If i did asked about clock watching i probably would not book them in because that says they want more then paid time.

I wouldn't either, because it's not just a stupid thing to ask but it's bloody rude and completely pointless.

People who are going to boot you out two thirds of the way in aren't going to say as much on the phone, because they want your money. It's like the 'is that you in the photos?' ones; the liars aren't going to tell the truth just because they were asked and everybody else will just think you're a cunt.

If someone even asked me that I'd refuse to see them anyway.

The thing is if we don't watch the time then run overtime it's our fault when they are late back to work or home. So we are damned if we do, damned if we don't.

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FA I get rid of them at that point. I don't mind them having the full time at all but when they become so regular that it's hard to get them to finish, it's time they visited someone else. This is why I prefer newbies and I don't like them visiting me too often because it's not as exciting for them and I get worn out 😰.

I put on a album that cuts off just before the hour and then silence which is a bit like the lights going on when a nightclub is wanting to get you out. Most of my regulars want a little chat afterwards which I don't mind as long as its not more than 10 minutes. I leave an hour between and I need that to reset mentally and get ready, Answer texts. Its polite for the client to respect my time as I do their's.

I won't see anyone again if they book 30 minutes and I can tell they are dragging it out, I'll keep polite to a point. I think some think that not clock watching means getting so carried away we forget the time, There's a reason I want to get paid and I don't do it for free with them.

I used to have a client that would book for half an hour and I'd almost have to throw him out the door after an hour or more.  I remember one time telling him I'd arranged to go out later that evening . He said I shouldn't arrange anything else on the evenings I was due to see him as it made him feel under pressure. Never mind the fact that I was meant to be going out an hour and a half after he should have left. He was one entitled prick.

A long time ago a regular who used to over stay by quite a long time, asked could he make me a meal before our booking. I agreed (I used to think this would be appreciated eliminate the over staying at other times). I explained that on that date I had a personal commitment straight afterwards (he had a very specific time and specifics dates he required), that I needed to not go over our usual paid time.

He took a long time cooking, it became obvious we would struggle to finish at the end of the usual paid time.

Yes I was more or less pushing him out after the end of the paid portion.

This guy ended up 'paying me back' by utterly shattering my trust many further bookings down the line. Lesson learned deal with stuff early on, some people will not appreciate extra efforts, extra time, special allowances.

For balance quite a few punters, clients, regulars would not dream of overrunning, or officially extend by agreement or extra payment. Very appreciative, and quite a few ask me/look at the time.

I used to have a client that would book for half an hour and I'd almost have to throw him out the door after an hour or more.  I remember one time telling him I'd arranged to go out later that evening . He said I shouldn't arrange anything else on the evenings I was due to see him as it made him feel under pressure. Never mind the fact that I was meant to be going out an hour and a half after he should have left. He was one entitled prick.

How rude!