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Lil Lolita

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Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« on: 18 November 2014, 02:15:41 pm »
This hasn't happened to me this time round, but I was wondering what YOU would do if you had a client who kept texting.

Say you had met this client and they were keen to see you again and become a regular, but you got the occasion text from them in between meets, and they wanted pictures.

Would you put them in their place and just say something like 'until we meet again'? Or go along with it? Just a scenario, good preparation in case it may ever happen lol!

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Re: Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« Reply #1 on: 18 November 2014, 02:50:33 pm »
I don't text clients full stop.
Its a rule of mine NO TEXTS!  I talk to clients if they are calling to book an incall otherwise I don't do chit chat or send photos etc.
Too much personal interaction for me blurs the client/escort status quo but that's just me and how I see it. 
I wouldn't call or text a client at random times so why I accept it, expect it or encourage it?
I have to say I do consider myself very "old school"

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Re: Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« Reply #2 on: 18 November 2014, 03:00:27 pm »
I don't text clients full stop.
Its a rule of mine NO TEXTS!  I talk to clients if they are calling to book an incall otherwise I don't do chit chat or send photos etc.
Too much personal interaction for me blurs the client/escort status quo but that's just me and how I see it. 
I wouldn't call or text a client at random times so why I accept it, expect it or encourage it?
I have to say I do consider myself very "old school"
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Re: Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« Reply #3 on: 18 November 2014, 03:03:06 pm »
I have heaps of pics on my website, and update regularly. If they want fanny shots, they can subscribe to my private gallery. If any guy was crass enough to request a picture, I'd point him in the direction of my PG, or text something like: 4gottn wot I look like already? Ur 2 young to go senile. Book me & refresh ur memory (or similar juvenile text speak). I'd hope they get the message, without getting pissed off. Request free wank material? Pffff, take a hike.
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Re: Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« Reply #4 on: 18 November 2014, 03:44:25 pm »
No to pics. I have my PG for that.

I have 2 very good regulars that I see very often, three times a month at least, that I like and who always bring me very nice gifts. If they call I will pick up, mostly it's "how's your day going" and it's 2 minutes chat. But: I KNOW that the next day they will send a text to book me. So it's just our way of doing it.

Other regulars can text to book. If they text to chat they get the standard answer "I'm fine, just busy, let me know if you want to meet again xxx" or similar. If they want to text they have their wives for that:)

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Re: Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« Reply #5 on: 18 November 2014, 03:58:11 pm »
Agree with the other girls I never text only contact I have is via Aw quick messages about booking deal sealed and then a phone call day of to confirm and give address. I done this once with a guy before when I escorted he got to clingy thought he owned me started with the "I love you" nonsense  :FF expected me to stay 5-6 hours for the price of a 2 hour meet all because he took me for dinner first .... I quickly wised up and told him I'd no feelings toward him and best he stopped texting and seeing me.... Next thing because yes I was naive and stupid and because I'd seen him about 10 times he knew my real name he looked me up on Facebook!!! Started private messaging me  :o I had a nosey and there where pics of his wife and kids all playing happy families  ::) I blocked him there too and ended up deactivating said Facebook account .... Lesson learned  :D

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« Reply #6 on: 18 November 2014, 06:04:12 pm »
I will only respond to a regulars text and even if they dare ask for pics etc I just ignore their requests, they get the message. I have had clients try and and get a free dirty talk phone call from me but I always cut them off by telling them that I will only be available for Direct Chat when I have time.

But majority of the time you have to ask yourself whether the aggro is really worth it just to try and placate a man who might turn into being a regular, this is a business and our clients need to be reminded of that fact too from time to time.

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Re: Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« Reply #7 on: 18 November 2014, 11:16:41 pm »
I recently saw a guy second time and he started to text me after he left and next day.. He is young and I like him, but in the end I told him Im an escort and this has to end, he can text me only when he wants to book me.
He understood and apologized, I really hope to see him again as he is lovely..

Almost half of my bookings come from texts. I dont need to talk to them if their texts are writen in a polite good english and they ask the right questions.
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Re: Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« Reply #8 on: 19 November 2014, 12:27:48 am »
I ignore texts that aren't related to a booking. Pictures are in my private gallery, no one gets any freebies.

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Re: Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« Reply #9 on: 19 November 2014, 12:52:11 am »
Unfortunately there will always be boundary pushers; if you humour these guys they'll just push for more, pic on Monday, video Tuesday, sexting Wednesday... You get the picture.
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Re: Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« Reply #10 on: 19 November 2014, 02:32:48 pm »
I've got one that texts me all the time, he wants to make a booking to trample him with me in an old pair of converse.
Which is fine, but he never actually books  ::)
Then I've got another one, who wants to be my "friend", he used to be a client, but he started booking me for an hour,
then stay for 3 hours because we "only used the hour for actual sex".
I put a stop to it, and said it was in the end just work for me, and if you want to spend 3 hours with me you'll have to pay for 3 hours.
He wasn't a client anymore after that, but he still e-mails, texts, and wants to come and see me for a "chat and a cuppa".
He is a nice guy, but I like to keep my work and my private life separate, yet I don't have the heart to say to him I don't
want to see him socially, I just keep making up excuses  :(
Or not even excuses, I just don't have time, and I have no desire to spend time with him either, without sounding harsh..
It's just people-pleasing, and I'm usually pretty good with NOT doing that, but he is a decent guy and I know he means well. :-\
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Re: Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« Reply #11 on: 03 December 2014, 09:36:09 pm »
Hi, newbie here. Been having a similar problem with a client and was looking through the forum to see if there were posts about it. The guy seems lovely, but the messages are verging on the "I like you, let's hang out and then...". But it seems to be quite a common occurrence. Any advice on how to politely but firmly spurn his ahem "advances"?  ??? Thanking you kindly in advance.
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Re: Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« Reply #12 on: 03 December 2014, 09:41:25 pm »
Hi, newbie here. Been having a similar problem with a client and was looking through the forum to see if there were posts about it. The guy seems lovely, but the messages are verging on the "I like you, let's hang out and then...". But it seems to be quite a common occurrence. Any advice on how to politely but firmly spurn his ahem "advances"?  ??? Thanking you kindly in advance.

Hi Holly and welcome to SAAFE :)

We have had a few threads like this (and more than usual recently, for whatever reason) but basically the easiest way to deal with it is to text back with something like 'That'd be great! Just get in touch when you'd like to book and let me know when and how long for' and then don't answer any more texts that aren't about a proper appointment. They get bored eventually when you don't answer, and if it gets brought up in a whingey way just point out that you were probably shagging another punter when it arrived and overlooked it :).

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Re: Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« Reply #13 on: 03 December 2014, 10:10:51 pm »
Hi Amy! Thank you for the welcome and for the advice. So glad I found SAAFE, it's chalk full of info! LOL! ;D best one liner on shagging another punter, going to be a good one in the arsenal. Sorry, not sorry Mr Whinger!

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Re: Clients who start wanting more/texting a lot
« Reply #14 on: 03 December 2014, 11:01:35 pm »
best one liner on shagging another punter

That's a good tactic that I've been using already for a long time. I let them believe that I am busy all day and every day, even when I'm not. Then there's a reason why there's no time for idle chat and texting etc. I sometimes play hard to get with the persistent ones and that often works too. Also there are quite a few guys who are turned on by the thought of you non stop shagging and it encourages them to book.