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Ana66

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Condom stayed inside when the guy withdrew
« on: 11 October 2021, 02:45:03 pm »
Hi everyone,

I’m so so worried, I just had a client who when he withdrew from me the condom stayed inside, but I don’t know if he continued the sex while the condom was not on his penis anymore (he assured me that it’s just when he withdrew that the condom remained inside (I’m sure he didn’t do it on purpose and he sincerely apologized for this incident). Just for info he didn’t cum but still I’m so scared of STIs and pregnancy now. I’m stupid myself as well because I could see his penis became a bit softer and then the condom became a bit too big, I should have changed it.
Has anyone had a similar experience ? What did you do afterwards ? I’m so so worried

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Re: Condom stayed inside when the guy withdrew
« Reply #1 on: 11 October 2021, 03:04:46 pm »
If you're not on the pill or any other kind of contraception, go take the morning after pill which you can buy from Boots or Superdrug. Go do it now as it is more effective the sooner it is taken. Also go to Dean Street Express (clinic) in Soho and get tested - tell them you're a sex worker and they will see you immediately. Do this all of this now, without further delay. (And should this happen again, do this first and then post later).

If you're not using contraception, you really need to consider it as an extra precaution against pregnancy. If you don't want to take hormones, get a copper IUD.

I do not have any experience of condoms coming off during sex with clients, thankfully. I keep an eye on the condom and when they withdraw, hold onto the base of the condom/their penis so it stays in place. However that said, my clients usually do this for me and withdraw while holding the condom.
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Re: Condom stayed inside when the guy withdrew
« Reply #2 on: 11 October 2021, 03:22:49 pm »
I've had guys pull out so quick the condom has almost fallen off, I hold it myself if they aren't doing so and remove before they get soft.

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Re: Condom stayed inside when the guy withdrew
« Reply #3 on: 11 October 2021, 05:06:07 pm »
First, I would get a morning-after pill.

Second, go for an STI screen in 2 weeks' time.

Third, get some contraception sorted! I loved my IUD, but I know some women have had problems with them. If you don't fancy that or a normal contraceptive pill, think about an implant or long-acting injection. We have enough to worry about without pregnancy scares on top.
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Re: Condom stayed inside when the guy withdrew
« Reply #4 on: 11 October 2021, 07:39:23 pm »
Natalya this happened to me a few times in the past .
Do as other ladies suggest get the pill asap so that's one worry out the way and get tests done hope you will be ok ♡

Ana66

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Re: Condom stayed inside when the guy withdrew
« Reply #5 on: 11 October 2021, 09:14:42 pm »
Thank you all for your advices, I’ll take the necessary measures :)

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Re: Condom stayed inside when the guy withdrew
« Reply #6 on: 13 October 2021, 12:51:27 am »
This has happened to me a few times and thankfully I've never caught anything or got pregnant. If the client didn't cum then it's a very small risk, but get the morning after pill and checked anyway for your peace of mind.

In retrospect, the times when this has happened most for me is when the condom I've used hasn't been the right size. I now take a discreet measurement during foreplay. I close my finger and thumb around the fattest part of his cock. If my index finger and thumb meet, I use a regular size. If my index finger and thumb overlap, I use a small. If I can't meet them but my middle finger and thumb meet, then I use a king size.

If my middle finger and thumb don't meet then we're not having sex 😂
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Re: Condom stayed inside when the guy withdrew
« Reply #7 on: 13 October 2021, 02:16:33 pm »
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If my middle finger and thumb don't meet then we're not having sex 😂

 ;D OMG

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Re: Condom stayed inside when the guy withdrew
« Reply #8 on: 13 October 2021, 04:51:33 pm »
This has happened to me a few times and thankfully I've never caught anything or got pregnant. If the client didn't cum then it's a very small risk, but get the morning after pill and checked anyway for your peace of mind.

In retrospect, the times when this has happened most for me is when the condom I've used hasn't been the right size. I now take a discreet measurement during foreplay. I close my finger and thumb around the fattest part of his cock. If my index finger and thumb meet, I use a regular size. If my index finger and thumb overlap, I use a small. If I can't meet them but my middle finger and thumb meet, then I use a king size.

If my middle finger and thumb don't meet then we're not having sex 😂

This is actually really helpful, I’ve not had any accidents and think I’m usually a good judge but for the avoidance of doubt this is handy to have in the back of my head.  ;D

Ana66

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Re: Condom stayed inside when the guy withdrew
« Reply #9 on: 13 October 2021, 04:59:54 pm »
Aha your technique to assess the size is amazing, I’ll use it in the future.
In my case here, you are right the condom I used wasn’t the right size, I used regular size when I should have used a small one but I’ll take this as a lesson and be much more careful now

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Re: Condom stayed inside when the guy withdrew
« Reply #10 on: 13 October 2021, 05:26:09 pm »
If my middle finger and thumb don't meet then we're not having sex 😂

Is this where 'rule of thumb' comes from 😂🤣 love it!

++ also important to remember, always make sure the client withdraws as soon as they have cum, because leaving it in after he's cum can be dangerous for making the condom staying inside after withdrawal. I don't really limit Shots On Goal, but I have heard one or two horror stories, where the escort specifically allowed 1x cum in the type of session their client had booked, so the client came and then pretended they hadn't so they could keep fucking, and then of course the condom stayed inside her when he eventually withdrew.
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