Hi guys,
Could anybody please offer advice or wisdom on how to get through an hour of role play?
I have spoken at length to the guy and after firstly thinking, no way, it's actually not too bad now we have rules in place and I am over the whole, 'do people really wish to do this?' mentality.
I am slightly struggling to get my head in the place it needs to be though. I fear I might laugh or end up snapping, 'Oh enough already.' As it's just all rather silly to me I'm afraid.
I will admit that if things were not so slow, I would not be doing this at all, but as it's nothing nasty he requires, I'll partake.
Also, I don't know if I'll get any help on this one.
When meeting new people I am by nature a quiet person. When I started this, that was actually my main concern. Not what I would be doing with them during the course of the meeting but rather my tendency to be quiet when meeting a new person.
To help me out a bit here, to change my habit of a lifetime which is to listen to other people and watch them for a while before I join in which makes me appear a horrible person and rather snobbish I know, but I am not
I am just a bit shy with new people.
Topics of conversation would be great. What can I talk about to ease the fist 5/10 mins? I mean, by the time he arrives, we are clear on what is and what is not going to happen so that leaves that awkward moment of what do you say once the money is exchanged and you have offered a drink? I can't bang on about the weather, I mean really, how dull is that exactly? The first 10 minutes of a booking is not a fair and accurate representation of myself due to this mental thing I have got to hold back and speak quietly.
Ideally, I would like to just open the door, take the cash and get right down to business, however, that's a bit, well, some guys might like it but others might not!
I am fine with the acts themselves, no problem, I can happily become forward then, it's just that first conversation face to face. I have always been this way, so any help will be great.
Thank you all
Jo
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