I just wanted to say that I too am sorry  if my post came across in a  harsh unfeeling manner. I thought that you were referring to the geuine nervous people who twitter away nervously and perhaps don't even realsie/think about what they are saying. My mind immediately jumped to 'Ooh that's a bit harsh!'

Having re read what you have written I can now see  your meaning much clearer. I always stay away from talking about personal issues with a client. Okay, sometimes they may  mention a wife /girlfriend which I don't mind. But knowing the ins and outs is   really unnecessary.

Particularly  the heaping of a whole sob story on to you. Like .' Woe is me. Oh what have I done? Oh, how will I ever live/forgive myself?'

It's like hitting yourself on the head with a hammer for five days in a row and then saying'Oh God! Why am i doing this to myself?'


So,  there you go my apologies. .

I think we should charge extra for hearing sob stories, hehe! 

i had one guy in ireland come to see me  he paid and despite me telling him to slow down   it was over pretty quickly  ( he then said he felt guilty as he was married  and could he have some money back???)

now had he not asked me i would have happily given him something back but when they are asking and trying to say its cos they feel guiltly its a big no   

What a dope.
  Once I had a guy pay me extra for a-levels (back when I charged extra for it.) In the end though he did it for only a minute before decideding he didn't like it. In reality his cock was too small.
   He asked if he could have the money back since it didn't really happen but I told him since he tried it counts, no refunds.

What am I a clothing store? I don't offer refunds FFS