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Kay

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Re: Clients with bad teeth
« Reply #15 on: 23 October 2021, 02:58:51 am »
If someone can find the money to pay for sex, they can find the money to pay for a dental check-up, even a privately.

Have to say I agree. I saw someone who didn't seem to be struggling financially but all his teeth were yellow, green or grey. I think he was an extremely heavy smoker, which was probably a factor, but even just 30 minutes with a hygienist once a year could have helped.

That said, smokiness aside, his breath wasn't anywhere near as bad as a client I saw a few times who more often than not had the most horrific halitosis. I had to drop him eventually as he wouldn't take my hints.
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« Reply #16 on: 23 October 2021, 05:46:29 am »
If someone can find the money to pay for sex, they can find the money to pay for a dental check-up, even a privately.

Sure, a check-up is affordable if you can get one, but advanced dental (ie: orthodontics) are wildly expensive outside of the NHS, and NHS dentists have become progressively harder to find. My previous day job was related to dentistry. I met many, many patients from varying socioeconomic backgrounds who would have benefited enormously from braces, jaw surgery, etc, but were not approved for NHS care or were unable to afford the treatment. Sorry to derail, I’m very passionate about affordable dental care.

To get back on topic: The minty Corsodyl is REALLY good for nuking bad breath. I generally try and make a show of it, like I’ll say something daft like “Oh I love being squeaky clean/minty fresh” (cringe) and usually they follow. It’s more difficult on outcalls obviously. Tic Tacs are a decent tactic. It’s truly stupid that I have to treat grown men like children to stop them from having a hissy fit.

Kay

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Re: Clients with bad teeth
« Reply #17 on: 23 October 2021, 06:51:23 pm »
Sure, a check-up is affordable if you can get one, but advanced dental (ie: orthodontics) are wildly expensive outside of the NHS, and NHS dentists have become progressively harder to find. My previous day job was related to dentistry. I met many, many patients from varying socioeconomic backgrounds who would have benefited enormously from braces, jaw surgery, etc, but were not approved for NHS care or were unable to afford the treatment. Sorry to derail, I’m very passionate about affordable dental care.

But you don't need any of that to have clean teeth, I think that's the point.
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« Reply #18 on: 23 October 2021, 08:37:25 pm »
But you don't need any of that to have clean teeth, I think that's the point.

Exactly.

Poor hygiene, be it stinky armpits, cheesy cocks or bad breath is poor hygiene. It's not acceptable and it shouldn't be acceptable. If more  challenged clients about this and denied service, these men might actually clean up their act.

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« Reply #19 on: 24 October 2021, 02:19:08 pm »
Untreated dental problems can't be fixed by toothbrushing alone and whilst I'm happy for the posters who have never had difficulty accessing or paying for dental care, in some parts of the country they'd be living in cloud cuckoo land if they think this is easy. I have lots of missing teeth at the back of my mouth because of overcrowding, and another big gap nearer the front (from a tooth that could probably have been saved but the treatment was far too expensive to ever be available to me, so it was taken out) and there was nothing I could have done about any of it. The smug, judgemental crap is going to stop right now.

The worst bad breath I've ever encountered aside from heavy smoking was from tonsil stones - I don't have tonsils and nothing has ever made me gladder I didn't. It was truly foul, and the punter actually apologised when he came back (thankfully he'd had them sorted)  :-X

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« Reply #20 on: 24 October 2021, 03:12:15 pm »
If someone can find the money to pay for sex, they can find the money to pay for a dental check-up, even a privately.

I suppose some can but it's not a priority to some men. Being in the industry on and off for a long period i seen some men that were very unhygienic and plenty of women that i knew would still give them DFK and OWO ( women that i knew personally) which i suppose if there is plenty who will and the odd few complain to them about there hygiene they will just think we are fussy cows. It's a vicious circle. I am not really bothered by missing teeth or not perfect teeth but if there really yellow with loads of plaque in a real mess i find it hard just looking at them let alone kissing them. It's the downside of the job unfortunately you vet them by there voice and manners on the phone.

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« Reply #21 on: 24 October 2021, 03:23:37 pm »
Amy, I respect you enormously but I am most certainly not being smug or judgemental.

 I have had great difficult accessing affordable dental care which lead to me losing a tooth. Having had another tooth knocked out previously, this left me two missing teeth, one on either side of my mouth, both gaps were noticeable. As the bone was not packed, I could not get an implant either, something that would I could never have afforded either. However, I saved up to see someone privately and got a bridge on either side. Yes, it was eye-waveringly expensive but it was some of the best money I have ever spent on myself. I sacrificed a lot to be able to pay for this work, something that was entirely my choice. Just last year I broke a tooth and it needed to be crowned. I refused to see any clients during the month it took for treatment to be completed because I was somewhat paranoid my breath might not be the freshest/the feel of the temporary tooth would be an issue.

So yes, I do understand that for many, they will not do anything about missing or crooked teeth for a myriad of reasons. But that's all by the by anyway, it's about poor dental hygiene; it is not excusable and a valid reason to decline service.

You're quite right about tonsil stones too. Thankfully, I have no tonsils either!
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Re: Clients with bad teeth
« Reply #22 on: 24 October 2021, 04:23:56 pm »
Untreated dental problems can't be fixed by toothbrushing alone and whilst I'm happy for the posters who have never had difficulty accessing or paying for dental care, in some parts of the country they'd be living in cloud cuckoo land if they think this is easy. I have lots of missing teeth at the back of my mouth because of overcrowding, and another big gap nearer the front (from a tooth that could probably have been saved but the treatment was far too expensive to ever be available to me, so it was taken out) and there was nothing I could have done about any of it. The smug, judgemental crap is going to stop right now.

The worst bad breath I've ever encountered aside from heavy smoking was from tonsil stones - I don't have tonsils and nothing has ever made me gladder I didn't. It was truly foul, and the punter actually apologised when he came back (thankfully he'd had them sorted)  :-X

Hi Amy - I feel a bit bad because I made a throwaway comment (response) a while back about a scenario where someone was insisting on DFK being a MUST, and said something along the lines of them probably having 3 teeth etc. I know it must be terribly difficult for many people who can't access the dental care that they need and I hope you didn't feel I was being insensitive. It's much easier to make flippant comments in the moment than it is to reflect on what the background might be.

This is a really difficult one. I'm not sure if people do always know that they have bad breath, as has been suggested on this thread. Many of us wouldn't dream of telling someone that they have a dental hygiene issue (I couldn't because I'd hate to hurt someone's feelings). As an ex-smoker, I know your sense of smell goes out the window, so they genuinely won't know that they stink. It could be an infection, or as you mentioned, tonsils. It's definitely not simple and I agree that you can have missing teeth and have great hygiene.

Just makes me feel even better about withdrawing DFK to be honest - I think I reached my personal point of no more 'mouth hygeiene roulette'  :-\ x

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« Reply #23 on: 24 October 2021, 08:31:45 pm »
I have imperfect teeth too and as a prossie it's always humbling to know that people spend money to be with me. For my part I very much welcome the man with eccentric teeth who has saved up to see a lady because he wants a nice experience. I have seen enough guys with pearly smiles to know that appearances aren't everything. Health is another matter entirely. Cosmetics are nice to have if you can afford it
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