I have been seeing a client on a regular basis for almost a year now. It is not uncommon for this same client to see a few girls a week and, as a result,  he has more feedback that most escorts I know :-) The feedback he receives is grossly over- exaggerated by the girls because he sorta alludes to wanting to be the best in bed etc etc In return he leaves incredible feedback for the girls and often will go back to them. Thus, he is the perfect client and it has gotten to the point where (allegedly) girls contact him for his services because and I quote "I'm such a good f***".

Now, in a normal case, I would think that such a disillusioned ego (how many of us do this for great fucks by men over 60?) deserves to be lead on by escorts, but the point is, I'm quite fond of him. Perhaps, the other escorts are too. But his behaviour is defiantly an addiction. Not much gets mentioned about our moral responsibility towards our clients. But should we even have any? Or should we draw the line as soon as they leave?

The point is that he clearly has a problem with the number of escorts he is seeing. He is going to financially ruin himself! As we are the providers of said "drug" I wonder if I should say something. It's a case of integrity, I guess.

I do feel it is vitally important not to "research" too much into a client's feedback.  We girls must accept that we can value a client, but ultimately they have their life choices, we have ours.  There must always be a clear separation into what they choose to do and what we choose to do.  Remember that the client must accept you see multiple men, and he is entitled to see multiple women. 

Be grateful he is a regular, be grateful for his friendship, but always be mindful that in the world of escorting and clients, he will move on as will you.

Financial ruin is something we cannot "afford" to worry about with our clients.  He is an adult, he has made his decision to visit an escort (you included) and where his money is "shared" is his own decision.   Remember you are accepting his gift graciously too.

Hope you continue to enjoy his company x

I think it's important to have a "friendly relationship " with regulars, but you can do it and still make it clear that you enjoy your time with him but you won't do it without the money, as its your job.

I have met a few guys with porn addiction...that is also complicate.

I think it's important to have a "friendly relationship " with regulars, but you can do it and still make it clear that you enjoy your time with him but you won't do it without the money, as its your job.

I've got several regulars who are quite addicted. I don't think they are as prolific as you describe this one is though. Some of them have been coming for a long time and when it gets to two or three times a week I suggest they make shorter bookings. I don't worry about it too much, but I don't want anyone to bankrupt themselves because they want/need a lot of sex.

Hi and thanks again for your responses. I'm not sure what you want me to explain Amy, I think I made my post pretty clear??

Yeah, it's tough, when you realise how addicted some of them get. Also it's far more complicated that saying, he's just a client, it's business don't get involved because this is not a black and white "profession". If you have any sense of humanity you know that spending enough time with anyone will eventually lead you to wanting their well being. As it turns out we did discuss it and he was grateful for my honesty. In fact we even talked about him going into therapy. I don't see him anymore and I hope for his sake he is getting the help he needs. I did not see that as prying into his life and nor did he. I admire the hard core escort that can shut down emotionally, but I'd worry about my future self if I did that.

Again cheers for the comments. I always take everything you guys say onboard and find it very helpful, but as we of all women know, in the end, we have to follow our spidey senses :-)