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erotica

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How to deal with bad hygiene?
« on: 23 June 2013, 10:46:14 pm »
Yesterday I had one rendez vous with a guy I have seen a couple of time before. Normally I see him for out call but yesterday he went to my place. He is a young guy and have very poor sexual experience.
when we got into the intimate part of the meeting , I went down on Him , and he tasted cheese and some white stuff appear on his penis skin , so obviously he didn't watch for a while. I stopped it straight away and went back to french kissing!
Then I was so turn off that I was dry and sex was SO painful! my clit was very swollen :(
I am sure he doesn't realize , berk!
So my question is , how do you girls deal with that , particularly when it is an outcall or when the guyn say he doesn't need a shower ?

All advices welcome!!!

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Re: How to deal with bad hygiene?
« Reply #1 on: 23 June 2013, 10:58:46 pm »
Yuck.. Sorry to hear you had to face that. I ask all my clients if they want a shower but if they don't shower and are anything but clean and fresh down there, I put a condom on them for oral. I don't ask their permission or make excuses. Just reach for the condoms. Also keep some lube handy. Silicone lube or liquid silk is good.

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Re: How to deal with bad hygiene?
« Reply #2 on: 23 June 2013, 11:07:30 pm »
Thanks aussie!

I  then did do a covered blow job as well but he was trying to take it off , he must have been a bit confuse !

You use lub for oral ? what is liquid silk? sorry my ignorance.


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Re: How to deal with bad hygiene?
« Reply #3 on: 23 June 2013, 11:32:31 pm »
I meant lube for sex because you said you were dry and turned off after seeing his cheesy cock ;-) Liquid silk is a brand of lube which seems to be the slipperiest. Silicone oil lube stays slippery for longer but can stain sheets.

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Re: How to deal with bad hygiene?
« Reply #4 on: 23 June 2013, 11:54:54 pm »
Yes, you stick to your boundaries. If that means restricting what you're prepared to do, they have the choice: clean up or go without whatever it is.
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Re: How to deal with bad hygiene?
« Reply #5 on: 24 June 2013, 04:38:55 am »
He'd have been sent to rinse down. Same as if someone goes for a pee and comes out with dry hands or ones that did not get washed properly, they get sent back in to the bathroom. Do it with humour and nobody will get offended.
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Re: How to deal with bad hygiene?
« Reply #6 on: 24 June 2013, 09:19:56 am »
Because English is my second language, I sometimes find difficult to say the things with subtlety or humor , I need some time to think about it first !
I will try to prepare some sentences in case this happen again  :-X

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Re: How to deal with bad hygiene?
« Reply #7 on: 24 June 2013, 01:33:27 pm »
I always offer shower, not all accept the offer :(

I use baby wipes ;D always and if is clean I ask if they want oral with condom or without ( some of them will prefer with condom) if I see that shower or baby wipes doesn't clean it....I put on a condom without asking! If they ask why just say that you don't feel comfortable doing without....

But I think the dirty ones won't complain  ;)


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Re: How to deal with bad hygiene?
« Reply #8 on: 24 June 2013, 09:05:27 pm »
Hey :)

I had this problem a few weeks ago, when I had an incall with the agency's flat. The guy I saw had plaque all over his teeth, cock cheese all over his "member" smelt etc.

What I would do next time is take a travel size bottle of mouthwash, male shower gel etc and have it to hand for them. I know really that clients should consider their personal hygiene like we do, but sadly it's not always the case. If he still hasn't showered properly or refuses, then you are within your rights to put a condom on him for oral; why should you be subjected to tasting a bad cock?! That's just my opinion anyway.

As for the sex bit, I too have been turned off on occasions with things like this, and Aussie Male Escort is right; liquid silk is really good to use. Stay away from any scented/flavoured lubes like the Ann Summers ones; personally I have reacted to this and my clit has swollen to the size of a balloon before using it! :(

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Re: How to deal with bad hygiene?
« Reply #9 on: 25 June 2013, 05:07:24 am »
Had big issues a few days ago on an out call.

As soon as I arrived I noticed his flat was disgusting. I'm talking thick dust and clutter everywhere like the program Hoarders. But he was nice and the fee was all there. I even made light of the situation and had a joke with him.

But as soon as I got in his bedroom his bed sheets were soiled in blood stains and looked gross. I kindly asked him if he had any spare bedding but he didn't so had to resort to a towel on the bed :/. He took off his clothes and the stench was awful kindly asked him to clean and he still came back with a cheesy cock! Whilst he was on top the stench of bo was so unbearable I had to switch places. He took one look at me and said I had ruined the mood due to commenting on the sheets, asking him to wash and my obvious distaste on my face.

kinda flipped out a bit and said I was working all evening at the parlour and I arrived bathed, hair washed, smelling nice and looking presentable. I asked how he would feel if I arrived unclean and visibly having a dirty vagina. He looked at the floor and agreed it wasn't fair. I dressed and left then got a text off him saying it wad unfair I terminated as he had only "missed a bit" in the shower... He was referring to his knob cheese btw!!!! 

I told him I really wasn't feeling ut from the moment I saw the blood stained sheets and politely told him he can see me at the parlour next time as we have shower facilities, clean bedding and I would feel more comfortable. Think he will leave me negative feedback but seriously what do these people expect?!

My problem is I can easily ask them to shower but don't know what to do when they still come out smelling bad!!??