know that I am sincere, I will always be honest and tell them if I don't like something they do as well.

I will always compliment someone if I mean it, else I stay quiet.

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Re: Do you compliment all your clients on their looks / skills?
« Reply #9 on: 18 July 2013, 04:15:11 pm »
I compliment them if I honestly mean it.
For example one client I had was skinny with his ribs showing (I love skinny men) And I told him I thought his body was beautiful.
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