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Ilovewine

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Confronted by neighbour.. What would you do!?
« on: 13 November 2018, 04:26:28 pm »
Hi everyone, first of all, apologies for any typos, but I've lost my reading glasses and can hardly see what I'm typing. So I've just very recently taken on a six month tenancy in what I thought was a very discreet cottage. It's located on a one way street with no overlooking neighbours. I only generally see 3 clients a week, and only ever one client in a day. This is because I have an office job so just don't have the time. Also, I only ever see clients during the day and i always ask the client to kindly ensure that the coast is clear before they knock. Anyhow, the next door but one neighbour (elderly lady who lives alone) confronted me today and asked, very loudly and accusatory, if i was "entertaining gentleman". I was caught completely off guard and basically said how dare you accuse me of that, and then just walked away. I don't know what to do now as I just don't feel comfortable seeing punters there. What would you do and has anything like this happened to you? Thanks so much in advance x

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« Reply #1 on: 13 November 2018, 06:38:38 pm »
If you're only seeing 3 clients a week ignore the nosey bitch, realistically what is she gonna do call the police to report a woman on her street is having too much Sex  ;D.

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« Reply #2 on: 13 November 2018, 07:05:57 pm »
I would ignore her and carry on with what you are doing. It's none of her business if you are entertaining gentlemen.
Stop telling them to make sure the coast is clear as that makes them look too obvious.

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Re: Confronted by neighbour.. What would you do!?
« Reply #3 on: 13 November 2018, 07:08:56 pm »
Perhaps she's jealous, might want to to share the lurv, lol

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« Reply #4 on: 13 November 2018, 07:17:10 pm »
Tell her you met them on tinder and like to fuck 😂 its not like you're seeing twenty a day
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« Reply #5 on: 13 November 2018, 08:28:40 pm »
She must be one of those curtain twitchers who have nothing better to do all day. I don't see how she can possibly deduce you're doing sex work though as you sound very discreet. Is it the first encounter you've had with her? If so, I'd be inclined to go round there and tell her very politely that you found her comments intrusive and strange. Tell her you have friend and relatives round every so often

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« Reply #6 on: 13 November 2018, 08:37:36 pm »
Have you had any dodgy clients lately who might have tipped off your neighbours to be malicious?

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« Reply #7 on: 13 November 2018, 09:08:45 pm »
I would tell her to fuck off.
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« Reply #8 on: 13 November 2018, 09:22:20 pm »
Yep, three a week could be casual fucks. Unless she knows the landlord I would just ignore her and tell her to mind her own business.
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« Reply #9 on: 14 November 2018, 10:18:35 am »
Remember, you are doing nothing illegal so even if she confronts you, it's on moral grounds not legal grounds.

I would remind her that what happens in your property is your business alone.

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« Reply #10 on: 14 November 2018, 10:49:18 am »
Hi everyone and thank you so much for your replies/advice.  I only have a few regulars that visit, and (although I cannot be 100% certain), I pretty much know that they wouldn't "drop me in it", as they really are lovely guys.  Also, how would they benefit? The situation has actually escalated this morning and I'm in tears and am even considering cancelling my bookings.  As I was walking through the front door, another lady approached me (I've seen her before in passing just to say hello to - really, really lovely lady).  Anyhow, she introduced herself and said that she owns a cafe in town (just a few yards from my property). She said that my next door but one neighbour (the one who confronted me), actually went into her cafe yesterday afternoon and said, quite loudly, "did you know that there's a prostitute working a few yards away from here." She said that her response to her was "why would you say that? do you have evidence, and so what if she is, what is it to do with you?" She then went on to say that she says men coming and going, and also said "why would the blinds always be drawn?"  FFSAKE!  If she took note of all the other properties on the street, she would see that ALL the residents have their curtains drawn or blinds down, as the properties are directly facing the street!  I know what I do isn't illegal, but no one knows what I do, and I'd really like it to stay that way.  Anyhow, I suppose it looks like I may have to find somewhere else, but not happy as just signed a six month lease  X

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« Reply #11 on: 14 November 2018, 11:28:02 am »
Hi everyone and thank you so much for your replies/advice.  I only have a few regulars that visit, and (although I cannot be 100% certain), I pretty much know that they wouldn't "drop me in it", as they really are lovely guys.  Also, how would they benefit? The situation has actually escalated this morning and I'm in tears and am even considering cancelling my bookings.  As I was walking through the front door, another lady approached me (I've seen her before in passing just to say hello to - really, really lovely lady).  Anyhow, she introduced herself and said that she owns a cafe in town (just a few yards from my property). She said that my next door but one neighbour (the one who confronted me), actually went into her cafe yesterday afternoon and said, quite loudly, "did you know that there's a prostitute working a few yards away from here." She said that her response to her was "why would you say that? do you have evidence, and so what if she is, what is it to do with you?" She then went on to say that she says men coming and going, and also said "why would the blinds always be drawn?"  FFSAKE!  If she took note of all the other properties on the street, she would see that ALL the residents have their curtains drawn or blinds down, as the properties are directly facing the street!  I know what I do isn't illegal, but no one knows what I do, and I'd really like it to stay that way.  Anyhow, I suppose it looks like I may have to find somewhere else, but not happy as just signed a six month lease  X

I would stick a letter through the nosy neighbour's door (preferably very formally typed/laid out), saying that if she continues to slander you, you will be taking legal action against her for defamation.
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« Reply #12 on: 14 November 2018, 11:46:03 am »
I agree with threatening Legal action. Cant stand bullies like that. Stupid bint! How on earth can she draw that conclusion when you have so few bookings?!

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« Reply #13 on: 14 November 2018, 12:45:34 pm »
Hello, I never let the customers knock on the door,
 I just tell them to call me when they are in the parking
 and so they come more discreetly and not making noises,
it would also be a good idea if you have a rear door and not the front door ...
the most important thing is discretion
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Re: Confronted by neighbour.. What would you do!?
« Reply #14 on: 14 November 2018, 12:46:15 pm »
Sultress000 and Kay...Yes, what a good idea.  I shall post a  typed up, professional letter. I'll keep you all posted. Thanks again. To be honest, you have all made me feel so much better.  As I said initially, its not as if there  are guys coming and going constantly, we don't make any noise. NEVER any more than one in a day, and NEVER more than 3 or 4 maximum in a week.  What makes it even more frustrating and upsetting for me, is that I have literally no one else  to talk to; nobody in my "other life" knows I do this, so I can't even vent to friends or family. This forum is invaluable as I have nowhere else to turn.  By the way, if anyone is ever in the Cheshire area, I would love to meet up! X