SAAFE forum
General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Dora on 05 February 2022, 12:26:42 am
-
I hate when they message asking whether I'm a clock watcher. It makes me feel as if they're expecting my time for nothing. I charge in units of time. So if you book an hour, you get an hour. No more no less. That includes showering time. But it seems as if some people expect everything to be loose and free and no clock watching at all. I know some workers allow leeway for showers and dressing etc but this eats into my time so I'm a bit stricter. Am I unreasonable?
-
I allow a little time for shower and dressing and ordering a taxi as long as clients aren't taking the Mickey. I guess this is priced in to my rates. On average it's not going to more than around ten minutes.
If by clockwatching they mean going tut tut and rolling eyes with one eye on the clock and yawning then no I'm not a clockwatcher. I see it as quid pro quo. They're good to me, I'm good to them. If I don't like a client and they're making me work for every second they're out the second the time is up and go on my blocklist.
I read a story once about man visiting a Chinese brothel. The second the time was up the Madam walked into the room and threw all his clothes out the window!
-
I'm with Tickle on this. They can shower in my time and I also don't have a clock in the bedroom, but I know in my head how much time they've had. So, the alloted time in the bedroom and 5 mins or so have a quick chat and use the bathroom.
-
I sometimes let regulars go 10 mins over or have a shower in my time, my clients know I don’t take the piss by trying to get them in and out as quick as possible. they always get their full time at least maybe a tiny bit more. I honestly think this keeps me busy on when I toured last week I could only take 2 new bookings was almost fully booked with regulars x
-
I try and keep an hour in between bookings to freshen up so I don't mind them going a little over, if they're good to me. I've had a few piss takers though so when I'm ready I will start putting my clothes on, que for you too buddy. I used to hate 15 minute bookers who clearly needed 30, had that happen so often so no I don't offer 15 mins at all.
-
.
-
Usually the guys who ask if you're a clock watcher or say they don't want to visit clock watchers are the ones who are going to take the piss with our time so always a red flag to me and to be avoided.
Bookings of less than an hour, yes I'm going to be strict on time, if they want to be cheap then they are not getting my time for free.
I've had quite a few piss takers who book 30 mins and always try to overstay, in the end I stop seeing them as the mind fuck just isn't worth it.
I believe a lot depends on which area of the country you work too, I seem to be in an area populated by the 59mins and 59 seconds brigade :FF so I definitely feel that that has an effect on the way I deal with bookings.
-
Many of my bookings run over I always try to be 'up' a minute or so after the hour, some take a long time getting dressed if it's regularly 20 minutes over during which I have made effort to move things along (without which it would have been much longer) then I may work on reducing that. I plan time and my down time, not to mentioned fielding other enquiries is important, it could also be their enquiry too.
Also I do have some clients who themselves voluntarily make sure they are dressed, booking over within the time booked. That is absolutely fine with me!
-
I plan time and my down time, not to mentioned fielding other enquiries is important, it could also be their enquiry too.
This is something they never think or care about when they are overstaying, they are preventing you from answering the phone and possibly losing you clients/money in what is in fact our time.
-
I don't mind them going over a little bit if they are a ok guy but if they are horrible then i do mind. The thing that is annoying though which a few do every now and then if there is 5 mins left i try to hurry them up to get near to coming incase they don't and have had a couple say slow down don't want to cum too soon when there is 4 mins left of the booking that says to me they want extra time without paying. What i say is sure but we only have 4 mins left so if you can cum on demand that is fine.
I don't even think of showering time in my time or there's as so many are out within 2 mins quickest shower ever.
I have never been asked if i am a clock watcher though but maybe them asking can i go again if i cum quick is there way around it. If i did asked about clock watching i probably would not book them in because that says they want more then paid time. If they said do i get my full time that's different.
-
Yes I think it's more about losing out on other enquiries than begrudging them a shower but some people really do take the mick. I had a client who took forever putting on his shoes and just didn't seem to want to leave despite all my subtle clues. I think some people need to be told more directly as they don't pick up on body language very well.
I need time to relax and unwind before the next appointment and it ruins my mood if someone lingers after their time is up. I'm thinking 'this is *my* time, I want to eat, check my phone, stare into space etc!
-
Oh god, I’m super strict. With an hour, at 45 minutes I’ll say, “We’ve got about 15 minutes left.” With a half I’ll say after 20 minutes we have 10 minutes left. The few that act put out/grumpy I’ll become so sweet and apologize…..”Did you want to stay longer? You’re absolutely welcome to! An additional hour is X amount! Bright smile. They don’t take me up on it🙄. Shocker.
The very rare few that’ve called me a clock watcher I’ve asked, “Do you work for free at YOUR job?”
Never fails to shut’em up😡.
-
I seem to be in an area populated by the 59mins and 59 seconds brigade :FF so I definitely feel that that has an effect on the way I deal with bookings.
I've had a few of those... draining!!
-
I've had a few of those... draining!!
I wish it was only a few! I think I can probably count on the fingers of one hand the amount of my regs who happily get up and leave satisfied about 10/15 mins before the end of their booking, the rest will take it to the wire.
One even made a comment along the lines of "Oh you've had an early finish" even though he was totally spent and had no more in him, I looked at the clock and he only had 10 mins left anyway and he hadn't even got off the bed and got dressed at that point!
I'm not at the higher price point either, sometimes I do wonder if that's part of the problem and they are just cheapskates.
-
I find regs want me right up to the last second and then a chat in the kitchen. I do like my men but wow some are so boring.
-
If i did asked about clock watching i probably would not book them in because that says they want more then paid time.
I wouldn't either, because it's not just a stupid thing to ask but it's bloody rude and completely pointless.
People who are going to boot you out two thirds of the way in aren't going to say as much on the phone, because they want your money. It's like the 'is that you in the photos?' ones; the liars aren't going to tell the truth just because they were asked and everybody else will just think you're a cunt.
-
I had a 2 hr booking with a short round man with the most wirery hair all over. Spent most of the 2 hours trying to get him hard with him occasionally using fingers on me. Had to tell him during RO he was nowhere near by clit. After 1hr 55mins I start on with my speal 'plans for the rest of the weekend, lovely to meet you, thank you for your company...' he them goes in for the kiss, and using his fingers again, literally trying to get every second out of me.... he had very little personality and we couldn't have sex so was the longest 2 hrs of my life. Draining!
-
If someone even asked me that I'd refuse to see them anyway.
-
In my opinion there is a way to clock watch without it being obvious. I have always done it and managed to swerve those who try to take the P with my time.
Two of my regs who I have known for 5 years or so are the clock watchers! I find most men keep their watches on (I never wear one in bookings) and these two start having a sneaky look at their wrists after about half way through the sessions. They don't know I have noticed and I have a little inward smile about it.
They may wonder how I know the time! I doubt any of my clients have realised there is a clock in my room. Only I can see it as it is part of an ornament which is barely noticable among my other stuff on the dressing table. ;D
-
The thing is if we don't watch the time then run overtime it's our fault when they are late back to work or home. So we are damned if we do, damned if we don't.
-
I've always had a watch and when it's just 10/15mins left from the booking I say nicely with a smile on my face oh, we only have x amount of time left. They seem fine with that, and for the shower ohh I hate it when they have like a proper shower as if they are going to bed(sleep) or something... yes that might sound weird :)) but I mean I have one client he even washes his hair and takes forever in the shower.
And for the dressing part, I just stand up and start cleaning around so they get the idea.. get dressed fast and go!
-
.
-
I wish it was only a few! I think I can probably count on the fingers of one hand the amount of my regs who happily get up and leave satisfied about 10/15 mins before the end of their booking, the rest will take it to the wire.
Well that list seems to be dwinderling. One who has always reliably left 45 mins into an hour booking returned today and strangely seemed to be struggling to cum.
After about 40 mins of energetic action he finally managed it with about 3 mins to spare! Pretty damn sure he'd had a wank before his arrival as this has never been the case before.
To add insult to injury I realised after he had left that he hadn't noticed, or pretended he hadn't, my new increased rate and had only paid my old rate, which considering he was bloody hard work was galling to say the least!
Still feeling the effects hours later and not a happy bunny :(
-
FA I get rid of them at that point. I don't mind them having the full time at all but when they become so regular that it's hard to get them to finish, it's time they visited someone else. This is why I prefer newbies and I don't like them visiting me too often because it's not as exciting for them and I get worn out 😰.
-
FA I get rid of them at that point. I don't mind them having the full time at all but when they become so regular that it's hard to get them to finish, it's time they visited someone else. This is why I prefer newbies and I don't like them visiting me too often because it's not as exciting for them and I get worn out 😰.
Yes I know what you mean although I haven't seen him for a few months as his communications seem to have become somewhat flakey too so maybe another reason to get rid.
Judging by his feedback he seems to get around a fair bit so don't think it was familiarity causing it so that leads me back to thinking he'd wanked before visiting.
God I wish I lived in a more affluent area!
-
I put on a album that cuts off just before the hour and then silence which is a bit like the lights going on when a nightclub is wanting to get you out. Most of my regulars want a little chat afterwards which I don't mind as long as its not more than 10 minutes. I leave an hour between and I need that to reset mentally and get ready, Answer texts. Its polite for the client to respect my time as I do their's.
I won't see anyone again if they book 30 minutes and I can tell they are dragging it out, I'll keep polite to a point. I think some think that not clock watching means getting so carried away we forget the time, There's a reason I want to get paid and I don't do it for free with them.
-
I used to have a client that would book for half an hour and I'd almost have to throw him out the door after an hour or more. I remember one time telling him I'd arranged to go out later that evening . He said I shouldn't arrange anything else on the evenings I was due to see him as it made him feel under pressure. Never mind the fact that I was meant to be going out an hour and a half after he should have left. He was one entitled prick.
-
I used to have a client that would book for half an hour and I'd almost have to throw him out the door after an hour or more. I remember one time telling him I'd arranged to go out later that evening . He said I shouldn't arrange anything else on the evenings I was due to see him as it made him feel under pressure. Never mind the fact that I was meant to be going out an hour and a half after he should have left. He was one entitled prick.
A long time ago a regular who used to over stay by quite a long time, asked could he make me a meal before our booking. I agreed (I used to think this would be appreciated eliminate the over staying at other times). I explained that on that date I had a personal commitment straight afterwards (he had a very specific time and specifics dates he required), that I needed to not go over our usual paid time.
He took a long time cooking, it became obvious we would struggle to finish at the end of the usual paid time.
Yes I was more or less pushing him out after the end of the paid portion.
This guy ended up 'paying me back' by utterly shattering my trust many further bookings down the line. Lesson learned deal with stuff early on, some people will not appreciate extra efforts, extra time, special allowances.
For balance quite a few punters, clients, regulars would not dream of overrunning, or officially extend by agreement or extra payment. Very appreciative, and quite a few ask me/look at the time.
-
Those who protest we watch the clock have no understanding that we are running a business.
They wouldn't dream of overstaying at the barbers or dentist so why should we be any different!
-
I used to have a client that would book for half an hour and I'd almost have to throw him out the door after an hour or more. I remember one time telling him I'd arranged to go out later that evening . He said I shouldn't arrange anything else on the evenings I was due to see him as it made him feel under pressure. Never mind the fact that I was meant to be going out an hour and a half after he should have left. He was one entitled prick.
How rude!
-
Yes I know what you mean although I haven't seen him for a few months as his communications seem to have become somewhat flakey too so maybe another reason to get rid.
Judging by his feedback he seems to get around a fair bit so don't think it was familiarity causing it so that leads me back to thinking he'd wanked before visiting.
God I wish I lived in a more affluent area!
Urgh, I have a regular like that but he always tells me he had a play that morning. So yep he lasts a full 15 mins banging me (ten min massage before) and I always ask how he wants to finish so he knows then it's time to get a wiggle on. I always think it'd be like me taking a sleeping tablet - or maybe that doesn't make sense 😁. I only see him if I'm quiet. I'm incredibly lazy.
-
Urgh, I have a regular like that but he always tells me he had a play that morning. So yep he lasts a full 15 mins banging me (ten min massage before) and I always ask how he wants to finish so he knows then it's time to get a wiggle on.
Maybe I need to introduce the massage at beginning of booking again but many don't like it as they see it as time wasting.
My guy had booked an hour so I endured about 35/40 mins of banging, all the time thinking christ he must be about to cum! as like I said, he's usually finished and gone in 45 mins.
I'm still suffering the pain from it today so pretty pissed off. I make it clear I don't offer PSE so maybe I need to be more assertive.
-
Well that list seems to be dwinderling. One who has always reliably left 45 mins into an hour booking returned today and strangely seemed to be struggling to cum.
After about 40 mins of energetic action he finally managed it with about 3 mins to spare! Pretty damn sure he'd had a wank before his arrival as this has never been the case before.
To add insult to injury I realised after he had left that he hadn't noticed, or pretended he hadn't, my new increased rate and had only paid my old rate, which considering he was bloody hard work was galling to say the least!
Still feeling the effects hours later and not a happy bunny :(
Not a get at but a reminder to us all to count at the start, and yes I've had this and I'm still not 100 percent on this. Even miscounted up front a few weeks ago, got distracted by client talking only realised afterwards I'd given change for a lesser amount. ::)
But yes.
-
One of my regs is a clock watcher.. last time he seen me he booked a hour.. 45 mins into the booking I suggested a different sexual position change.. which he oddly looked at his watch, whilst on top of me and told me he knew how long he had been in the booking for.. then he reminded me that he got had his watch on.. he wasn’t joking either he said it deadly serious.. (made me feel I was having him off with his time)
It annoyed me as I never short time people.. he hard work as it.. i think it’s time I cut him off.
-
Not a get at but a reminder to us all to count at the start, and yes I've had this and I'm still not 100 percent on this. Even miscounted up front a few weeks ago, got distracted by client talking only realised afterwards I'd given change for a lesser amount. ::)
But yes.
Daft thing is I did the same, miscounted initially, not fully concentrating, and thought it was right, only to check later and found it was short. Maybe he genuinely hadn't realised but it's very irratating when they have been hard work.
-
One of my regs is a clock watcher.. last time he seen me he booked a hour.. 45 mins into the booking I suggested a different sexual position change.. which he oddly looked at his watch, whilst on top of me and told me he knew how long he had been in the booking for.. then he reminded me that he got had his watch on.. he wasn’t joking either he said it deadly serious.. (made me feel I was having him off with his time)
It annoyed me as I never short time people.. he hard work as it.. i think it’s time I cut him off.
Wow what a prick! His ass would have been blocked the minute he was out the door and as he was so disrespectful as to treat you like a piece of meat I'd have spent his last 15 precious mins disengaged and unresponsive like a sack of spuds, no more than he deserved.
-
One of my regs is a clock watcher.. last time he seen me he booked a hour.. 45 mins into the booking I suggested a different sexual position change.. which he oddly looked at his watch, whilst on top of me and told me he knew how long he had been in the booking for.. then he reminded me that he got had his watch on.. he wasn’t joking either he said it deadly serious.. (made me feel I was having him off with his time)
It annoyed me as I never short time people.. he hard work as it.. i think it’s time I cut him off.
I’d have looked at him and replied, “And? I’m wearing a watch as well? What’s your point here? Buuuuuut…..now that’s it’s been mentioned….. you’ve about 15 minutes left.” *Bright smile.*
Yo know me: headlong into a china shop 🦬
-
On the other hand he'll know when the booking finishes and that you've delivered the booked time I have no problem with this.
-
EnglishAmy it must be your hypnotic presence lol.
-
EnglishAmy it must be your hypnotic presence lol.
What? That some want the full half hour and 5 mins over? Big knockers more like 😂.
-
I would die of shame if I phoned a personal trainer/Massage therapist/solicitor etc and asked them if they clockwatched :-[
Is it just OK to ask your common or garden Prossie this then?
Are we supposed to say, "No way Nigel! I adore cock and endeavour to suck or fuck them for as long as the owner's wish me to. Keep your extra pennies in your pocket! I'd rather fuck for free than get you out of the door in the time you paid for!"
So deluded. One of my most regular Clients really believes I am a " Genuine Nymph" despite the fact I have never overstayed and tell him in no uncertain terms when "The sex bit should be coming to a close now " ;D
-
My counsellor charges per hour. However, our session is 50 minutes and the other 10 minutes are for her to write up her notes. It would never have occurred to me to insist on the full hour, so I have no idea why some men think they're going to spend all 60 minutes of a one hour session going at it.
The whole 'clock watching' thing is only something I have come across when I briefly used AW. It's not something I have encountered anywhere else. I found a few men asked me about this and all wanted to book initially for an hour and to see how things went. I always declined to see them as I suspected they would push me to stay for as long as possible for an hour's fee. For me, anyone asking about clock-watching have screened themselves out.
I only do outcalls, so am a little slack with timings and do sometimes over stay by 30 minutes or so. But then my outcalls are usually 3-4 hours at a minimum anyway, and am well remunerated for this, so an extra 30 minutes is fine. Even so, should I find myself staying an extra hour, I expect to be paid, and am very clear about this.
-
I know some workers allow leeway for showers and dressing etc but this eats into my time so I'm a bit stricter. Am I unreasonable?
Not IMO. We all operate differently so you dont need to compare your process to others. YOU'RE the one offering the service so just do what works best for you!
The time for me starts as soon as their foot (or mine) steps thru the door haha (this is when I start my music playlist). If they want a shower at mine this is included in the time. If they are chatty and want to talk for England then they should book a longer duration so I dont feel like they are taking the P and trying to get more free time. When I first started I had alot of guys trying to do this so its naturally made me more stricter.
I really dislike the term "clock watching" btw. Our appointments are timed so we all have to watch the clock so to speak but 'clock watching' literally means watching the clock which most of us dont literally do....
-
Not IMO. We all operate differently so you dont need to compare your process to others. YOU'RE the one offering the service so just do what works best for you!
The time for me starts as soon as their foot (or mine) steps thru the door haha (this is when I start my music playlist). If they want a shower at mine this is included in the time. If they are chatty and want to talk for England then they should book a longer duration so I dont feel like they are taking the P and trying to get more free time. When I first started I had alot of guys trying to do this so its naturally made me more stricter.
I really dislike the term "clock watching" btw. Our appointments are timed so we all have to watch the clock so to speak but 'clock watching' literally means watching the clock which most of us dont literally do....
I am the same with outcalls I start the time soon as I enter the hotel room or their property. What Pisses me off when the client tries to dictate how the time should start ohh I paid you from this time so the session begins from then. Me:Nooo My time began once I arrived stepped foot inside.
With the shower that is included in their time when its incall booking. Once time is up their time is up. I do let them know they have 10minutes left and inform them about extending in a nice way. When they decline then it's not my problem you could not cum buss on time.
One time a guy was still fucking me and my alarm went off I got off the dude and put my gown on dude began to moan. I was like your more than welcome to extend him No. Well if you knew it takes you ages to cum you should have booked an hour.
-
I have a clock in my room opposite my bed so the client can see also.
I'm only strict on time if I have a booking after and if my day is busy. If I have a lot of time between bookings I'm less strict. I think the most I've let someone stay over time is 15 mins (but only if I like them and they are interesting to speak to ;D) I did have someone who tried to cum right up until the last minute and when I stopped them they had the cheek to look at me like I am crazy ??? He asked for 5 mins which I laughed and said yes you can always pay extra... of course he didn't. I don't feel bad for clock watching, they are booking me for my time after all.
-
I have a clock in my room opposite my bed so the client can see also.
I'm only strict on time if I have a booking after and if my day is busy. If I have a lot of time between bookings I'm less strict.
I'm the same but now also keep an ear out for my work phone ringing downstairs. I don't see a problem with having a clock in the room, why shouldn't they be aware of the time? To my mind they should be respectful and not overstay the time they've paid for.
-
I have a clock in my room which I check every so often to keep things ticking along (no pun intended). I'm sure some clients would never get further than kissing within their time without me moving things along!
-
I have a clock in my room which I check every so often to keep things ticking along (no pun intended). I'm sure some clients would never get further than kissing within their time without me moving things along!
Haha I know what you mean! You can literally see some of them entering a parallel universe when your lips touch! I get that for many of them it's something that they don't experience often but even so ...
And incase they are wondering .. No we're not enjoying it as much as they are! We're often just bloody good actresses!
-
I used to be quite flexible then one client went half an over their time. I had a family emergency and told him he needed to leave and honestly I’ve never seen someone take so long to get dressed! He just wouldn’t shut up. It took all my patience not to scream.
Now, I’ll give regulars a little longer if I don’t have another booking, but I pretty much stand up just before the hour, make small talk then get dressed. Most blokes get the hint.
-
This people never gets it.. I had one the other day and I asked nicely to be at my place at the time that we have agreed. He wanted 1hour. Obviously he was 15mins late and he changed his mind and wanted only 30mins. I agreed to that and almost the end of our 30 he wasn't done, I have reminded him about time and he told me are you a clock watching? I started to laugh and said we only have this amount of time to spend together so yes I am watching my time as I have other arrangements after. I wanted him out and blocked him as well after he stepped foot outside my place. They think it's ok to be late or take the pi*s only because we do this job and ha, we're just some "whores" ( not all of them are this way
-
This people never gets it.. I had one the other day and I asked nicely to be at my place at the time that we have agreed. He wanted 1hour. Obviously he was 15mins late and he changed his mind and wanted only 30mins. I agreed to that and almost the end of our 30 he wasn't done, I have reminded him about time and he told me are you a clock watching? I started to laugh and said we only have this amount of time to spend together so yes I am watching my time as I have other arrangements after. I wanted him out and blocked him as well after he stepped foot outside my place. They think it's ok to be late or take the pi*s only because we do this job and ha, we're just some "whores" ( not all of them are this way
Yup the late ones I will clock watch. They shouldn't assume they're the only bookers that day.
-
The two type of clients who annoy me the most are the ones who book for 45 min when they end up staying the whole hour (so they get the 1h time at a discounted price of 45min), or the ones who are completely aware that their time is up but dare trying to have sex again and when you tell them "sorry we don't have time", they say "oh really ?", some guys really try to take the piss sometimes.
I've been much more strict and clock watching lately as I found that too many people try to take advantage when you're nice to them, maybe the next step is putting an alarm who knows ::)
-
One time a guy was still fucking me and my alarm went off I got off the dude and put my gown on dude began to moan. I was like your more than welcome to extend him No. Well if you knew it takes you ages to cum you should have booked an hour.
Amen and ameennnnnn!
I also had a similar issue ages ago also but I dont use alarms anymore coz some clients have complained they are too abrupt so I have a playlist now so when a particular song plays I know theres 15/10/5 mins left and I verbally tell them that theres x amount of time left and this has worked milessss better!
-
This people never gets it.. I had one the other day and I asked nicely to be at my place at the time that we have agreed. He wanted 1hour. Obviously he was 15mins late and he changed his mind and wanted only 30mins. I agreed to that and almost the end of our 30 he wasn't done, I have reminded him about time and he told me are you a clock watching? I started to laugh and said we only have this amount of time to spend together so yes I am watching my time as I have other arrangements after. I wanted him out and blocked him as well after he stepped foot outside my place. They think it's ok to be late or take the pi*s only because we do this job and ha, we're just some "whores" ( not all of them are this way
Nah man he was definitely taking the piss wtf! :FF The cheek of him to REDUCE THE BOOKING after he was 15 mins late and then try and make you feel awkward coz you were conscious of the time (which is part of the frigging job)?!?!?!?? Good on you for blocking him (and I hope you reported his ass too!)
-
This people never gets it.. I had one the other day and I asked nicely to be at my place at the time that we have agreed. He wanted 1hour. Obviously he was 15mins late and he changed his mind and wanted only 30mins. I agreed to that and almost the end of our 30 he wasn't done, I have reminded him about time and he told me are you a clock watching? I started to laugh and said we only have this amount of time to spend together so yes I am watching my time as I have other arrangements after. I wanted him out and blocked him as well after he stepped foot outside my place. They think it's ok to be late or take the pi*s only because we do this job and ha, we're just some "whores" ( not all of them are this way
I’d had said ok that’s fine then after 15 mins passed. I’d had said ok time is up. If he said anything I’d be like well you thought you was clever by reducing the amount of time you paid for cause you was late but that time you wasted is yours not mine. Don’t think I’m gonna be sitting around in my knickers waiting for ya and not get paid for it. Little dickheads.
-
Depend on how the customer behave during booking. If he good then I relaxed and don’t mind 10-15 minutes if he shower 2 times. If he do thing annoy but not enough I cancel him then use time finish to make him leave. I have one or two customer I let stay longer 20-25 minutes because the energy is very good with me and when booking time finish I decide to offer drink.
-
I set a timer on my phone, from Money exchange to finishing up, I give them extra 5/10 minutes for quick chat and getting dressed.
-
I set a timer on my phone, from Money exchange to finishing up, I give them extra 5/10 minutes for quick chat and getting dressed.
I absolutely use an alarm because so few hotels have clocks in them now and I have bad eyesight anyway. I will very often continue for a few minutes after the alarm if the client is nice and respectful and importantly, close to finishing. But I've known too many jokers taking the P to give any other leeway.
I get triggered when they ask me 'Can I come twice in that time' or anything else related to time so I probably likely to just block them if they ask if I am a clock watcher anyway, I am rather impatient with men. >:D
-
I'm relaxed on time if I have no appointments after, however I do get dressed and put my shoes on as as indicator that I want them out of my place. When a man asks if I'm a clock watcher, I say, "time is money honey". They seem to get it and make a move to get going.
-
I did use 1/2 hour between clients, but that stressed me if client ran over a bit or was 5 minutes lat coming and still wanting the hour.
I now use 1 hour, I find it more relaxing, and plenty of time to change the sheets/have a shower etc depending what's needed. It does mean a slightly longer day.
-
This people never gets it.. I had one the other day and I asked nicely to be at my place at the time that we have agreed. He wanted 1hour. Obviously he was 15mins late and he changed his mind and wanted only 30mins.
If someone tells me they may be late, I tell them I will only accept the booking if they still pay the full fee for the hour. Them being late shouldn’t mean my income is down.
-
I leave 15 mins between bookings, 30 mins between and sometimes back to back. I don’t care. The way I see it is they need to be turning up early for the booking to give them chance to get the full address and be on time. Which means if that runs smoothly then the next one can come in on time and so forth. If anyone is more than 15 mins late or even 5 mins late (sometimes I let them off with 5 mins) but mostly no cause they should’ve arrived early, prepared and waiting. So basically their time on the clock starts when their booking does. If I wanted to sit around and wait on people I’d be a waitress. Some of these men are too self entitled. There’s that old saying my mother always told me. “If you’re on time, you’re late. Which is so true. I’m never late for anything. I’m always very early so I’m sure I’m not late.
-
I just came across something interesting - brothel candles! :o :D They were popular in the late 19th century as timing devices.
-
I just came across something interesting - brothel candles! :o :D They were popular in the late 19th century as timing devices.
Need to find me some of those. I'm rubbish with timings.
-
I once had a guy make a 15 minute booking - I like them because they're quick and easy. Once punter really took the piss and was in my room for 45 mins and had the audacity to write a review that I was a clock watcher ;D ;D I was fuming at the time but now I can laugh at how ridiculous it is
-
For InCall bookings and the client is sober yes I am strict on time. If the InCall booking and the client is on party delights c..ke then I am lenient on time as they always tend to extend.
Now OutCall booking I apply the above Sober client strict on time as I have to get ready freshen up to get into the taxi. When the OutCall booking is high as a kite on c...ke I am lenient as again they are happy to extend and dish out the funds your way.
-
I once had a guy make a 15 minute booking - I like them because they're quick and easy. Once punter really took the piss and was in my room for 45 mins and had the audacity to write a review that I was a clock watcher ;D ;D I was fuming at the time but now I can laugh at how ridiculous it is
How bloody rude!!
-
Wobbling off topic a bit but I had to comment
BROTHEL CANDLES!!!
I hadn't heard of these until the post by One more Rodeo! so googled them.
They were lit at the start and burned for exactly 7 minutes and once they fizzled out the session was ended.
SEVEN MINUTES! Makes a 15 minute booking seem like a marathon. :o ;D
-
I once had a guy make a 15 minute booking - I like them because they're quick and easy. Once punter really took the piss and was in my room for 45 mins and had the audacity to write a review that I was a clock watcher ;D ;D I was fuming at the time but now I can laugh at how ridiculous it is
These idiots still have no idea that sex work is a job. If you book a therapist or a chiropractor you pay for the appointment time then you are out they rarely let you run over 5 mins let alone what this deluded moron did.
They should not be paying for sex when they have no idea what it really is for us but then again how would guys like him ever get laid that are living in cukoo land.
-
Wobbling off topic a bit but I had to comment
BROTHEL CANDLES!!!
I hadn't heard of these until the post by One more Rodeo! so googled them.
They were lit at the start and burned for exactly 7 minutes and once they fizzled out the session was ended.
SEVEN MINUTES! Makes a 15 minute booking seem like a marathon. :o ;D
Memoirs of Geisha ~ an absolutely amazing novel & astonishingly, a better movie ~ makes mention of this! They light incense cones to mark their times they spend with their patrons ….. I’m trying to think what the amounts were, I haven’t read the book in years. I think it was 15 minute increments? But the protagonist’s mentor, Mameha was so successful she was able to charge like …. a cone a MINUTE as I recall? It was crazy high though.
-
Memoirs of Geisha ~ an absolutely amazing novel & astonishingly, a better movie ~ makes mention of this! They light incense cones to mark their times they spend with their patrons ….. I’m trying to think what the amounts were, I haven’t read the book in years. I think it was 15 minute increments? But the protagonist’s mentor, Mameha was so successful she was able to charge like …. a cone a MINUTE as I recall? It was crazy high though.
I read this book many years ago but can not recall that part. Yes I get the 15 minute time but SEVEN MINUTES !? This was around late 19th century but some men these days would not find it a problem if all preliminaries are dispensed with. :o
-
Yes I get the 15 minute time but SEVEN MINUTES !? This was around late 19th century but some men these days would not find it a problem if all preliminaries are dispensed with. :o
I bet that back in those days there were tossers who still were overstaying or coming with a ruler to check if the candle wasn't cut too short. >:( :D
-
coming with a ruler to check if the candle wasn't cut too short. >:( :D
LOL!
-
I start the clock as soon as they are in, but when their time is up, it is up. I only go over if they are nearly there or I am enjoying myself (rare) so they wash and get ready in my time. Almost all will take a shower after, but I rarely have anyone taking the P...I have only had to tell someone to 'Go now, I have stuff to do' Once...which is astonishing I think. Mind you since a LOT of my clients are lunch hour or before/after work city types and so many of them are in a rush that most leave early, if not bang on time.
-
After I couldn't hear the phone (and stayed 30 min longer, also missed the taxi :FF) now I'm taking a large alarm clock for outcalls.
It's lightweight, with a large display. I'm putting it where it's clearly visible for me and the client.
I'm not staying for even one minute for free ever again. >:(
-
Why not just wear a wrist watch??
I always wear one, plus the clock in my bedroom for the client. I'm shortsighted so the wristwatch works for me, and there's plenty of opportunity to look at it during the body movements in bed :)
-
Why not just wear a wrist watch??
I always wear one, plus the clock in my bedroom for the client. I'm shortsighted so the wristwatch works for me, and there's plenty of opportunity to look at it during the body movements in bed :)
I have both too and keep a close eye on time. Chuckled to myself this afternoon when the guy with 15 mins left was pumping away clearly loving it but watching the bedside clock at the same time! He lasted 2 more mins lol but still laid there til his time was up, well actually I suggested he used the bathroom at 5 mins to go or he still wouldn't have budged! Such tight fuckers around here!
-
I always have at least one clock in the room, but wouldn't wear a wristwatch. I find them annoying anyway, and they could potentially get covered in lube, oil or bodily fluids or potentially hurt the client a little.
-
Yes i clock watch but i don'tmake it obvious, When I go to an appointment it's clear to me that time management is needed, My hairdresser starts with my hair and 30 min in offer me a drink and then another client to start on because time is money, Same for anything else be it a chiropractor or dentist but not Doctors they are always running late lol Thing is most guy's I see want to feel special and running over makes them feel special so I have to have plenty of time between bookings.
I have a cd that's just an hour and I know when it ends it's close to time over but I get regulars always staying 15 min over so I then have to plan my next booking around them.
-
Yes i clock watch but i don'tmake it obvious, When I go to an appointment it's clear to me that time management is needed, My hairdresser starts with my hair and 30 min in offer me a drink and then another client to start on because time is money, Same for anything else be it a chiropractor or dentist but not Doctors they are always running late lol Thing is most guy's I see want to feel special and running over makes them feel special so I have to have plenty of time between bookings.
I have a cd that's just an hour and I know when it ends it's close to time over but I get regulars always staying 15 min over so I then have to plan my next booking around them.
The problem in my experience is some regulars can only make a certain time, they only have a particular time window. I plan in other things have other commitments including in another job, I leave a cushion so I'm not rushing but that does get eaten into. I guess I could leave mega gaps but it would just get daft.
I do wear a watch and so far in 15 years no damage, but that may be about my choice of watch. I can't wear one with some fetish clothing so I make sure there's a clock in view or I check my phone/watch removed every so often.