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curvywench

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contacted by someone wanting to escort
« on: 28 July 2016, 01:27:50 pm »
I have been contacted by email by a lady looking for advice on how to set her self up as an escort. Do any of you mind giving advice to a new lady or do you prefer not to?

I just feel a bit uncomfortable with people thinking because I am an escort that I don't mind giving advice. I guess if it goes tits up for her  I don't want to be blamed for encouraging her.

Any suggestions? What would you say to her?
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The_Lynx

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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #1 on: 28 July 2016, 01:35:32 pm »
Eh, while I am happy to share my opinions and experiences here on the forum, I wouldn't wish to be anyone's business advisor. It does honestly confuse me a little why so many people entering this industry seem to feel entitled to personalized business tips. You don't really see that in most other lines of work.
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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #2 on: 28 July 2016, 01:43:02 pm »
Id direct her to SAAFE and advise her to have a good read on all the threads afterall you don't know who "she" is.
Any and everything an escort needs to know is here all SHE needs to do is apply herself to reading the threads. 
I can't be doing with hand holding and guiding newbies, I learnt everything myself nobody showed me anything, this can be a tough business and not for everyone so when she reads SAAFE she make up her own mind if its suitable for her.

Nia Hope

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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #3 on: 28 July 2016, 01:43:19 pm »
Eh, while I am happy to share my opinions and experiences here on the forum, I wouldn't wish to be anyone's business advisor. It does honestly confuse me a little why so many people entering this industry seem to feel entitled to personalized business tips. You don't really see that in most other lines of work.
Same. I get contacted a lot asking me to teach some of the more extreme bdsm practices, fine if they want to pay! I paid a pro Domme to learn a lot of stuff why shouldn't they.
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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #4 on: 28 July 2016, 01:43:35 pm »
I do get this from time to time and I feel a little like Lynx does on the matter.While I don't mind giving peer group advice on a forum like saafe I really don't have the time to sit giving individual advice to someone I don't know from Adam who is either new to this or thinking of doing it.It is a little cheeky to expect it really.After all when someone is setting up a small business say selling things like car parts do they contact other sellers to ask how to go about it?
Most advice is available on the internet such as where to advertise and what sort of rates people charge if people invest the time into doing some research.I mananged to find most info myself (and sites like this as well)by googling etc.
As mentioned as well I don't feel comfortable advising someone else of what I get up to and how I do things as what I do may not work for them and the person asking could literally be anyone!Better to refer them to this site I think and they can get a few opinions and perspectives.

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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #5 on: 28 July 2016, 02:01:37 pm »
I feel exactly the same, and as has already been mentioned, I'd send her (or whoever it is) here. That way she/he/they can pick and choose what areas they need advice in as well as getting advice from more than one person, as we know, we all do things differently so advice from more than one person can be very useful.

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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #6 on: 28 July 2016, 02:55:17 pm »
There's also no way of knowing if the person is female, and genuinely interested in selling sexual services.

Could be anyone, and for any reason including wanting to obtain personal information or simply have a laugh.

curvywench

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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #7 on: 28 July 2016, 04:41:50 pm »
Thanks all so much, that was exactly my way of thinking.
You said it perfectly. Going to direct her here and let her get on with it

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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #8 on: 28 July 2016, 07:28:14 pm »
Every request I have like this I just direct them to SAAFE.

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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #9 on: 28 July 2016, 07:51:40 pm »
Hilariously, I get about one a year wanting to "sit in" on one of my escort bookings. :o

That wouldn't be weird at all...   :FF

Nia Hope

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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #10 on: 28 July 2016, 08:38:49 pm »
Hilariously, I get about one a year wanting to "sit in" on one of my escort bookings. :o

That wouldn't be weird at all...   :FF
Yes I've had this too. Maybe let them peek out of the wardrobe during a booking?
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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #11 on: 28 July 2016, 08:39:18 pm »
While it's fine to share information here and maybe help a bit I wouldn't do it privately certainly not if they were local to me but still either way. Here nobody is doing business it's just a place to vent and share warnings about problem clients and scams. If they contact you through your business tell them to get lost or ignore them. Why would you share what you have learned with somebody who wants a cut of your earnings? lol

curvywench

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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #12 on: 28 July 2016, 08:43:54 pm »
I directed her to Saafe, she is a few hundred miles from me, but aye lol I see what you mean too. Ireland is not exactly a hot spot of clients anymore, and I certainly don't make a fortune here, nor does any other escort I know of, well outside of Dublin anyway
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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #13 on: 29 July 2016, 10:36:08 am »
Hilariously, I get about one a year wanting to "sit in" on one of my escort bookings. :o

That wouldn't be weird at all...   :FF


I've had couples book me for the purpose of 'picking my brains' on how the female of the 2 can become an escort.... ::)

Nia Hope

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Re: contacted by someone wanting to escort
« Reply #14 on: 29 July 2016, 11:08:01 am »

I've had couples book me for the purpose of 'picking my brains' on how the female of the 2 can become an escort.... ::)
I had a couples booking where she wanted to feel my breast implants, she was considering getting her tits done and they wanted to look and touch before they decided. Very strange
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