Was i right to turn down a client who pretended to only have ?50 for my ?80 fee. And then magically turn out ?20 extra but still ?10 under my fee? He was so shocked that i would turn down ?70.

I think it's so rude and cheeky i turn ALL clients down no matter how far they've traveled to see me! Am i right to do this. Work is good for me right now so i'm allowed to pick and choose. How do you deal with these kind of clients because i seem to get a fair amount.

Was i right to turn down a client who pretended to only have ?50 for my ?80 fee. And then magically turn out ?20 extra but still ?10 under my fee? He was so shocked that i would turn down ?70.

I think it's so rude and cheeky i turn ALL clients down no matter how far they've traveled to see me! Am i right to do this. Work is good for me right now so i'm allowed to pick and choose. How do you deal with these kind of clients because i seem to get a fair amount.

I see them because money is money adding them to my list of hagglers. But wouldn't take a big drop for the same amount of time. The time would need to be cut. It don't happen to me much though.

I think that's the epitome of rudeness! I would be tempted to chuck the guy out even if he suddenly "found" the rest of the money in his wallet. It just shows a complete lack of respect, and I think in this industry, having respect from clients is one of the highest priorities.

You did good

I'd never in a million years entertain the likes of that. How rude an disrespectful.

No disrespect to the girl who said money is money (that's your opinion and your entitled to it) But the reason why chancers like these try to pull a fast one is cause eventually they will get to someone who will still see them same as you get drunk arseholes phoning you through the night for a shag (which I'd never do) but again loads will so they think its acceptable behaviour.

Again you get rude people phone up and say the rudest, crudest things ever which leaves me baffled each time that they think that because we are escorts or "hookers" as they call us that its acceptable to speak to someone like that but again the reason why they do it is cause SOMEONE will see them cause they think money is money!

I mentioned on a another thread that saving money and having some behind you is KEY in this industry so that your NEVER EVER in a situation where money is money or you need it to pay your rent or you'll get chucked out. Us girls are already in a very vulnerable situation as it is, 100 million times more vulnerable when willing to see any old arsehole cause you really need the money.

Phew rant over, To the OP in short I think you did the right thing, good on you.

  

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Was i right to turn down a client who pretended to only have ?50 for my ?80 fee. And then magically turn out ?20 extra but still ?10 under my fee? He was so shocked that i would turn down ?70.

I think it's so rude and cheeky i turn ALL clients down no matter how far they've traveled to see me! Am i right to do this. Work is good for me right now so i'm allowed to pick and choose. How do you deal with these kind of clients because i seem to get a fair amount.

Yes you were right in turning him down. It sems he thought you were desperate for any amount of money he offered so tried to offer you a low fee first. When clients turn up always take the money first and count it as some try that trick of getting the service first then paying you less after.The service has already been given so it will leave you feeling used and angry.

Yes times are hard if they can't afford to pay for a service then they should not turn up for a booking it is that simple. Whatever sad notion they have about escorts andf money they need to get out of their heads. We are not all desperate for any little change they decide they want to throw at us.

In saying that if you decide you want to take the money offered by the client it is entirely up to you. We do what we want to in this business.

I will admit I have seen guys who have done this and I hate my self for it and me and others are part of the reason why they do it again, but these guys have always got me on a day where it's very quiet and I've turned a booking down for them.. I tell you what they get the worst bloody service going, I look so un interested and peed off. But I think what you have done is the right way and we should all do that , they wouldn't turn up to any other appointment with short money. I'm making a pact with myself to NEVER see the arse holes again .no exception.well done. I hate the cheeky gets. A guy in midlands come in with less money said he only wanted quickie I reluctantly saw him, then wanted to come twice, I got him by arm and said leave your taking the piss! I do have a line

I work based in Ireland so get it quite a bit. If it's a slow week I will allow if but I cut their time down accordingly. If they want to cry and moan over it then they are shown the door. Needless to say though they arent seen again unless full fee is produced.

I just wonder how they think that if they have the cheek to short change you they will still receive a full service with enthusiasm.

Its human nature to resent someone who has been rude towards you in which ever way yet they are the ones who will run your name down for being shit on your feedback or forums, they have nothing to loose so they don't care where as I care about my name being tarnished by these loosers.

I'd never in a million years dream of entertaining someone like that. Everyone has their own reasons as to why they do/don't do certain things but my moto has always been.........

*Offer "vanilla, protected" services!
*Be careful & selective about who I meet with for example I only meet with men who phone me and speak politely and friendly on the phone, ask if they have read my profile and are happy with the services offered!
*Save my money!
*Be discrete!
*Stick to my guns and never lower my standards for anyone!

And believe it or not as strict as I am, It works very well for me.

Sure I have men come in sometimes who man handle men, I'd just never see them again!

I have became more strict over the last wee while since I started about 20 months ago due to past bad experiences due to my own fault for not being as careful as I could have been. Granted I will have lost out on a few decent clients cause for whatever reason I haven't liked their phone manner when infact they are nice, genuine people but I'd rather loose out on a few decent ones than let my guard down and have people walk all over the top of me.

True saying that people will only treat you how you allow them to.

  

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