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Foxyfemale40s

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Confidence
« on: 30 March 2025, 08:44:03 pm »
Hi Ladies, I've had a few months off and I've put on about a stone in weight, I'm needing to get back to work but feeling so self conscious about the extra weight and how I look compared to my pics on AW. Do we think any of these guys will care??   ???
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amy

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Re: Confidence
« Reply #1 on: 30 March 2025, 10:54:26 pm »
I don't think a stone is that much, but if your pictures aren't representative then they likely will care (and so would I). Can you take a few new ones and put them up too? You'll feel a lot worse if you get walkouts because you don't look like your pictures - I had it happen years ago when I lost weight and didn't change mine right away.

Accurate pics will mean you get punters who want to see you because of how you look now, and then your confidence will be fine :D
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Tartwivaheart

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Re: Confidence
« Reply #2 on: 31 March 2025, 10:28:14 pm »
My weight has fluctuated over the years a few stone on and off here and there , most guys didn’t care but there were a few who did and I only knew because they left bad reviews. Definitely up date pics if possible to save that from happening but I know for sure there be guys who are more then happy to see you at the size you are now as long as your honest x
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Foxyfemale40s

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Re: Confidence
« Reply #3 on: 01 April 2025, 12:36:27 pm »
Really it's the parts of me that I don't usually highlight in photos anyway, tummy etc, suppose I just feel very self conscious at the moment and I do say in my profile that I have a very natural body lol
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OverTheHill

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Re: Confidence
« Reply #4 on: 01 April 2025, 11:41:43 pm »
I advertise with the word BBW. I’m size 16 so I suppose I am. They can’t then say they thought I’d be thinner.

My pics show me as a fatty too.

I do remember years ago that someone complained in a roundabout way that my pics weren’t accurate. He was right. It was a VivaStreet ad and the pics on there didn’t reflect my weight gain.

If in doubt, use words like curvy, etc but don’t worry. A lot of clients like a bigger lady.
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