Hey,

Just started escorting 2 months ago and I've already had one guy pull off the condom without my knowing and cum in me, another pulling it off, screwing me and then cumming on my back and then most recently with a reg it bunched up inside of me without me realizing it and he came inside of me.  Has anyone had this happen? 

The first two were when we were doing it from behind and I should've had a hand checking to make sure the condom was still on.  But alas, I was new and naive.  Definately learnt my lesson but now every little ache or pain I get freaks me out.  Not really asking for advice, more so hoping I'm not alone (although I hope no one else has experiences this) and to let other new girls out there know that they have to watch out for this!

 

Yes, it happens. I had someone take the condom off without me knowing and I had no idea until he sent me a photo. Even then, I went through the booking in my head and was so sure nothing had happened that I thought it must have been an illusion. It wasn't until I showed someone else the picture and he explained how it could be done that I did some tests and realised it couldn't look like that unless he was right. It's a horrible feeling, especially knowing that it could have happened at other times. I always check it regularly now and it doesn't kill the mood.

Accidents also happen. You can reduce the chance of condoms breaking by making sure you're putting them on properly and using lube, and if you keep checking the condom then you'll probably notice before it rolls off completely.

Ouch you seem to have a lot of bad luck with clients and condoms where are you getting them from?
maybe find out where they come from and not see anyone from there..yes I know the money etc BUT as you are getting a lot of clients like that I would seriously think about where they find you and then dont advertise there
I know it does happen as is happened to me when i first started with someone , it happened to me twice with the same man who also decided to film me via his mobile phone(without me knowing), but i got wise and also fed up so the second time it happened , he romoved the condom while we were in doggy and when i said i couldnt feel it he just put it on the tip and went in again, and then like what happened to you came all over my back and then said 'oh cant find the condom'
i was highly pissed off and did sometyhing very unladylike , i hoked the condom out of me and threw it at him and told him to go to the clinic as i may have something (i dont but the shock value works) got dressed without chatting to him and slammed the door after him
i got that 'clown' out of the local paper
it also happens when you do doggy so maybe refrain from that position , it s a real pain in the arse when it happens and some people can be so deciteful and spiteful
unfortunatly this job can make you hard and i wont take any crap about 'dont like condoms, i droop when you put one on..... a condom is for everyone and everyone who sees a prostitute should wear one .....thats my motto

I agree that you seem to be getting more of them than you should be. Since I became aware of the problem I've never actually noticed anyone misbehaving. (It could be that those types aren't interested in me because I charge a lot and don't do OWO, I don't know.) If you can't find a way of reducing that element then maybe you should stop doing doggy with first time clients. It's a bit drastic, but you have to protect yourself.

I echo the advice already given on here.  Refrain from doing doggy for first time clients, you should be in control of what you do, not them even though they pay you.

Im wondering if theres a problem with the brand/size of condoms you are using?  Its good to keep a variety as men come in all shapes and sizes.  The condom should be a good fit, not a loose one or the risk of it coming off is high.  If the condom is a good fit if a guy tries to remove it you should be able to hear him, or feel him rolling it off.  We need eyes in the back of our heads sometimes, but remember you need to keep in control all the time and be aware of what the guy is doing.  There are guys out there who will try it on, and it seems you have had your fair share of them.  If guys do this then they need to be told off in Louise fashion    , named and shamed on any local boards, and barred from seeing you again.

Hugs

Penny x x x

[I meant to reply to your post and edited instead! Sorry. I've put it all back to how it was. - Anika, new to this mod business]

I love the advice about not doing doggy with first time clients.  I was thinking about doing the same thing, telling him to go to the clinic to get checked because I had something.  I've had men hint about bareback soooo often it's not even funny.  What idiots!  Do they not realize they're putting themselves at risk?  Ugh.  It's so sad... I really enjoy this job, it's just assholes like this that ruin it for everyone...  So sad. 

Very good advice as usual from the "regulars " on here . As mentioned above about clearly stating no bareback - if you have an aw page you will probably been offered an x-work page too ? I know that  ex - work arent having any profiles that say they Do offer bb / unprotected / ect , to try and take a stand against the !"bareback " trend . The site has good intentions but it seems i still dont get any clients from it ( compared to aw!) .
Dont let the few pricks get you down , ive had a few guys hint or ask outright for bareback , anal and other things - all this is stated in my profile i dont do it - but they still ask !! Always the young cocky types and i refuse to meet them off ot the phone call stage. it seems a lot of guys get your number from these sites without reading through your info - thats what they try with me !!
Anyone on the phone who clearly hasnt read my profile properly and asks fro these things i just give the brush- off!! youve got to be firm with them - good luck in future !!