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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: thewarriorXXX94 on 08 January 2021, 10:30:00 pm
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Hello everyone!
Hope everyone is having a good day.
I wanted to get feedback.
I am thinking about entering the sex place and going solo, but I wanted to see how do you all feel about the personal attachment you may get from a client ?
Also lastly I am worried about exposure to STD’s , I will obviously use protection but what other ways do y’all do to reduce the risk of getting a STD?
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Your post is oddly worded - are you posting with Google Translate? What is 'the sex world/place'?
I find punters generally have more sense than to get personally attached with somebody they're buying a service from, just as I'm not personally attached to my hairdresser :). As with any other inappropriate behaviour, if they push it then they're no longer customers.
To avoid the majority of STIs, don't offer unprotected services. To avoid them all, don't have sex (which does mean you can offer something very low risk like massage with HR - there are threads here about it).
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Same as Amy said do everything with a condom including oral to protect risks from catching anything but to be totally more safe offer massage with just hand relief.
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Thank for the suggestions.
What about Kissing?
I’ve been researching there are so many STI you can get from kissing what if clients want to pay extra for it?
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Thank for the suggestions.
What about Kissing?
I’ve been researching there are so many STI you can get from kissing
No, there really aren't. You could catch a cold sore/herpes (which is HSV1, and you probably already have it or similar), or if you were incredibly, monumentally unlucky syphilis - this would still require one or both of you to have a tongue like a giraffe since the infection is concentrated in the throat.
Offer kissing or don't offer it, but before you decide anything go to your GUM and ask them rather than believing all the cack you find on the internet. When were you hoping to start seeing punters?
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Thank for the suggestions.
What about Kissing?
I’ve been researching there are so many STI you can get from kissing what if clients want to pay extra for it?
In my view, there will always be a risk in this line of work. Either from a health point or a safety point.
To get on in this type of work, you'll need to be prepared to accept that and minimise your risks accordingly.
It's right to be concerned about STI's, but if you are really that concerned then perhaps this wouldn't be the right type of work.
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With all due respect you do sound very young and naive if you are having to ask about sexual health. Are you mentally prepared for the job too?
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Is it me or is this post very strangely worded? Or maybe a bit strange in general? If you're worried about catching lurgies/cooties /stis through kissing then this probably is not the profession for you...
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Is it me or is this post very strangely worded?
Er, no. First reply on the thread:
Your post is oddly worded - are you posting with Google Translate?
As above, odd syntax and wording can be because somebody posting speaks little or no English - we've had a few on here that surprised me when I found out and we likely have at least one or two now.
Thread tidied, and back on topic now. If you have nothing useful and relevant to add for people who might be reading, go and find a thread about nail polish or something.
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You sound quite young to me so please do a bit of research on here regarding everything to do with sex work (that's what this forum is for after all, I know Amy I'm stating the obvious here :)). Ask as many questions as you need to as there is usually someone around with a sensible answer, GL x.
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There are a lot of guys who are boundary pushers who take advantage of newbies so be clear in your mind what you will offer and be firm and confidant about it.
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Don't offer cim.
Don't say you are newbie in your ads.
If you are 18-19 yo maybe even say you are 20 in your ads, etc.