hi

the only thing i see wrong with this post is you say you are doing owo are you letting them talk you into owo. if you offer oral with on you ad and then do owo  because they persuade you that wrong on every level.

l if your intention is to do owo that ok but if it isnt then why are you letting them do this to you


rose xxx.

Quite normal especially on longer bookings.Alot of men like to chat and have companionship as well as a shag.

I am a chatty person and I find that I can chat a bit of an hour away... and I was worried that maybe that wasn't what they really wanted. So, I've started just making a move physically earlier in the booking. Sit really close, touch them, lean in and kiss them.

I do make a point of asking "So,  you think you've got more than one orgasm in you, or shall I try and make the one last as long as possible?" If they indicate that they want to cum more than once, then I'll go ahead and let them cum as quickly as they like. Then there's a bit of a cuddle and a chat. Problem is, they often realise that they don't actually have a second round in them and then I wonder if A) I should have drawn the first one out longer or B) my chattiness - especially after they've blown off some steam - has not been a turn-on because I'm not being a porno fantasy.

So I am still trying to work on myself to make my services more extraordinary. In addition to cutting down on the introductory small talk, I'm trying to continue the sexy mood even after they've cum. I'm doing things like saying "OK, now it's my turn" and telling them how to get me off (very simple without much effort on their part if they just do the thing I like). I may suggest a massage and keep it a bit erotic so as to try and get them hard again with plenty of time to finish a second time.

Ok, one more of my very naive questions.

The clients I had so far spent at least 50% of the booking...talking and discussing things and comparing London and Paris (I'm from there).

Ok, I shouldn't complain, right? Or should I ?
My clients are men starting 40/45 and older. I find it a bit "tricky" to say "ok, let's have sex now". So mostly I arrive, they offer a drink, ask how I like London, tell me how they like Paris... And then sex itself is like 15min...

Weird??? Or normal???

Also, most are married, can't deal with condoms so it ends up with OWO.

Am I the only one here with this kind of clients or is it just normal?

I really like the talkative clients, personally. And yes, it's really common in longer bookings.

Early on I've had more guys who'd rather get a BJ rather than regular sex, but it's a fairly even split these days. I get a lot of married clients as well, but I've never had any of them be unable to deal with condoms. Granted, I don't do OWO so I suppose the totally anti-condom guys simply don't bother seeing me.

I've noticed some guys get slightly softer with a condom on, but never enough to make penetration a problem. That is unless they've already nutted once, keeping them firm with anything but oral the second time around can be a real bother, and condom really doesn't help any.

Quote from: The_Lynx on 29 July 2014, 11:31:41 am

I've noticed some guys get slightly softer with a condom on, but never enough to make penetration a problem. That is unless they've already nutted once, keeping them firm with anything but oral the second time around can be a real bother, and condom really doesn't help any.

Ok. So suppose he hasn't come yet and gets the condom on and goes down. How do I put him uppp? Lol