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EnglishAmy40

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Re: Clock watching: am I strict?
« Reply #30 on: 07 February 2022, 02:44:36 pm »
Yes I know what you mean although I haven't seen him for a few months as his communications seem to have become somewhat flakey too so maybe another reason to get rid.
Judging by his feedback he seems to get around a fair bit so don't think it was familiarity causing it so that leads me back to thinking he'd wanked before visiting.
God I wish I lived in a more affluent area!

Urgh, I have a regular like that but he always tells me he had a play that morning. So yep he lasts a full 15 mins banging me (ten min massage before) and I always ask how he wants to finish so he knows then it's time to get a wiggle on. I always think it'd be like me taking a sleeping tablet - or maybe that doesn't make sense 😁. I only see him if I'm quiet. I'm incredibly lazy.

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Re: Clock watching: am I strict?
« Reply #31 on: 07 February 2022, 04:49:33 pm »
Urgh, I have a regular like that but he always tells me he had a play that morning. So yep he lasts a full 15 mins banging me (ten min massage before) and I always ask how he wants to finish so he knows then it's time to get a wiggle on.

Maybe I need to introduce the massage at beginning of booking again but many don't like it as they see it as time wasting.
My guy had booked an hour so I endured about 35/40 mins of banging, all the time thinking christ he must be about to cum! as like I said, he's usually finished and gone in 45 mins.
 I'm still suffering the pain from it today so pretty pissed off. I make it clear I don't offer PSE so maybe I need to be more assertive.
« Last Edit: 07 February 2022, 05:05:05 pm by fallen angel »

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« Reply #32 on: 07 February 2022, 05:50:32 pm »
Well that list seems to be dwinderling. One who has always reliably left 45 mins into an hour booking returned today and strangely seemed to be struggling to cum.
After about 40 mins of energetic action he finally managed it with about 3 mins to spare! Pretty damn sure he'd had a wank before his arrival as this has  never been the case before.
To add insult to injury I realised after he had left that he hadn't noticed, or pretended he hadn't, my new increased rate and had only paid my old rate, which considering he was bloody hard work was galling to say the least!
Still feeling the effects hours later and not a happy bunny  :(

Not a get at but a reminder to us all to  count at the start, and yes I've had this and I'm still not 100 percent on this. Even miscounted up front a few weeks ago, got distracted by client talking only realised afterwards I'd given change for a lesser amount. ::)

But yes.

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Re: Clock watching: am I strict?
« Reply #33 on: 07 February 2022, 06:30:55 pm »
One of my regs is a clock watcher.. last time he seen me he booked a hour.. 45 mins into the booking I suggested a different sexual position change.. which he oddly looked at his watch,  whilst on top of me and told me he knew how long he had been in the booking for.. then he reminded me that he got had his watch on.. he wasn’t joking either he said it deadly serious.. (made me feel I was having him off with his time)

It annoyed me as I never short time people.. he hard work as it.. i think it’s time I cut him off.
« Last Edit: 07 February 2022, 06:44:16 pm by Petlover29 »

fallen angel

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Re: Clock watching: am I strict?
« Reply #34 on: 07 February 2022, 07:21:55 pm »
Not a get at but a reminder to us all to  count at the start, and yes I've had this and I'm still not 100 percent on this. Even miscounted up front a few weeks ago, got distracted by client talking only realised afterwards I'd given change for a lesser amount. ::)

But yes.

Daft thing is I did the same, miscounted initially, not fully concentrating, and thought it was right, only to check later and found it was short. Maybe he genuinely hadn't realised but it's very irratating when they have been hard work.
« Last Edit: 09 February 2022, 10:27:58 am by fallen angel »

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Re: Clock watching: am I strict?
« Reply #35 on: 07 February 2022, 07:23:38 pm »
One of my regs is a clock watcher.. last time he seen me he booked a hour.. 45 mins into the booking I suggested a different sexual position change.. which he oddly looked at his watch,  whilst on top of me and told me he knew how long he had been in the booking for.. then he reminded me that he got had his watch on.. he wasn’t joking either he said it deadly serious.. (made me feel I was having him off with his time)

It annoyed me as I never short time people.. he hard work as it.. i think it’s time I cut him off.

Wow what a prick! His ass would have been blocked the minute he was out the door and as he was so disrespectful as to treat you like a piece of meat I'd have spent his last 15 precious mins disengaged and unresponsive like a sack of spuds, no more than he deserved.
« Last Edit: 07 February 2022, 07:28:22 pm by fallen angel »

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Re: Clock watching: am I strict?
« Reply #36 on: 09 February 2022, 01:03:05 am »
One of my regs is a clock watcher.. last time he seen me he booked a hour.. 45 mins into the booking I suggested a different sexual position change.. which he oddly looked at his watch,  whilst on top of me and told me he knew how long he had been in the booking for.. then he reminded me that he got had his watch on.. he wasn’t joking either he said it deadly serious.. (made me feel I was having him off with his time)

It annoyed me as I never short time people.. he hard work as it.. i think it’s time I cut him off.

I’d have looked at him and replied, “And? I’m wearing a watch as well? What’s your point here? Buuuuuut…..now that’s it’s been mentioned….. you’ve about 15 minutes left.” *Bright smile.*

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Re: Clock watching: am I strict?
« Reply #37 on: 09 February 2022, 06:08:09 am »
On the other hand he'll know when the booking finishes and that you've delivered the booked time I have no problem with this.

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Re: Clock watching: am I strict?
« Reply #38 on: 09 February 2022, 04:34:36 pm »
EnglishAmy it must be your hypnotic presence lol.

EnglishAmy40

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« Reply #39 on: 09 February 2022, 04:53:19 pm »
EnglishAmy it must be your hypnotic presence lol.

What? That some want the full half hour and 5 mins over? Big knockers more like 😂.

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Re: Clock watching: am I strict?
« Reply #40 on: 11 February 2022, 06:07:29 pm »
I would die of shame if I phoned a personal trainer/Massage therapist/solicitor etc and asked them if they clockwatched  :-[
Is it just OK to ask your common or garden Prossie this then?
Are we supposed to say, "No way Nigel! I  adore cock and endeavour to suck or fuck them for as long as the owner's wish me to. Keep your extra pennies in your pocket! I'd rather fuck for free than get you out of the door in the time you paid for!"

So deluded. One of my most regular Clients really believes I am a " Genuine Nymph" despite the fact I have never overstayed and tell him in no uncertain terms when "The sex bit should be coming to a close now " ;D

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Re: Clock watching: am I strict?
« Reply #41 on: 11 February 2022, 06:32:25 pm »
My counsellor charges per hour. However, our session is 50 minutes and the other 10 minutes are for her to write up her notes. It would never have occurred to me to insist on the full hour, so I have no idea why some men think they're going to spend all 60 minutes of a one hour session going at it.

The whole 'clock watching' thing is only something I have come across when I briefly used AW. It's not something I have encountered anywhere else. I found a few men asked me about this and all wanted to book initially for an hour and to see how things went. I always declined to see them as I suspected they would push me to stay for as long as possible for an hour's fee. For me, anyone asking about clock-watching have screened themselves out.

I only do outcalls, so am a little slack with timings and do sometimes over stay by 30 minutes or so. But then my outcalls are usually 3-4 hours at a minimum anyway, and am well remunerated for this, so an extra 30 minutes is fine. Even so, should I find myself staying an extra hour, I expect to be paid, and am very clear about this.


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« Reply #42 on: 23 February 2022, 01:45:09 am »
I know some workers allow leeway for showers and dressing etc but this eats into my time so I'm a bit stricter. Am I unreasonable?

Not IMO. We all operate differently so you dont need to compare your process to others. YOU'RE the one offering the service so just do what works best for you!

The time for me starts as soon as their foot (or mine) steps thru the door haha (this is when I start my music playlist). If they want a shower at mine this is included in the time. If they are chatty and want to talk for England then they should book a longer duration so I dont feel like they are taking the P and trying to get more free time. When I first started I had alot of guys trying to do this so its naturally made me more stricter.

I really dislike the term "clock watching" btw. Our appointments are timed so we all have to watch the clock so to speak but 'clock watching' literally means watching the clock which most of us dont literally do....
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Re: Clock watching: am I strict?
« Reply #43 on: 23 February 2022, 05:22:27 pm »
Not IMO. We all operate differently so you dont need to compare your process to others. YOU'RE the one offering the service so just do what works best for you!

The time for me starts as soon as their foot (or mine) steps thru the door haha (this is when I start my music playlist). If they want a shower at mine this is included in the time. If they are chatty and want to talk for England then they should book a longer duration so I dont feel like they are taking the P and trying to get more free time. When I first started I had alot of guys trying to do this so its naturally made me more stricter.

I really dislike the term "clock watching" btw. Our appointments are timed so we all have to watch the clock so to speak but 'clock watching' literally means watching the clock which most of us dont literally do....

I am the same with outcalls I start the time soon as I enter the hotel room or their property. What Pisses me off when the client tries to dictate how the time should start ohh I paid you from this time so the session begins from then. Me:Nooo My time began once I arrived stepped foot inside.

With the shower that is included in their time when its incall booking. Once time is up their time is up. I do let them know they have 10minutes left and inform them about extending in a nice way. When they decline then it's not my problem you could not cum buss on time.

One time a guy was still fucking me and my alarm went off I got off the dude and put my gown on dude began to moan. I was like your more than welcome to extend him No. Well if you knew it takes you ages to cum you should have booked an hour.

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« Reply #44 on: 23 February 2022, 07:18:36 pm »
I have a clock in my room opposite my bed so the client can see also.
I'm only strict on time if I have a booking after and if my day is busy. If I have a lot of time between bookings I'm less strict. I think the most I've let someone stay over time is 15 mins (but only if I like them and they are interesting to speak to ;D) I did have someone who tried to cum right up until the last minute and when I stopped them they had the cheek to look at me like I am crazy  ??? He asked for 5 mins which I laughed and said yes you can always pay extra... of course he didn't. I don't feel bad for clock watching, they are booking me for my time after all.